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Name: JustGem
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im 21 and i found out 2 weeks ago. im so scared. i never wanted to be a single mum. but i guess things dont always work out the way we want. im not sure how to handle this. i wasnt ready for a baby and i dont really wanna be a mum. i know its not the end of the world but im just terrified about how my life is going to change. at the moment its all about me. i go to work, i go to the gym and i go out and party. im worried i wont be happy or resent my baby for the way my life changes. i wish i could be happy and excited but im terrified and just cant seem to get my head around it. HELP!!!
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Name: sweetbeginnings | Date: Jul 19th, 2007 5:09 AM
Just Gem, have you considered all of your options? Please email me and I can forward you some good resources so that whatever decision you make you can do so well informed. [email protected] 

Name: lizzvoltage | Date: Aug 17th, 2007 8:18 AM
i feel the same way. please email me at [email protected]
i'm pregnant and 21 too, i just found out this week. 

Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Aug 17th, 2007 10:56 AM
don't stress!! Take each day as it comes. I am 21 also and single i have no contact with my babies daddy (thats the way it has to be unforantely) and i had my daughter in may. Yes a baby will change your life, but in a good way. They bring so much joy. Its amazing. i was very scared and nervous all the way through my pregnancy but good friends and family make a world of difference.
No one ever wants to be a single mum, but trust me you can do this!
Take it each day as it comes and come on here any time and voice the wya you feel! and everything you are feeling is totally normal.!
Best of Luck :)
Nikki 

Name: m2m4christ | Date: Sep 1st, 2007 7:14 PM
Have you considered adoption? My husband and I have two children but just found out we aren't able to have any more birth children. We have always wanted a big family, and are considering adoption. Please email me at [email protected].

Melissa and David Morrisette 

Name: stef | Date: Sep 14th, 2007 9:32 PM
Im also 9 weeks gone...im no longer with the father and to complicate things he still lives with his ex and his 4 year old liitle girl. He wants me to have an abortion but i dont think I could go through with it. Like me I feel a baby will change everything and am not sure if i'm ready for the change. If you want to chat just let me know. 

Name: Maria | Date: Sep 17th, 2007 10:48 PM
Hi my name is Maria and I live in San Antonio Texas. You can e-mail me at... [email protected] if you want to talk.
When I got pregnant for the first time I was living in my apartment, working three part time jobs, and of course going out with my friends. I had thought about me having a baby but I didn't actually plan it. It just happened and of course i wanted my little girl. I thought my life wouldn't change all that much but it sure did. I couldn't continue to work because there was no one to watch my baby and i didn't trust just anyone. My social life pretty much came to an end. I was always tired and over whelmed because I was doing everything by myself. So your life will change a lot but it's really up to you how you want to handle all of these changes that are coming.
Good luck sweetie and if you need me just write.
Maria 


Name: gigantic | Date: Sep 16th, 2010 4:31 PM
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