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between ages 18 and 23 pregnant and the baby daddy no where in site ↓
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| Name: super | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 4:29 AM |
| if there is anyone out there that is pregnant between the ages of 18 and 24 that is pregnant and the child father left please reply ↑ |
| Name: Sardie | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 4:46 AM |
| yea that fits my catagory what do you want me to reply about? ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 10:20 AM |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 11:26 AM |
| im not pregant but my baby is 6 months old and the father left when i was 5 months gone im 21 and got 2 kids. ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 11:27 AM |
| sorry bad spelling that was ment to be pregnant ↑ |
| Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 10:43 PM |
| as long as u have strong will power u can achieve anything just try your best to think positive. good luck to you ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 11:10 PM |
| this post is pointless it doesnt even make sense???? ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 2:04 AM |
| I just feel like i am going through this alone. he wanted a child and left after he went to 2 doctor visits with me.everyone will tell you stay strong that is easier said then done. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 2:05 AM |
| did he come back do they realize what they ahve or missed out on will they ever admit why they left ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 2:05 AM |
| that mean you not going threw the same or similiar situation so don't respond ↑ |
| Name: malakheimom | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 6:44 AM |
| I am 20 and my son is one and the babies father is not around. Its been a year and I am just know getting a hearing date for child support ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 9:02 AM |
| super like i said im not currently pregnant but i now what your going through as ive recently had a baby and alot of other women on here will also know coz it is a single parents forum it doesent make a difference if the father leaves whilst the woman is pregnant or when the child arrives its is still a hard experience and it still hurts i can offer you support and advice if you want it as ive been there twice i might add and im still there now. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 9:06 PM |
reply to mel211985
has he even com around to see the child. what kind of precautions can i take if he desides hewants to come back then leave again ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 9:07 PM |
reply to malakheimon
why did the process take so long you did not know where he was . what slowed the process down ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 10:32 PM |
| hiya he was around for most of my eldests life but has never met my baby his youngest. Ive seem a solicitor and my rights are that as we are not married so i dont have to allow him access especially as he cant even be bothered to pay anything towards there upbringing? the only thing i can advse is dont inroduce your child to him yet meet with him see if he pays regually and sticks to the days and times YOU arrange men have a habit of making things go there own way do that for at least 3 months then if you feel you can trust him introduce him to your child slowly. ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 10:33 PM |
| if you dont mind me asking how old are both you and the father? ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 12:00 AM |
| child support can be court ordered were if he does not pay he goes to jail not any back child support pay every month or go to jail. that what he does for his first child that is how it is set up.he is 28 i am 22.by the time i am almost due or a little before he will come around to butter me up to not have child support. right now he is thinking that he is not here so i will not keep the baby. we have went down this road the baby was unplanned but i lost the baby. this time he planned the baby asked for another baby with me for a good 9 months and then left. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 12:05 AM |
| he does not see his first child regularly he calls over there only when he just can not stand to be without the little boy.he will hsve him for a weekend then take him back. i don't think that he will come to get my child on regular basis or see my child on a regular basis. but his son knows who he is. he calls him daddy which he only sees the child like once every 5 or 6 months. ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 11:34 AM |
| children are resilient if it was me id stop contact altoghether until he can prove he will remain in the childs life. I tried after i split from my chrildrens dad to give him access but he would turn up one week then she wouldnt see him for a month until he decided he needed to see his daughter but he hurt her so much i wont allow him to do that anymore especially as ive now got 2 kids to think about. your child doesnt sound like he is missing out on much what can the dad give them what you cant? ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 11:35 AM |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 2:33 PM |
the child is not here yet
i am 2 months pregnant but he already has a little boy and does not him often. we had been together for 3 years and i only seen the little boy twice. only when he just can not stand to not be around the boy does he go get him.he told me the reason was because the mother would not let him come over. i am from dallas where are you from, you are 21 and he is how old. more than likely he is thinking that i am not going to keep this baby or not put him on child support. but in order for me to finish my schooling he will have to help me that means money and to come get the baby when needed. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 2:36 PM |
| the only thing that i am worried about really is that i want my child to know who there father. but i dont want my child crying out for there father and he does not come around or hurt the child.i really dont think the child support issue bothers him at all because he pays child support for his son every month faithfully and never complains ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 5:22 PM |
| my kids dad is 26 im in the uk if he pays for his otherchild he will more than likely pay for your ane as well but it sounds like he isnt that bothered about being a serious part of the childrens lifes well at least not yet anyway. Or maybe he is telling the truth and the childs mother is stopping him but then you have gotta look at why that is. When i found out that my kids dad was married i also found out that he had 5 children with this woman and they had all been taken into care that put me off straight away i mean why would the government take 5 children off a couple. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 11:03 PM |
| dang he did not tell you he was married or never meantion anything what about his friends or family they never told you. wow what a shocker how di you find out. he had 5 already then made 2 more. something is wrong or went totally wrong in that household.you would think that since 5 were taken away he would want to be with the 2 kids you have by him. we'll i was thinking today like even if he does decide to come back would i take him back . i kept telling myself no. what i wa thinking he is not completely cut off with his first baby momma meaning he goes back to her whenever and she is okay with that. so until he cuts it off completely with her not the kids then me and him can not have anything. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 1:01 AM |
reply to mel211985
surprise surprise surprise when i received a phone call from him today at work he said he was calling to see how me and baby are doing. but i know he was only calling to see if i am going to keep the baby. he said he had called my house and left a message which he did. he said he is coming over to get some papers that i told him i did not have. i told him he do not have to come over he has no reason to and he said he was coming over anyway. as much as i want him here i really dont i am getting used to being here by myself without him. him coming over will mean i will have to start all over again. more than likely he will not come over. ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 11:21 AM |
| i can see your point its hard when you seperate from someone and like you said you get used to being on your own. Ive never lived with my kids dad but i had a bloke who i started seeing when my daughter was bout 18 months i moved him in straight away big mistake i felt so angry with him all the time.I was so used to being on my own i wasnt ready to be with anyone else not like that anyway. Have you tjought about contacting a solicitor about access? If you explain that you want him in your childs life but yu dont want him turning up willy nilly they might help. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 2:57 AM |
no i havent spoken to anyone
i been knowing him to long to know that he was really going to stay away. when he first left i estimated 1 month and he will be trying to come back. not even a month like i told him today when he was calling. he said he left because he was not happy so i don't want him to come back to a place were he is not happy so were ever he is he can stay. he said he want to come over tonight and spend the night i said no. you left that was the end of us. i told him bye i would talk to him later. he wanted to stay on the phone. he said dang that is it just bye to get of the phone. not playing games with him this time. i can't hurt myself like that. no more games. i have more than just me to think about now and he is NOT going to hurt my child ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 10:42 AM |
| you got the right idea stay strong and if he is ment to be in this childs life he will prove it by acting responsible no matter how long it takes. ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 6:52 PM |
| i found out today that i am 9 weeks but a baby never began to form there is only a sac which the doctor says will either pass on its on within two weeks or i have to have a dnc but i guess my problem is solved. no baby. ↑ |
| Name: Amber20 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 9:36 PM |
| I"m 20 and I'm 4 months pregnant. The whole reason I found out I was pregnant was because my boyfriend at the time was sleeping with my married sister and I found out. Then I took a test because I was late and now here I am having his baby and him and my sister are together.... ↑ |
| Name: super | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 11:37 PM |
damn that is a story to tell
damn do they know you are pregnant
are they a couple or just sex
thats real nasty your sister he is real low
how are you taking it
how did you find out about them somebody told you
what about your sisters husband does he know ↑ |
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