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Name: yet_another_tear
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My parents sent me to "counseling." After that it only gets worse!!!!! I mean why can't they just leave us the hell alone??? If anyone has answer I would LOVE to know!!!!!!!!!
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Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 11:35 PM
Find out you ...what? 

Name: winnmom | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 12:05 AM
yes find out you what?
We can not answer a question that is not complete. 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 2:16 AM
Probably because they are your parents and they care and are trying any way they know how to help you. 

Name: ash2 | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 3:28 AM
You dont understand right now, but when you get older and have kids of your own, you will understand ! 

Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 1:25 AM
are you ever going to finish answering everyone? find out you are WHAT!!! LOL 

Name: yet_another_tear | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 12:37 PM
i ment to put "why do your parents freak when they find out you cut?" 


Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 11:59 PM
Mostly b/c they are scared for you. I mean, if you had a daughter that came home and rolled up her sleeves, and the had cuts all up her arm, wouldn't you freak out? I mean, they probably think you have been trying to commit suicide or something.

And when you cut are you usually mad or depressed? They might (jussst might, LOL!) not be so stupid, and they pick up on the fact that you use it to help yourself get through things. And it probably makes them feel like they arent doing their job as parents, No matter HOW confident they are in their parenting.

Pc,
~ bladerunnerx16 

Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 12:04 AM
bump 

Name: winnmom | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 6:47 AM
Because they love you!!!!
They want to help any way they can.....
If one of my kids were cutting I would feel like I was not seeing what I should be......I would feel so hurt for them....I would want to help them and get them the help that they need.....
Not being able to release the pain inside, so cutting is not an answer.......I would do anything for my children....
This is probably why parents freakl out!!!!

*hey good answer blade! 

Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 2:21 AM
thanks winnmom! 

Name: babey_g_311 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 7:18 AM
ummm duh? u can cut too deep and kill yourself.....be thankfull you have parents who care 

Name: degrassigal121 | Date: Feb 24th, 2007 2:09 AM
because cutting=not mentally stable. You can say they don't care about you and who knows it may be a rare case where they really don't care. but they do care what ppl think 

Name: babygurl2cute30 | Date: Mar 12th, 2007 7:04 PM
why did they send you to counseling? 

Name: madiduff123 | Date: Mar 17th, 2007 3:39 PM
Parents are what make life great and I no all of us did not like them at a time but listen to what they are saying nad love her because one day you are going to regret every thing you did!!!! 

Name: madiduff123 | Date: Mar 17th, 2007 3:41 PM
Parents are what make life great and I no all of us did not like them at a time but listen to what they are saying and love them because one day you are going to regret every thing you did because you wont have them any more!!!! 

Name: ashtonHxCemolovesheather | Date: May 27th, 2007 4:07 AM
its because,
most peoples parents are dumbasses, and get into their sons/daughters personal space to damn much, and are control freaks...

did you tell your mom your bi? 

Name: DefendUs | Date: May 27th, 2007 2:20 PM
... 

Name: DefendUs | Date: May 27th, 2007 2:22 PM
Krystina are you still on? 

Name: Zebra111 | Date: Aug 21st, 2009 5:52 AM
They might just not understand . Help them understand and then they will take credit for helping you but at least you know its you. Some people see thier children as themselfs. They don' t admit it- but they are still learning , give them time to figure it out. Sometimes the councelors know its the parents that need help but they can't say that. Or maybe you need to pick the councelor- someone cool make a deal with them. Its time to raise your parents 

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