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Name: DMAC

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My ex and I have a son who is 6 years old. He is loving and very well-loved. I have him every weekend and wish it was more.
However, his mother continues to bring her boyfriends around him and this upsets me. It upsets me because she had shown bad judgemenbt before in boyfriends and they never last.
In one case the boyfriend ended up moving in with her AND sleeping in her bed, givnh our son some bad messages, IMO. He was also a cocaine dealer and had people after him. This is the type of person she thought was "OK" to move in with.
What can I do to prevent these things from happening again?
Voicing my concerns is fruitless since she will listen to no-one! ↓

Name: lonely | Date: Dec 26th, 2005 8:44 AM

why dont you try taking the custody? i guess u can cuz her behavior and style of life is unappropriate for the baby. Gather the facts, and head to the court. ↑

Name: dmac | Date: Dec 26th, 2005 4:40 PM

In this state?
Highly unlikely I would get custody...Attorneys that I have spoken to have told me that prostitue mothers STILL have to sign over their rights. The courts sux and favor the mother unreasonably so..... ↑

Name: Emily | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 4:29 AM

I think you should tell someone and get your son to be in your custody instead of hers. I'm sure if you told someone this stuff or even let your son tell them then you will probably get custody. Then you will know he is safe and sound with you. ↑

Name: ANGELA | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 12:34 AM

I DONT KNOW WHAT U CAN DO ABOUT THAT, IT'S FRUSTRATING AS I CAN IMAGINE. WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN YOU TWO?, MAYBE SHE IS TRYING TO GET TO YOU BY DOING THESE THINGS, SHE KNOWS IT UPSETS YOU AND SHES ENJOYING IT! ↑

Name: sarah | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 9:42 PM

HIYA WA UN UP 2 JUST WANT 2 TALK SO U CAN TALK TO ME ↑