Hi. Sorry in advance if this is long. I read alot of ur posts before joining and am scared but also relieved to know I can obtain words from the wise. I am about to have a little girl and the father has told me right out he doesnt want to help or know the child. He left me in the first trimester for his current girlfriend who possibly sells drugs. So does he I just found out. They are both on probation and living together about to marry after only knowing each other well about two months. The rest of my pregnancy they have both been in and out of jail.
At first I said good riddance, my daughter deserves better but also she has the right to know her father. I havent heard from him or his family in two months. They are from Palestine and his mom and dad and siblings recently moved back to their country. Only his brother remains here in Louisiana who owns a beauty supply store here in my town so I have reason to believe he is still here. Also his 'fiancee' wouldnt relocate to Palestine so....
My question is im thinking of filing for c.sup but if he moves to Palestine should I just forget it? And if him and his bride to be are in the drug game should I just forget it all together for the safety of my baby? Also if i decide to pursue c.sup with him being on 3 years of probation will that make it easier to find him. I know her addy too but dont know if they still live there.
P.S. Forgot to mention last I saw him was in July while she was in prison and he couldnt get cigarettes food or a ride anywhere. I supplied all these things for almost a week til he talked to her one day collect he harrased me and told me to leave him and his fam alone about the baby and he didnt care about it and hes going to marry his coke dealing girl when she gets out (shes out now). His family lied said i was harassing him (one day after I filled his and her house with groceries like a dummy) and they cld the police and got an order where I cant call him or them. Noone has looked for me since. I dont know if they are married or not. I cant help but think while im miserable they are living it up selling their drugs together and about to get married after only really knowing each other three months...the rest of my pregnancy they have both been in and out of jail....Ugh. So confused and frustrated! ↓
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