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Name: JANNA, MARIE

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IM 23 AND MUM TO AARON WHOS ALMOST 3, MY PARTNER LEFT ME WHEN I WAS PREGNANT.
WHEN THE CSA GOT INVOLVED I WASNT SURE IF IT WAS WHAT I WANTED BUT I WAS DOING THIS FOR MY SON.
3 YEARS AND I HAVE HAD NOTHING FROM THEM, NOT A PENNY AND EVERYDAY IS BEGINNING TO GET A REAL STRUGGLE, I WANT TO GIVE MY SON THE BEST IN LIFE RITE NOW I FEEL LIKE A BAD MUM AND I GET UPSET ABOUT THIS ALOT. ↓

Name: dmac | Date: Jan 20th, 2006 5:38 AM

Your son doesn't need the bes tin life, just a Mom that cares. If you made it this far, you'll do OK. I know its tough without help and you're the one that has to do without while the father is God knows where, but keep the faith and you'll find that a break will come your way, es[pecially if yo\u believe in that things will get better for you ↑

Name: Sarah | Date: Jan 21st, 2006 9:29 PM

Well hun I am also 23 and I have a 4 year old son . I was and still am married to his dad. But his dad lives 500 miles away and dosnt want anything to do with my son. And I have learned to accept it. It really is hard. I know I havent had his dad around for 2 1/2 years. If it wasn't for my mom I wouldn't know where I would be at. I have never got child support for my son. And then now I;m pregnant again but a diffrent guy that I have been with for 2 years and now he dosnet want anything to do with this baby. So I will be raising two kids on my own I'm terrified. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. It;s hard and anyone that can sit and say oh it's nothing you can do blah blah blah. No matter what the emotions of the whold thing is enough to put you through hell. Just keep your head up and enjoy that baby. May god bless you both and take care!
I just posted a peom called Daddy's gone take a look at it. It would be really nice for you to read. I think you will like it.
Sarah I also have a journal if you would like to take a look I'm under tylersmom ↑