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Name: A Mom | Date: Sep 29th, 2007 7:26 PM
I put my son who is 17 over my lap and then I spank him on his barebottom, then I make him stand in the corner with his pants down and then he goes to bed 

Name: lo | Date: Sep 30th, 2007 12:41 AM
kinky...and weird... and a bit sick 

Name: Jason | Date: Oct 7th, 2007 4:21 AM
I spank my daughter, I pull her over my lap. I spank her then I let he cry as she tries to explain where she was or what she has done wrong. But I breaks my heart, to spank her because she screams daddy stop. But the spanking is the only thing that works with her. 

Name: irish Amy | Date: Oct 9th, 2007 9:39 PM
A Mom ?????? 17 ?????
jason, is your daughter 17 also, did you not post this on another site??
IMO this is just beyond sick!!!!!!! 

Name: irish Amy | Date: Oct 9th, 2007 9:41 PM
A Mom you make him stand in a corner with his pants down? are you for real or are you just a weirdo???? 

Name: nomani | Date: Oct 11th, 2007 4:37 PM
oh come on no need to spank kids...long term results could be bad due to beating at this young age...just explain to him and be done 


Name: A dad | Date: Nov 29th, 2007 1:45 PM
The way I spank my son I tell him why he going to be spanked then I tell him to take his pants down and put him over my lap and spank him after the spanking I hug him and tell him I love him he is 15yrs old 

Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 5:12 AM
WHAT????????? are you people serious??????? Your teenage children have pubic hair! You make them pull their pants down???? Your still spanking teenage children?????? good lordy. Where you people live?????
-in shock- 

Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 5:14 AM
and you put your teenage kids over your lap like they are 4??????? somebody fan me now, cause i'm about to pass out!!! 

Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 1:50 PM
also, what happens if your teenage daughers are on their period? Do they have to tell you so they can go "clean up" first? GGGGGRRRRRRRROOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSS!!!!!! After awile, parents, your kids aren't kids anymore, or maybe you haven't realized this yet. 

Name: amyt | Date: Jun 11th, 2008 10:43 PM
i cnt believe the stories on here i hope they are lies!!! i dnt believe in spanking at all but i do respect other peoples views and i know that a lot of people believe it causes no harm to a child which is their right to decide but i do think that there is no need no matter what age your child is to take own their pants that is sick and disrespectful of their private needs i believe its a disgrace to do that i dnt even look at my own sons knee if he has had a fall without asking his permission first, children have a right over their own bodies as do adults. 

Name: Sara | Date: Sep 17th, 2009 9:11 PM
I agree with A Mom if they did something that deserved a spanking (like a little kid) then they can sit in time out (like a little kid) When my 16 year old son Chris gets a spanking he goes over mine or his daddys knee then he sits in the corner for at least a half hour then he has to go to bed after dinner so normally about 7- 7:30. If he wants to behave like a little kid i'll treat him like one 

Name: PDeverit | Date: Sep 23rd, 2009 9:15 AM
Child buttock-battering vs. DISCIPLINE:

Child buttock-battering for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.

Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.

I think the reason why television shows like "Supernanny" and "Dr. Phil" are so popular is because that is precisely what many (not all) people are trying to do.

There are several reasons why child bottom-slapping isn't a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:

Plain Talk About Spanking
by Jordan Riak,

The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children
by Tom Johnson,

NO VITAL ORGANS THERE So They Say
by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.

Most compelling of all reasons to abandon this worst of all bad habits is the fact that buttock-battering can be unintentional sexual abuse for some children. There is an abundance of educational resources, testimony, documentation, etc available on the subject that can easily be found by doing a little research on "spanking".

Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child bottom-slapping isn't a good idea:

American Academy of Pediatrics,
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry,
Center For Effective Discipline,
PsycHealth Ltd Behavioral Health Professionals,
Churches' Network For Non-Violence,
Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu,
Parenting In Jesus' Footsteps,
The LDS Church (http://education.byu.edu/
youcandothis/spanking.html
click "quotes on spanking"),
Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children,
United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child.

In 26 countries, child buttock-battering is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child. 

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