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Name: Sierra
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HI,
I am 21 years old with a 3 year old daughter and am now 4 months pregnant with an second child I could not afford an abortion early in my pregnancy so I waited to have the state pay for it and found out that I had alreadly unknowilly had state insurance for months and by the time I went to have the abortion I was to far along and had to have a 2 day procedure with to me meant the baby would acually in pain so after some spritual advice I had decided to go through with having this baby but I do not know how I am going to provide for this child I have lost my job in because of this I have given up my car and my home and lastly I am so ashamed because my first child's father is worth nothing and I did not find out my unborn child's father was not worth anything until after me being pregnant, so that is 2 father and no daddies and my pride has me wanting to move to another state and struggle to prevent being in my opioin looking so so dumb.
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Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Nov 21st, 2006 1:05 AM
Sounds like you really have been through a rough time lately. You are not dumb what so ever. You in the end did the just and right thing, putting this childs pain and welfare first over your own selfish feelings of regret of its conception.
So give yourself credit, not bad feelings.

Do you have any family or friends or even a councellor that you can talk to about this and try and help you through this time?

There are other options such as adoption that you could seek out, if that is something you could consider.
Really i would talk to a doctor or health professional ASAP to get all the advice you can.

I'm here if you need to talk futher and i hope things start to settle down and work out for you 

Name: molly-may | Date: Nov 21st, 2006 12:48 PM
Have you considered adoption. There are lots of familes out there that cannot have children and you can have an open adoption if you like. Does the father know you are pregnant? 

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