Sorry to be so blunt but if you can't even stand the thought of an abortion then DON'T DO IT
It'll be hard & you obviously know that, you've thought about both sides & you know what's rite for you & your baby.
Just from experience as cruel as it may be the father doesn't always have to be the dad. My son's father wasn't quite as nice as your friend, he just doesn't want to know, but that doesn't stop my son from having a dad he has a great Daddy.
But there's lots of children out there that don't have dads at all & they do great, if not even better than kids with 2 parents.
You sound like you know what you're doing & what you want from life so in my opinion you should go for it, have your baby & love him/her with everything you've got.
And just remember having a child does NOT mean you can't have a life & meet your mr right.
My son's due in 9 weeks I still have a life & I finally have my mr right :)
You can do this :D ↑ |
| I am also a single mom of a 1 night stand, and have another from an abusive relationship, but from the 1 night... ima tell ya, my son is my whole world. he saved my life and changed me into somebody im proud to b. his dad was a drunk "non memorable" thing, and it couldnt matter less. once u carry and have that child it doesnt make 1 difference who the daddy is. that is your baby and regardless if the daddys around or not he/she needs u. being a mother is the absolute best thing ive ever done. my son is almost 3 now, n its always been jus the 2 of us, other than my short 4 month "fling" with my 2nd sons dad... it can b hard at times, but the good out weigh the bad unquestionably. dont let anybody else make that decision for u. this is your child your carrying and they will b your everything. the way it sounds 2 me is your decision is already made... im jus tryin to reasure u, your making the right decision. u can do this. its hard but not impossibe, trust that. its actually a lot of fun 2. good luck momma! ↑ |
