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Name: momo

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While he is a very stubborn guy, Rylin will be staying with me full time..it will be up to rylin if he would like to have a visit with him..but right now i dont see it happening as rylin says he hates his dad..

Scott understands what he did is wrong and does feel guilt, but he also knows that i cant allow this to take place anymore and therefore i must do this..He doesn't want to get professional help..he thinks praying will be the answer.but i did tell him that he needs to get help and if he doesn't he is not showing me anything.because rylin wont be around for him to test his praying theory on..he needs tools to learn how to deal with it..

i am so happy that this went over well..he is not mad at me..he even opened up with some of his other life problems..and i told him thatryling cant take the brunt of his other problems..So thank you ladies for the good advice..and i will also be doing what cody jody said and taking notes..just in case this plan doesn't work out.. ↓

Name: bebe9281 | Date: Aug 16th, 2007 6:50 PM

Good for you!!! Stick to your guns!!!! ↑

Name: irish Amy | Date: Aug 16th, 2007 6:53 PM

Well done momo, its so much better to try and sort things civily but as we are all aware it cant always be done that way so big congrats that you at least got this far. ↑

Name: winnmom | Date: Aug 16th, 2007 8:35 PM

Awesome Momo!!!!!
I am so happy that this worked out for you, and Rylin.......Thank-fully he was understanding.
And hopefully through His Dad Praying....he will feel that he needs some professional help.......some times it is during prayer time that God will show the way:) ↑

Name: bmes | Date: Aug 18th, 2007 6:22 PM

jill, i wonder what kind of people could do that to their own children....it's something I will NEVER understand. people like that don't even deserve to get help. they are a waste of skin and they don't deserve to live themselves. in lots of cases i believe people deserve second chances and forgivness, but when it comes to stuff like that, it should be zero-tolerence. i really wish we had the death penalty here.... it makes me so sick to my stomach when i hear stuff like that....how can someone do that? i can't even smack Anika's hand when I tell her not to touch something. lol.....i did it once, and it turned into more of rub...lol....i just couldn't inflict pain on my own children like that...they're so innocent and trusting. ↑

Name: Mando | Date: Aug 25th, 2007 6:45 AM

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Name: Judge.Judy | Date: Aug 25th, 2007 12:51 PM

I think two things could be going on in this situation. One, Rylin's father is abusive. Or, two, Momo is creating a situation of Parental Alienation and contributing to her son hating his father. Either way, it is a very sad situation.

If Rylin's father is abusive, I say "if" because we are being presented with only one side to the story, then momo should be taking more concrete actions. Rylin's father should have a restraining order if this is all true. ↑

Name: Emma2 | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 2:40 PM

momo -- i'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this crap, but at least rylin trusts you enough to tell you what's going on. just imagine if he hadn't and these things were happening without your knowledge at all.
good idea -- taking notes. that way every single incident is documented.
take care. ↑

Name: maxieellis | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 4:05 PM

momo............babe.......i missed this the other day....how i dont know...but your doing the right thing.....on every level. As for him......remind him....the Lord helps those who help themselves. He needs tools to learn how to deal with his difficulties.....so that rylin....is not the brunt of his inability to cope.

Jill................my heart is in what feels like a million pieces....i could barely read that ......im crying right now.....f*ckin BAST*aDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I can almost literally feel the pain of those children....almost literally. My son is 5............im sick.........just sick........ ↑