My wife and I are pretty young, 20 and just 18. I met her a few years ago, and she had had a baby girl with another boy who had deserted her. She admits she made a huge mistake, and she really is a very good christian girl, despite what some may think of her having a baby so young. Her daughter turned 4 not long ago. Her mother passed away some time ago, and her dad is just a single dad, and he has no siblings, and both sets of her grandparents are gone, and all of her other cousins live far away.
So essentially, it was just her, her older father, and her lil daughter. Her father told me that his girls were the most treased things in the world to him, and I had better take care of them and love them as much as I could. I tyold him I felt the same way about them.
When I met them, we had an instant connection when she was aboput to turn 16, and have been inseperable since. Her father would never admit this to me or his daughter, but we know he was having a financially hard time supporting his daughter and granddaughter, but he is very hardworking and to proud to admit that.
Last year I asked her dad for her hand in marriage, because i love her so much on her 18'th birthday, and he said yes, if she wanted me, which she wholeheartedly did.
we now live on a college campus small apartment as a family, while going to school, working part time and also getting scholarships and grants. I love my new daughter very much, she cuddles in my arms everyday, and is a very pretty petite lil girl(like her mother). I have since adopted her.
My question is not if I did the right thing by marrying so young, I know we did, but rather how to explain something to our daughter.
When my wife was still living at home, her lil girl would always leave her bed and go to sleep with her mom at night, and it was just the two of them there.
We got married not to long ago, and never went on a honeymoon, but we still wanted our first night to be special, because of the strong bond and love we share tog. My new daughter forgetting that she was sharing her mommy with her new daddy came to sleep with her mom again, and essentially caught us in the middle of ML together, and being intimate.
She essentially thought that I was hurting her mom, which I wasn't and has shied away from me some since, like distrustfully. How do we explain to her what she saw, or do we even? She's to young to know mommy and daddy ML everynight. How do I get close with her again?
My wife now wants another baby. I tell her we should wait a few years, because we do have years ahead of us, but it might be to late. I think don't know, to early yet, but she might be expecting again. ↓
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