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Name: theownsthatreallysuffer [ Original Post ] why do my mother blame me for things that I haven't and don't do? lLike im bulimic and a druggie. Her newest topic is yelling at my for having sex with one of my teachers?!?! wtf im still a virgin and planning of being one for a longer period of time. She even put me on birthcontrol! where does she get these crazy ideas? Is there anyway of talking to her that would be more effective? I think she is trying to help in a werid sorta way..... thx Rose ↓

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Name: winnmom | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 6:04 AM

Sounds like your Mom is trying to communicate , but really struggling in the department...... I suggest sitting down with your Mom one on one......And dicussing every thing with her......Put it all out on the table..... Maybe she is worried that you are not communicating with her, so she is jumping to conclussions? Let us know how it goes. ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 3:53 PM

Sounds like your mother needs to see a therapist. Her behavior toward you sounds irrational! Find a relative you can talk to like an aunt (someone who knows you and your mom well) and ask them if they think your mom needs some kind of professional help and tell them what she says to you and ask their opinion and for their help with your mom. good luck! ↑

Name: CutsBruises | Date: Feb 3rd, 2007 5:56 PM

Give her a slap, and say SHUTUP WOMEN ↑

Name: sunflower | Date: Feb 3rd, 2007 6:17 PM

lLike im bulimic and a druggie. Sorry i didn't understand this bit,are you saying that you are bulimic and a druggie,or are you saying that this is what your mum had been saying? ↑

Name: mystic1306 | Date: Feb 6th, 2007 9:30 PM

Ask her why she's so worried, is that the way she acted when she was a teenager? You may be surprised at the answer! ↑

Name: PosersNFakes | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 9:37 PM

i like willys they r cool ↑

Name: bravebusch | Date: Feb 24th, 2007 6:11 PM

Perhaps you mom is remembering what she was like at your age and wrongly assuming you might be like her. Is there a counselor at school or other adult you can talk to that will give you a more appropriate view on life? I'm not saying ignore your mom, but you need an advocate who's supportive of you. ↑

Name: degrassigal121 | Date: Feb 24th, 2007 7:42 PM

omg, ur mom and my mom have to have ben seperated at birth ↑

Name: Screaming2BeHerd | Date: Feb 25th, 2007 3:40 PM

omg i cn so relate to u i cnt even talkin to my mum now shes putting me in anger managment gr8... she blames me bcoz she cnt go out n see her friends shes shouts at me bcoz im not top in the class its like i can never do anything right i tried writin things dwn in a letter once it kinda workd but the thing that help me the most was havin a 3rd person looking in on the situation helpin us 2 work things out we all sat dwn n spoke about wt pissd us off it reli helpd ↑

Name: dragraught | Date: Mar 2nd, 2007 3:48 AM

moms they are so wiered. well i am 14 and a boy so no birthcomtrol 4 me but. moms just worry and dont want u to grow up to fast. they are just weired thats all i can sya weired ↑