| Name: Annabelle | Date: Mar 11th, 2010 11:00 PM |
heather,
i know exactly what u mean, im 14, and i want a baby. idk y. idk wut to do ↑ |
| Name: gem | Date: Apr 14th, 2010 6:21 PM |
| landa yousof you make me sick all ur dolng is telling these young girls get pregnant and u can be on telly like ur more worried about another documentary 4 teen mums these girls need advice not someone like you lets hope ur daugher dont ask u 4 advice or she will be on bbc1 telling the world ↑ |
| Name: mandy16 | Date: Apr 27th, 2010 1:52 AM |
| I'm 16, and really want a baby. I had a miscarriage a year ago from a rape. But now I have nothing to live for. I know babies aren't all laughs, but I feel if I don't get pregnant soon, I'll kill myself. I have no reason to live. ↑ |
| Name: Pisces | Date: Apr 27th, 2010 5:12 PM |
| Girl - when I was your age, having a baby NEVER crossed my mind. Your in a stage in your life, and i promise you that will change. having a baby at 14 is compleletly insane. i'm 18 & pregnant and i cant ebelieve it. Please think about your decision girl !!! ↑ |
| Name: j | Date: May 1st, 2010 6:47 PM |
| Ok I totally stumbled across this website by accident. I was looking for some one who was already pregnant forum to purpose and idea that I had about moving to costa rica with any woman that would want to go there because is you child is born in the country you can stay living there and become a citizen and stay living in tropical paradise. But honestly the best point about this website is that the 14 and wants a baby is directly above the 15 and have no idea how to be a parent forum ↑ |
| Name: Candice | Date: May 2nd, 2010 3:44 AM |
DON'T DO IT! Something is missing in your life right now and as badly as you might want a baby, TRUST ME, I'm a single mom of two boys out of wedlock and it's not worth it.
Consider that because you're so young you won't be able to have the life of a teenager. You won't be able to go shopping or hang out with friends because your baby is crying and that baby needs you 24/7.
Maybe it's a "need" thing, but don't do it! I promise you the time will come that you'll have them with a man who loves you and will commit to you, but don't do it alone and there's no man your age that will stand the test of time for love.
My advice, start setting goals and get a job. Try your best to achieve these goals and learn to enjoy your life.
My little sister had her baby at 16 and if she saw this post she would flip....it's expensive and time demanding and you're going to miss out on so many things. ↑ |
| Name: Payton | Date: May 7th, 2010 5:41 AM |
| I'm a teen mom I have a baby boy who I love very much I got pregnant when I was 14 your life changes so much it's like your a completly different person I had to depend on my parents for basicely everything money, rides, helping me with Elijas (my baby boy) while I was at school and his dad... People don't really know how hard it is until you live it. They know it's going to be hard but it's not hard it's mind blowing, at the end of the day you feel like a failure because you can't even provide him with anything he needs. ↑ |
| Name: Payton | Date: May 7th, 2010 5:42 AM |
| You can email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Ponytailgirl | Date: May 25th, 2010 6:03 AM |
| Name: monique | Date: Jun 3rd, 2010 10:18 PM |
| Im Qr n my son is 3 months its really hard rakin care a baby epecially with no job i moved out with my baby boy prinse jaiden awtry n his father i had my baby at thirteen its so easy thing birth was easy but to finacially support n luv ur child even adults need help id anymore questions tex or write me on facebook moniqie mitchener 3477310880 ↑ |
| Name: monique | Date: Jun 3rd, 2010 10:19 PM |
| Im 14 n my son is 3 months its really hard rakin care a baby epecially with no job i moved out with my baby boy prinse jaiden awtry n his father i had my baby at thirteen its so easy thing birth was easy but to finacially support n luv ur child even adults need help id anymore questions tex or write me on facebook moniqie mitchener 3477310880 ↑ |
| Name: Ponytailgirl | Date: Jun 6th, 2010 8:15 PM |
| Email me I have a great guy for you [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: ... | Date: Jun 17th, 2010 6:41 PM |
| Name: david | Date: Jun 18th, 2010 4:08 AM |
| hl how are you, with out your dad or mom know just ask the man that lives next door to you tell hem you what to have is baby girls all the time tell him not to say anything to know one ↑ |
| Name: elisha | Date: Jul 6th, 2010 7:13 PM |
| i really waant a baby too, i knoe if you speak to a adult about i they will be like dont be stupid your too young, but they dont understand we know everything these days at this age im only 14 my self and i know everything they try treating us like children, if you want a baby go for it! :) but having one will not make things easyer, i would love to have one now if i could but taking responsibility is a big thing. xx ↑ |
| Name: Anyi G | Date: Jul 7th, 2010 7:34 AM |
| Im 14 n have the same problem except for the fact i dont care if the father si there i just want a baby soo badly n i know i am ready i confided in one og=f my close guy friends and he told me he thought i should just stop b-cuz it would ruin my life but i just NEED a bay ↑ |
| Name: miya2218 | Date: Jul 14th, 2010 4:29 PM |
| When i was 14 or 15 i felt the same way as you do know i had a troubled home and wanted a baby to have my own family. my sister got pregnant about a month later and i watched my parents take her baby away from her because she couldnt afford her and she knew nothing of being a parent. She had made a lot of bad choices with the baby we will just put it that away. It has been 6 years know since that happened and my sister is still not able to get her baby back because of the mistakes she made when she was young. Watching all that made me want to wait to have my own job and home to where no one could take my baby from me. Trust me as bad as you want it now it will feel better to wait a few years to find a good man who will support you and your child and be good to you. I dont see 14 year old boys being good daddys. my e-mail is [email protected] if u need to talk u can e-mail me i wont judge you or tell you your wrong. ↑ |
| Name: rock | Date: Aug 1st, 2010 6:33 PM |
| yay me too it is rubbish ↑ |
| Name: lauren | Date: Aug 7th, 2010 10:50 PM |
| i want a bay but what will my mum and dad do if i told them? ↑ |
| Name: anon | Date: Nov 21st, 2010 10:57 AM |
Have you thought about who is going to pay for the baby? Babies cost a lot of money and demand time and energy which you should be using at school to get an education. You should focus on getting a qualification so you can get a decent job and give your future child a decent shot at life!
