Yer so i live at home still with my mum, sucks i no. Well today we had a arguement, nothing new there.
This arguement started cause she had fell asleep on the sofa and wok up around 5pm, this is the usual time we have our dina, and she started bitching at me cause i hadnt peeled any potatoes and i was like well you was asleep and you had some soup a few hours ago so i didnt think you would want anything else yet. so she starts going on and on about how all i have done for the last 2 days while she hasnt been at work is sit on my fat ass at the computer and its no wonder i havent lost weight when all i do is sit about... not true... my daughter has been very ill for the last week and the past 2 nights she has slept in my bed with me so i have hardly had any sleep myself and the fact i also havent been well so yer maybe i havent done as much as i usually do but iv been totally drained... none of that really botheres me cause im used to her getting on at me, its what she did... the row got worse then she called me fat again and did this impression off a fat person/me. she puffed out her cheeks and wided her arms out and wadlled across the kitchen. im sure you all no what i mean. i can not tell you how much this upset me and hurt me, i burst into tears and went upstairs.
i cant believe she did that and called me fat in that nasty way, im so mad at her i cant even put into words how it made me feel.
she hasnt said sorry or anything, she hasnt even spoken to me. im so hurt i cant sleep....
sorry to go on, just needed to tell anyone what happened as i have no one else to talk to. ↓
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| Name: mellisa | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:24 AM |
| Im sorry emma, i know how it is with moms and fighting, but i guess thats just how it goes. I hope she apologizes soon, and i hope you feel better. ↑ |
| Name: jennifer early | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:27 AM |
| wow. that was really mean. i would be hurt if anyone said those things to me, much less my own mom. she owes you a major apology, whether you have been sitting on your ass or not, no mother should talk to her daughter that way. ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:40 AM |
No chance of her saying sorry anytime soon, shes not like that, may be childish but i dont plan on talking to her until she says sorry.
i no i havent done much the last 2 days but its not like im like this all time. when shes at work i do all the cleaning and washing and i have her dinner ready for her for when she gets home and i go up town most days to do the shopping, so i do feel when she is at work it wont kill her to do it all for once, esp when i have been up most of the night looking after mia.
she nos how sensitive i am about my weight thats why i am trying to loose it but it doesnt happen over night.
she always taking the piss out of me over things like if im not in a good mood and she starts i tell her to leave me alone and she mimicks how i say it n that.... im just so sick of her treating me like some dumd fat kid, after everything i do to try and help her but its never enough. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:43 AM |
| Noway should you be spoke this way by anyone especialy your own Mother. I am so so sorry. I wish I could help more then just telling you this. To tell you the truth I dont think this is about you at all but about your Mother. something is wrong for her to take this out on you. Only a person with no self worth would speak to there child in this manner. Emma this is not about you. Its her problem. Im very sorry. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:46 AM |
| emma Ijust read your last post. can you move into your own apartment this is healthy to live like this. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:47 AM |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:54 AM |
| i really want to move out but theres no way i can afford it at the min, cause im in so much debt iv got no spare money at all, shes back at work tomorrow which is good. = ] ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:54 AM |
| Your living at home to pay off your debt? ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:57 AM |
| do you have any idea how long that will take? Do you work? I hope your not offended with all the questions, Im just trying to help you find a way out. ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 1:58 AM |
| no i dont work at the min but i am currently looking for a job and sorting out childcare, =] ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 2:00 AM |
emma
I am so sorry to hear about that.......Yes she most certainly owes you an apology......I know parents can get frustrated too....but they still need to apologize when they are in the wrong. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 2:04 AM |
| I remember when i was younger I had to move back home with my son after I left my first hsband. My mom and i never fight but I just didnt like living at home after having my own home for 5 years. It was hard. anyway I worked and saved evry penny to get my own apartment. Then I recieved renters assistance, so my rent was 100.00 a month. this was back in the mid 80's. Its just hard to live with your parents after you have your own children. Even if they mean well, sometimes the extra advice all the time gets old. But what your dealing with is verbal abuse and its wrong. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 2:42 AM |
| Oh sweetie I am so sorry that, that happened!!! She shouldn't have talked to you like that. Do you think you could try talking to her and letting her know how bad that makes you feel? ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 2:47 AM |
| Hey emma just catching up. Sorry to hear that. Man that is tough coming form mother no less. One day kiddo you will get your own place. But for hear and now.....best to keep clear of mom. That really is too much. Maybe be upset you have been on computer and whatever else she may be upset about.........but not toss in comments like that. I am sorry to hear that I really am. Thats very painfull. ↑ |
| Name: marija | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 5:33 AM |
screw up your face....and tell her shes ugly!....you can lose weight ...what's she gonna do!!!!
ohhhhh thats nasty....
try and forget it ...me and my mother used to have some humdingers...its called two women trying to live together.
Hope it blows over soon :-) ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 5:46 AM |
Sometimes, especially in the last era, people think that by being mean they can actually shock you into taking action, about things like your weight.
My father was like that, but it has the opposite effect...I know ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 2:49 PM |
Emma,what your mum did is well out of line.
She is your mother she carryed you for nine months and brought you up!
She should not have done that,you really need to have it out with her!
I know as like you what it is like trying to lose weight as we are both in the same boat(as re:our weight)
and if my mother spoke to me like that i would feel the same way as you do now! ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 3:07 PM |
| That is really sad, I'm sorry, but don't let her win. you can lose the weight, she can't change the person she is. I'd be very hurt too. Especially coming from someone you love. I hope you feel better soon. ↑ |
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