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Name: justus

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we have been having BIG problems for over 2 yrs, my 8 yr old son has seen it and tels me he hates him for not being a good dad, n want us to start our relationship again, but we can't. its so hard and now we have an 11 month baby and in debt and no job due to the economy.. but every weekend i feel like is going to bee hell and just waiting for arguments or trying to get away, i have to leave him, and i should not care for him since he does not for me, but i do have a heart THIS IS KILLING ME INSIDE...i need to talk to people about it i need to meet knew friends who know about this feelings. ↓

Name: Skillet | Date: Nov 29th, 2009 4:04 AM

HI JustUs
Your situation sounds almost like mine. We've been married 10 years next May and have an 8 year old son but he seems to take both sides....it's heading towards the final d and mixed feelings over it. ↑

Name: melandtwo | Date: Dec 1st, 2009 9:46 AM

Hello, my names Mel, am new to this site. Recently got out of very similar situation - have a 6yr old daughter from previous rel, met the new partner and things moved very quickly, we have a 2 month old son now and our rel was terrible my daughter started hating him and I dreaded any time I had to spend with him bec I knew it would cause stress and arguments - we have seperated (it appears he was only after visa!!!) Although it's very hard at times I cant believe how much more relaxed I am, and how much I am enjoying the kids without the stress. Am here if you ever want to chat, take care and dont be too hard on yourself. ↑

Name: chris0212 | Date: Jul 2nd, 2010 4:29 AM

My husband and i stared dating our jr. year of high school and almost started fighting from the begining. i founf out i was pregnant right after graduation so we got married. Out daughter is now three, she is special needs and requires alot of attention. Anyways our 4 yr. ann is coming up and we fight now mre than ever . we just seperated and are probably going to get a divorce. ↑

Name: Blakes mommy | Date: Jul 2nd, 2010 12:29 PM

hey justus, im sorry to hear you are having problems, as am i. i have been with my babys dad for 3 years and we were about to break up 2 weeks before we found out i was pregnant. when we found out i was pregnant we decided to get married, i cant stand the idea of my son not knowing his daddy. well, our son is just now 3 1/2 wks old and things are worse now than they have ever been. he doesnt have much of anything to do with me or our son. it really breaks my heart. im trying to learn how to be less emotinally dependant on my husband so that i can one day get on with my life and give my son the happy childhood he deserves. i too am looking to make new friends and get some of this weight off my shoulders. I hope things get better for yall. ↑