Also, there are a lot of things that go wrong having a baby at such a young age. Yo should do more research and for God's sake get a hobby!
PS. No 14 year old guy is going to stay with you through a pregnancy so don't kid yourself. Heck, most 18 year olds wouldn't stick around! ↑ |
| Name: babymonii1 | Date: Dec 24th, 2010 8:35 AM |
http://teenmoms10.webs.com/
Become a Member, Upload Belly Photos,
Get Advice. Dont get Judged. Your not Alone.
Its free.
Become a Member, Talk to other teens who are pregnant, or teen moms.
-TeenMom,
xox ↑ |
| Name: kayley | Date: May 13th, 2011 6:44 PM |
| im 14 and i want a baby ↑ |
| Name: elexis | Date: Jun 6th, 2011 4:02 PM |
| Im 14 and i have a baby he was born may5 2011 text me 863 934 6669 if u have any quetions bout the baby or anything ↑ |
| Name: XandirsMummy | Date: Jun 10th, 2011 9:11 AM |
I was 13 when I first wanted a baby really really bad.
I even got with a guy & stayed with him for 2years even tho he beat me just 'cause he promised me my baby (recently found out he can't even have kids).
Then a year after that at 16 I got with a great guy & we tried for 2 years with no luck at all, it caused our relationship to fall apart (now he's having a kid with someone else, so there's nothing wrong with him).
Then at 18 I couldn't care less who the guy was as long as he got me pregnant.
Well at 19 I finally got pregnant alrite & was over the moon (after 6 years of waiting) then the worst happened I misscarried.
10 months later I was starting to deal with my loss when I got pregnant again & you guessed it I misscarried again.
7 years of trying, 2 misscarriages & millions of tears later I was really feeling like my world was falling apart, the 1 thing I wanted most in the world I couldn't have.
Well now I'm 21 and currently 7 months pregnant with perfect healthy little boy, I can't believe how long it took but I am suprisingly glad it happened now & not back then even tho I really really wanted it.
Just so you know tho 13, 21, 30 or even 50 parenthood is hard but just like you think it is, it's deffinately rewarding.
If you do this just be prepared for the worst & stay super strong.
I didn't exactly prepare for the worst over my tough 7 years & now I will forever be heart broken over the 2 babies I lost from being in too much of a hurry :( ↑ |
| Name: Rebecca2 | Date: Jun 11th, 2011 2:22 AM |
| Ik how u feel. I am almost 14 and pregnant with twins. Itz not lyk the storybooks itz hard...and exspensive. Im not goin 2 argue with u or anything but believe me u will b much happier if u wait till ur marrried and settled down with the right guy. ↑ |
| Name: XandirsMummy | Date: Jun 13th, 2011 6:57 AM |
| ^^ she's rite, try to wait til u hav partners ful suport. it makes it soooooooooo much easier ae ↑ |
| Name: Ashley C. | Date: Jun 14th, 2011 9:25 AM |
| i might be able to haelp a lil more cuz i had a baby at 14 now im 16 and i had a baby and its hard work you lose sleep school money friends and alot of other stuff plz wait for a few years cuz its TOO HARD to take care of a baby at 14 cuz thats how old i was when i had my baby boy now im 16 and its still hard so plz wait hun i tell you this 4 ur own good so just plz wait ↑ |
| Name: KaiteeB95 | Date: Jun 22nd, 2011 9:14 AM |
| oh wow! i know ur situation hun iv been there.. im now 16b and pregnant, but im single. and im soo scared! if you want one. go for it. honestly. i know it is young. but how many people turn around and say. your a horrible mum because of you age?.. yeah so go for it hun, but be warned. its hard. harsh.. and a brutal world.. but good luck xx ↑ |
| Name: Charlotte | Date: Oct 12th, 2011 10:08 PM |
| hi, im 14 and i just had a baby 2 months ago. its not what you think it will be, i had to get off school for a few months and i have a tutor that comes to my home so i can get a highschool diploma still. also my dad made me move out so im living with my boyfriend in his house with his family. its really hard to live like this. i thought it would be cool at the time but ive learned that it might be really bad now. im not saying i dont love my daughter, its just that i cant do things with my friends anymore, i have to take care of her. just live your life as a teenager, dont do what i did. ↑ |
| Name: Babymama23 | Date: Dec 1st, 2011 12:29 AM |
| My advice to you is dont have a baby no time soon.I was a teen mom and ended up with twins and let me tell you from experience its the hardest job you will ever do in your life,I also wanted a baby at your age and once i got pregnant and reality set in i was terrified and didnt want a baby,and the father didnt stick around,dont have a baby until you finish school and your financially stable to care for a baby.enjoy your life and have fun,once you have a baby its not your life anymore,you dont get to go out and have fun all that ends.so please take my advice and rethink having a baby right now. ↑ |
| Name: dillon | Date: Feb 27th, 2012 12:03 PM |
| Hey, I'm Dillon ill have a baby with you if you want one message me back if your interested :) ↑ |
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