| What is wrong with you are u some little kid!!? If not what kind of parent are u? I asked for advice not for a way to traumatise my 2 yr old!!!! u are sick!!! ↑ |
We have lots of those types here ya know honey...just blow it off..or say just what you did I loved it LOL ! LAMO!!!
Anyway, I dont know if I will be of help but I can tell you I have a four year old son at home and pretty soon I will be looking for rest home for the snapped mother of america. From two on it has been a challenge I wasnt prepared for. AAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!! Just keep doing what your doing. When you take something away...tell him mommy will decide when you can have it back. And do that. Out of sight out of mind...no mommy...mention it. """Hummmmm I wonder if today I will be able to give back your thomas trains...I guess we will have to see." Its on the mind again...oh some tears and some screams but oh well...you have endured more at childbirth LOLOL!!!! No tv means ZERO tv and games or whatever. I dont know Lupe, if you back down or not...desperation of had enough yourself, kicking in, but just in case...do yourself and him for sure, the favor of meaning what you say. In short order they learn if mom says "No" to whatever she means it. And dont forget to get the ball rolling again if it appears to be a thing of the past....no....its new again if its been gone a while.
At this point with my son and my daughter too...for a variety of reasons....I have told them...warning is...code words..."your room". Since I am sick of the bickering and all the maddness...I said I would clean out their rooms....nothing but bed,clothes, dressers....those items would be left only. See honey heres the thing...for me...I have been like this with them since those nasty little years...they know now mom means it, even at four and six. Ya know its quiet hear most days now...I only need say those words and presto...its like magic!!!!!
That may work in the future...but for now Lupe remain consistant and do remind. That isnt going to do them in...they will make it past that. Though I am sure by the sounds that come out of them you may wonder. Its the key for this family Lupe and I hope you found it at least food for thought.
Take care
Maxie ↑ |
| Thanks Maxie. I will sure take your advice but you know now he is spitting, kicking and talking back.I don't know where he could of otten this from. No one teaches him this here at home I don't know what to do He even does this when we go out I really get frustraded .Like I said I am trying everything and when I get mad and can't take it anymore I don't let him see my frustration .I think his behavior is from , that he is the only child, and doesn't have any friends or anyone else to play with. I try to take him to the park at least 1 hr every day but theren't any kids his age and the kids there always fight with him sisnce they are older. I tried playing with him in our porch but my neighbor always complaints of him making a lot of noise wich he doesn't he is the only child. I am going crazy I don't know what alse to do. But thanks for the advice I am trying my best . I will keep you updated on how things turn out. God bless to every one. ↑ |
I know that it is hard my little one is nearly two and he has started to bite,kick and hit me when he cant get his own way.
What i have started to do is to tell him off and then put him in a different room(i always make sure that he cant hurt himself on anything)leave him for a few mins and go back in it is working at the moment as he will give me a kiss to say sorry.And he has started to do it a lot less now.!!!! ↑ |
| Thanks everyone for the advice I do appreciate it I am taking things from him and putting him in time out and even sending him to his room . My husband has talked to him and he told him he had to defendand protect mommy when daddy wasn't at home and that by his behavior he wasn't doing a good job. he then told my husband that he wasn't going to do it anymore and ever since I started taking his toys,tv,computer time,and video games,he has behave a little not as I would like but I will keep it up untill he understands that if mom or dad says no its no. By the way I have seen or heeard about this kind of behavior in kids his age is this normal on kids that are around this age?? Thanks for the advice. God Bless all of you. ↑ |
