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hey i am 19 years old and well i know for a fact that i am a cutter... i dont wish to seek attention and i dont want special attention.. i honestly dont know why i do it ?!? i do know for a fact that my parents did abuse me not only phisically but also mentally... my problem is i cant stop see i just moved out of my parents house may 17th 2007 and i moved in with my fiance who is now my husband... well my problem is that im still cutting and i cant stop its like im addicted to it... i only cut when im upset and well i just cut no less then 24 hrs ago.... i told him and well he told me that he didnt know wat to do?!? so i went to his mom and she said that she would get me help... what does that mean will i get locked away in a hospital? please help me im scared... ↓
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| Name: atlfinest001 | Date: Jul 25th, 2007 1:53 PM |
| Name: David_82 | Date: Jul 25th, 2007 5:02 PM |
you wont be put in a hospital, theyll take you most probrbly a counsellor and theyll talk to you about how regular u cut, why you think, and about your past and theyll help you find other coping mechanisms rather then cutting, like excercising.
dont be worried about being locked up its common and it can be helped. ↑ |
| Name: Ashlea 88 | Date: Jul 25th, 2007 6:30 PM |
most cases they wont lock you up in a hospital they will let you see a coucillor in most cases.. if you do it and they are worried for you than yeah they will put you in one, but that is only if they think that you are gonna kill yourself.. i used to be a self harmer cause i had not a good life as well and i was hospitalized only when i cut to the point where they were scared that i was gonna kill myself.. and/or if i took pills....(od)..
i wil tell you though that it is not an easy road to stop self harming it is a lot of work and takes a lot of time to stop...
but i have anorexia still and i just recently with help stopped self harming..
hope all is well..
id you need to talk e mail me at
[email protected]
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| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 12:13 AM |
| Name: hateitall | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 6:45 AM |
| I'm 16 years old and i use to cut, i got kicked out of school for it, lost ALL my friends from it, not even kidding, ALL of them, i went through 4 counslers, and now im homeschooled because no one could deal with it, i know this sounds super lame and it did to me when i heard it too, but its true, you need to focus your anger on something less violent, i know its hard to stop cutting, it is actually an addiction because when you cut endophins let loose in your body and thats what gives you that tingly sensation that makes you feel releaved, you need to get into something you like, for me, i like to write, when i get pissed or upset i write crazy ass poems and storys like stuff only i can understand or i draw something to explain how i feel, anything would be better than cutting its a terrible habbit and ive seen 2 of my friends really mess up they're lives from it. I havent cut in almost a year and I barly even think about it anymore, you just need to be strong and focus your negative energy on something positive, you can run, write, draw, exercise, just anything to get you mind off whatever you were upset about, i hope i helped you, good luck with everything. ↑ |
| Name: emo is love | Date: Sep 20th, 2007 11:37 PM |
| i started 2 cut n have nw stopped its not so bad u wont have 2 go to hospital or nethin like that all that u do is see a counsellor or someone similar who will help u talk bout problems at first u tink that its not goin 2 work but if u realli want 2 stop then u will stop all u need is sum gurrrrd help xox ↑ |
| Name: daisy255 | Date: Oct 26th, 2007 9:56 PM |
| no sweeti. they won't lock you away. you need help. your brave for writing this post. my daughter went through this. ↑ |
| Name: SUSY123 | Date: Oct 29th, 2007 5:03 AM |
| I WAS A CUTTER SINCE I WAS 12 NOW IM ALMOST 19 ALMOST 7 YEARS I WAS ABUSE TOO I MOVE OUT OF MY HOUSE WHEN I WAS 17 TEEN I KEPT COMING BACK TO MY MOS HOUS AND I WOULD CUT MY SELF UNTIL THEY WHERE GOING TO PUT ME IN A SUICIDE REHABILITATION KINDA HOME OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT I GOT SCARE I TOLD THEM I COULDTN GO THREW THAT I WOULD HELP MY SELF EVENTUALLY I STOP I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT HELP ME CAUSE REALIZE UR NOT ONLY HURTING YOURSELF BUT OTHERS AROUND YOU I WOULD THINK ABOUT HIM WHEN ILL ALMOST CUT OR ILL CRY SO MUCH ASKING 4 HELP THEN I WOULD TRY TO GET DISTRACTED BY THE TIME I KNEW IT I WAS OVER IT I KEPT DOING THAT YOU COULD ONLY HELP URSELF THINK OF WAYS TO COME OUT OF IT OR THINGS THAT DISTRACT YOU ONLY IF YOU WANT TO GET OUT OF IT..... ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Nov 1st, 2007 5:06 PM |
| Atlfinest001~ Many abuse victims are cutters. They will cut to externalize their pain. When they learn to take the pain from with in, and move it to the out side... then the cutting can stop. How that is done is to open up and talk don't keep in side the things that hurt. Many people who are not up front, out spoken or verbal have the same cutting issue they keep all their feelings inside never discussing them. Seek counseling it will help, there you will learn the ways to deal with it. Good luck hon! ↑ |
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