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Name: cherisalorraine

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I think everyone here knows that Annlynn's father passed away when she was 12 weeks old. Well ever since then his little sister has been looking for people to love and she has even made comments about how Annlynn would help fill the hole. Well She is Pregnant she will be 18 in a couple of weeks and she dropped out of school about 3 months ago. I am very upset with her about because of her choices and I have offered her Annlynns crib and things like that but I don't know what else I should do for her. I am sure that she will be a loving mother that will care for baby very well but I am sad that she felt that she could find the love she needed in no other way. I feel better just getting it out there thanks for listening. ↓

Name: Lola | Date: Mar 2nd, 2008 10:07 PM

She just needs some support.... ↑

Name: winnmom | Date: Mar 2nd, 2008 10:15 PM

Yep just offer her support, an ear.....some place to go when she needs someone to taqlk to ↑

Name: cherisalorraine | Date: Mar 2nd, 2008 11:49 PM

Thank you I just feel like I should be there for her but I also want her to get the idea that she is going to a mom and she needs to learn how to be responsible now before the baby gets here. I will be there for her if she needs me but I hope I shouldn't be doing more ↑

Name: homemommichele | Date: Mar 2nd, 2008 11:52 PM

You are doing all you can. Support and friendship. Unfortunately you cannot live her life for her, and you can't keep her from making her own mistakes, just be there to help pick up the pieces. ↑