| I think you just have to take a deep breath and move forward with your own life. You cannot make someone love you,sorry but you can't. At the same time though you also cannot refuse your child to be around it's father and his company,doing so is just selfishness on your part because you're hurt that the relationship ended.I'm sorry this has happened to you but you must be strong and act rationally and maturely for the childs sake as well as your own. ↑ |
| I wish you the best!! Take care!:) ↑ |
its okay to be angry and hurt, i am 22 and was in your same position. Thougth it is hard you need to take a deep breath and continue with your life. Take each challenge as they come. Use those days that your childs father has custudy to go out with friends, read a good book or catch up on sleep, keep yourself busy. And remember it is normal to be possesive of your baby, and even though his dads girlfriend will be in his life, your little boy will always love me. It broke my heart the day my son called his dads gilfriend mom and i smiled and continued to encourage him to have a good time, but now that his father doesn't have anything to do with him seeing his disappointment hurts worse. Just hang in there all the things you are feeling are natural.
I wish you and your son the best ↑ |
| sorry, he'll always love you. Can't seem to type correctly tonight ↑ |
i agree with the ladies above....time to move on.
Dont be angry with him, move on, live your life, just make sure your baby is safe.
a suggestion though...to save you that heart wrenching moment that silentraven22 had (sorry to hear about that) ask that your ex tells his girlfriend that you want your baby to call her by her first name
good luck ↑ |
| i felt the same way you did i had my first child at 17 and then me and her dad went on to have a 2nd child who is now 7 months i believed it was a serious relationship until i found out he had got married to the women he cheated on me with. I was angry at him and very hurt although i didnt let him know that. I moved on since then the way i see it is ive got the better end of the deal. Although its hard he pays nowt towards the children and his wife has recently found out about me and the kids and gave him the choice of her or the children he chose her and has never met his 7 month old. Its ok to be angry but men like that are pigs just dont let him see how worked up you are they love to know that they are winding you up. ↑ |
| Ok i was in the same postiton and you cant let that other girl get to you. She has him now, let her deal with it. You can not put your child inffront of your anger with him. But i will have you know that a child is like a sponge, it absorbs everything you do even if you think they dont understand. You cannot say you dont want the baby to be around because thats not your choice. If you went to court and said that you have to have a good reason as to why you dont want your child to be around her. Unless she is a danger to your child. I was stay positive and keep doing what your doing regardless if he is there or not. He will come around and if he doesnt then OH well he just is not a real man to accept his responsibilities. And the girl will eventually find out his ways and will kick him to the curb. ↑ |
