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Name: alex
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hi im 16, and i already had a miscarriage, i had sex about a little over a week ago and i think i might be pregnant again, we didnt use protection and he cummened in me alot and it was around the time i was ovelating. When o you think i should take the test? and what happenes if you smoke well not knowing your pregnant what will happen to the baby?
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Name: Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 21st, 2006 3:24 PM
wait until you are actually late before you test and I know several women who smoked and had perfectly healthy babies.....I'm not saying to not try and quit but its healthier for you all around to quit. 

Name: n.n. | Date: May 22nd, 2006 4:07 PM
Why are you so hell bent on being a teen mom? Do you think it would be fun? Who's going to pay for your kid? Don't you know diapers cost $$? Do you even know how much formula is? Do you know all babies do is pee,poop,puke,and cry? What the hells wrong with you? Get off your back and out of bed with your bum boyfriend and get a life!!!!!! 

Name: amy | Date: May 22nd, 2006 8:28 PM
look im 16 im 35 weeks pregnant and its no fun been pregnant and its no fun having people saying your going to be a bad mum belive me dont get pregnant because its a big responsability 

Name: meia | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 9:18 PM
have u spoke to parents 

Name: faye | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 12:44 PM
i had a miscarriage at 16 and i kno exactly how you feel, its so hard to deal with ive got a gap in my life where my baby should be now, im trying again and yes my parents know, if you feel its right then go for it. good luck babes [email protected] if you need more advise im 17 too xx 

Name: mickey | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:56 PM
HOW DO I KNOW IF IM PREGNANT? 


Name: mickey | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:56 PM
how would i be like? 

Name: Natalie | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 8:16 PM
If you don't have an abortion it's going to ruin your life.
I had my kid when I was 25 and regret it... now I can't even have her at home because I can't afford to feed and care for her... if you aren't upper middle class right now ... you are f*cked... get out of this while there is still time! it will ruin your life!!! 

Name: sally24 | Date: Aug 7th, 2006 1:20 PM
How do you know if your pregnant , well considering the circumstances your probably pregnant , but why are you trying to be ? do you realize how much it is going to cost to raise , cloth feed a child , how you will have to give of yourself completly 24/7 how do you plan on finishing school ? affording an apartment ? what kind of job would you be able to get ? you have the rest of your life to live , how in the world are you going to give a baby a good life when you don't even have your own yet ? it costs 60 bucks at minimum a week for diapers probably 30 for formula if your not planning on breast feeding , let alone everything else , I mean honestly if your not pregnant count your lucky stars and go get on the pill or something , wait till later to have a baby I know that urge to be a mother , but go volunteer at a daycare or do some babysitting and make some extra money, but being a mother though a wonderfull thing is a life altering expreince and is best done when you are more ready and well older. 

Name: Rebeca | Date: Aug 8th, 2006 8:17 AM
hi im 18 and have a 6month old son. i didn't have anything when i found out that i was pregnant. ya i was going to collage at the age of 16-17 and had my baby 3 days before i turned 18. And my know husband and i planed having a baby. My mom and dad told me that if i had my baby i would have nothing to offer him. My son would suffer in life. I know have a 3 bed room house in my and my husbands name and 2005 car. We also own a video store. and my son has every thing that you can name. and of some things he has 2 of them. My husband and i both have good jobs. And we both put our son first. yes i wanted tell i was 18 to have my son. cuz i know that i could get a better job at that age. but at times i laugh cuz my mom, dad, aunts, everyone that was older than me told me that i was going to fall right on my ass and my son was going to be right be hind me. Well my son and i are doing better than some of my older friend that have 3 children. and have been on there own for years. like that friend is 35 and i have a 3 bed room house in my name. Well anyways I'm not telling you "ya go and get pregnant and have fun" because fun no its not all fun. it is truly labor. when you hear people say well i was in labor of 5 or 12 hours and then pushed. Well i have been in labor for 6 months. yes babies are all cute, But they truly need a good home and some one to love them. Does your man want a baby? why bring a child into the world knowing that it will not have a daddy what to love it. How will you go to school? I have every thing that i could ever ask for. but i don't have the time to go to school. and i beat myself up inside because i didn't think of that. i don't have the time or extra money for daycare. So grily think long and hard about what ur doing. If you know that you can offer your child a loving home and life then go for it. have you talked to your mom and dad. They will tell you no i beet. Not to make you mad but they are the ONLY people that know what is best for you. ya i didn't listen to my mom but at times i wish i did. I love my son to death. but I still cant live my dream. I wanted to go to school. but know i have to wait cuz my son needs to got to school know. so think about it. 

Name: David | Date: Jul 10th, 2007 12:26 AM
you are 16 and had a miscarriage and you are asking have sex with no protection I will answer it this way were are your parents the first thing I would do is give you the hardest spanking I know how, then I would forbid you to date untill your 18 and then I would have your tubes tied we don't need anymore mothers like you. 

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