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Name: ooam
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I have a very very grumpy neighbour what shall I do about her? She never smiles or says hello and is miserable all the time.
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Name: Debra | Date: May 7th, 2006 3:33 PM
Bring her a flower. Just tell her you hope she has a great day- and thanks for being her neighbor. Its not pushy. Sometimes people go through the entire life without any kindness. Maybe you could be the first to show her people aren't all bad. 

Name: jaylafive | Date: May 7th, 2006 4:17 PM
I ignore grumpy people, that's make them feel even worse. 

Name: Lynne n | Date: May 7th, 2006 7:15 PM
Maybe she is just shy,try making small talk,you never know she might come out of her shell! 

Name: pc | Date: May 8th, 2006 2:49 AM
Make some cookies and bring her some.

If she's really grumpy, put in A LOT of chocolate chips! lol 

Name: Stacy | Date: May 8th, 2006 2:23 PM
Bake some cookies and take them over to her house & tell her you have just tried a new receipe & you need a honest opinion on whether the receipe is a keeper. 

Name: Jenna | Date: May 11th, 2006 11:47 PM
Well,you can either leave her be and let her live life her way,or if you insist on getting personal,you can bake something and hand deliver it and start up conversation and see where it leads.I choose not to get too friendly with my neighbors because just because you have neighbors doesn't mean you have to make them your best friends.I figure I have to live here so I'd rather just get by with an occassional wave once in awhile than take a chance on becomming chummy and the friendship going sour down the road and me still having to live here.(Because I don't plan to move).Some people just like to keep to themselves and not be bothered and there's nothing wrong with that.If you enjoy being neighborly then perhaps an apartment complex or a trailer court would be more suitable for that kind of living as those types seem to like to know each others business. 


Name: Trish | Date: May 12th, 2006 12:02 AM
I completely agree with Jenna,you're better off not having any relationship with your neighbour what so ever.They are too close for something to go wrong and if you stick your nose in and you don't like the outcome You've got nowhere to go.Also to all those people who think baking a cake solves everthing I'd like to know what magical fairy land you live in where everthing is solved so easily. ooam if you have tried saying hello to this woman and she just ignores you and doesn't smile have you thought of the possibility that mabye she's the sort of person you don't want to know. 

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