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Name: BeEnIe

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IS DRIVING ME INSANE
SCREAMING AT EVERYTHING I SAY TO HIM
ALL DAY NON STOP
TANTRUM AFTER TANTRUM
IM GOING TO LOOSE MY TEMPER SOON
HES BEENING SUCH A LITTLE ASSHOLE ↓

Name: winnmom | Date: May 28th, 2007 2:29 PM

Benie,
All children have days like this.
Drop your child off with someone so you can have from what it sounds like a much needed break. ↑

Name: BeEnIe | Date: May 28th, 2007 2:53 PM

I CAN NOT LEAVE MY CHILDREN WITH OTHER PEOPLE THEY ARE ALL BUSY I HAVE TOLOOK AFTER THEM I AM THERE MOTHER ↑

Name: Nicolaaa | Date: May 28th, 2007 3:21 PM

Pay for a babysitter then..
You said you have a 30 yo son...surely he would babysit once in a while? ↑

Name: winnmom | Date: May 28th, 2007 3:25 PM

Yes hire someone.
Of course you want to take care of them because they are your children........most Mothers feel that way......But it is important to have breaks, for both you and your child. ↑

Name: BeEnIe | Date: May 28th, 2007 3:39 PM

NO NONE OF MY OTHER CHILDREN CAN HELP OUT THEY ARE ALL BUSY WITH THERE OWN LIVES AND FAMILYS AND WORK NOW.. MY PARTNER IS HOME NOW SO HE IS HELPNG OUT WITH THW LITTLE ONES ↑

Name: momo | Date: May 28th, 2007 7:10 PM

yu know the other day...my son would not go to sleep...he was bathed..fedd..burped..diapered..he just cried cause he would want me to hold him to sleep...but everytime i put that sucker down when he went to sleep...he'd scream again...Finnally i told my sleeping boyfriend...i am gonna let him cry for 10 min...so don't think i am ignoring him...Low and behold 5 min later...he was alseep...I guess sometimes you just must walk away from a stresful situation and let tham work it out themselves...not more than 10 min or so...but to collect yourself so you don't do anything stupid...you okay to feel this way..we all do... ↑

Name: winnmom | Date: May 28th, 2007 7:19 PM

Very well said Momo. ↑

Name: BeEnIe | Date: May 28th, 2007 10:12 PM

WALKING AWAY DOESNT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE I CAN NOT LEAVE HIM ALONE WHEN HE IS HAVING A TANTRUM ↑

Name: marija | Date: May 28th, 2007 10:53 PM

Why....thats the best time to leave them....when theyre are having a tantrum!!!

you raised the big kid........surely he would be happy to watch his baby brother or sister?......are there no family attachments?
if you dont want help from outside sources because you feel you are the mother and HAVE to watch them ...even though its clear that YOU arent coping. Dont know what sort of help you think you are going to get from here....other than venting, suggestions arent helping? ↑

Name: BeEnIe | Date: May 28th, 2007 10:57 PM

YES I AM COPING FINE JUST TODAY WAS A TOUGH ONE WITH LOTS OF TANTRUMS, I WAS JUST VENTING, WALKING AWAY DOESNT HELP, IT DOESNT STOP HIM HAVING THE TANTRUM OR SCREAMING AT ME
NO I CAN NOT ASK MY OLDEST SON, LIKE I SAID HE IS BUSY WITH WORK AND HIS OWN FAMILY ↑