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Name: Salenia

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I am married with two kids, and a full time mother, but I feel like I am a single mother of 3. He never wants to help me with the kids. When he gets home from work all he wants to do is watch tv or play the play station. If I ask him to give our 2 year son a bath he gets mad at me because he does not want to do it. I feel as though I do not have 2 kids but 3. He does not pick up behind himself. He does not put things back where they go after he is done with whatever it is. All I have wanted to do these past few days is sit down and cry because I can not get to every thing that needs to be done. I have tried talking to him about it, and he says that he will help out more. It gets better for a day or two but after that its back to how it was. i need some advise. How do I tell him that he is not being a real man without making him mad? ↓

Name: nraisor | Date: Jun 9th, 2009 10:50 PM

I hate to say it but no matter what you are probably going to make him mad. I had the same problem with my ex-husband. I tried talking to him in every way that I knew how and nothing seemed to work.
I also had the same problem with my current husband for a while. We have 3 children total (2 from my first marriage and 1 child together). Their ages currently are 4,3, and 1. He use to never understand why when he got home from work, despite his objections, I walked out the door and took a ten minute walk. We even fought about it a few times. Right up until he got laid off for a while. And he had to be home, all day, every day, with the kids. It took about 2 weeks and his attitude towards cleaning and helping out totally changed. Now even though I still feel at times like I have 4 children instead of 3, its because he plays with their toys as much as they do, LOL.
My only advice is maybe think of a way to show him how hard what you do all day is. My husband understands that now and he often remarks about how much easier he has it. Best of luck to you!!! ↑

Name: JeuneMaman | Date: Aug 4th, 2009 1:23 AM

There is no real way to tell him he is not being a real man without making him mad..... The truth is there is no other way but to make him get upset to realize what is going on is just wrong. I have been with my hubby for six years and it took me leaving with both the girls for two nights for him to realize I was serious about things having to change. It hurt,,, the both of us I must say.. But things couldn't be better now. Msg me at [email protected] if you want to talk more. ↑

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