You know what, I know I said I was going to let this go, but I can't. This person (i will not call her a lady, because she isn't one) is not claiming that I and codyjody are other people. I guess she realized that her first try of stirring up trouble is not working, so she's trying something else.
WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM, WHO ARE YOU GOING TO CALL...LUCKEY_IN_LIFE.....lol....NOT!!! ↓
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| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:36 AM |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:38 AM |
momof1,
I do not think you are going to pass your mental examination to become a surrogate if you keep this up. I was being sarcastic about the usernames! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:40 AM |
| you know what luckey..this is NOTHING wrong with my mental state. Obviously there is something wrong with yours. You never stated that you were being sarcastic...why would you even post something like that if you were not trying to cause trouble. Answer that one for me! ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:41 AM |
NO I have this figured out!!! She is having a midlife Crisis! Oh by the way do people that home school have foul mouths? Poor thing she forgot she wasn't Judge and Jury!
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Name: luckey_in_life Title: Midlife crisis/any advice
I decided to be a stay at home mom when my child was born because my husband travels alot and we don't have any relatives close by to help out.I worked before our child was born and saved so I could do this. I know alot of women have to work to pay the bills. I also decided to stay at home because of guilt. My mother told me when I was in college that she would help pay for my education but that if I ever became a mother I had better not work.
Now my child is a teenager. Because my child is getting older I am starting to think about what I want to do with my time. In four more years my teenager will probably be out on their own and my husband travels alot with his job.
My problem now is that I feel like I gave up too much of myself. I feel like I will have to start all over as far as my career. I also feel like it will be hard to get a job after not working for 20 years. I should have volunteered over the years but we moved alot and I always put everyone else first. Because I gave up a very important part of my life I sometimes feel like everyone takes me for granted. I guess I am having a midlife crisis. Does anyone have any advice? ?
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Name: luckey_in_life • Date: 10/16/2006 10:55:28
Also, How will you influence your daughter about motherhood? Will you teach them that they should work or stay at home when they become parents? If you have a son, what will you teach them to expect from their wife regarding working or staying home? = ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:45 AM |
No wait maybe she's not a person that homeschools....maybe she is........... a born again Christian that has an extremely bad potty mouth....or maybe she is just another TROLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Name: luckey_in_life • Date: 10/20/2006 09:42:17
What does the bible say about homeschooling?
Anyway, if you want your children to be educated in a religious environment you can send them to a religious school. However, that ‘exclusivity’ of belief is remarkably unhealthy - I believe that religious believers shouldn’t shut themselves away, but rather engage in society, and understand other people’s beliefs and points of view.
As far as kids not asking their parents for advice as they become teenagers, I believe that is a normal part of childhood development and not a product of the educational system. You also want your children spending time with adults and not other teens--Wow, you are robbing them of an important time in their lives!
You stated that the education you provide your children is custom designed. It’s a pretty good bet that you won’t be as good as a teacher, unless you are one - in which case you home schooling your own children is depriving the educational system of your services. Furthermore, even if you excel in one area, how can you cover all the things a school does? The point of a school curriculum is that these are things that society has determined children need to learn. Your children will live in society someday when they leave your home. Even if you are strong in one or two subjects, it seems tremendously unlikely that you can cover all the required ground. Home school support groups can’t make a parent into a teacher, any more than a book on engineering makes one an engineer - the vocation of teaching is a much more challenging one than you suggest.
Schools beat homes on two significant fronts – facilities and an atmosphere that encourages learning. Homes are very unlikely to have extensive science laboratories, sports facilities and more. It must be terribly confusing for your children to be asked to ‘switch’ to ‘learning mode’ and then back to ‘play mode’ in the same environment by the same people.
For the older child, homeschooling represents ample opportunities for abuse -for pushing for activities they enjoy instead of a lesson, or manipulating you, the parent, into slacking off ‘just this once’. Schools are for learning - that's their function. The home is an altogether more complex environment, poorly suited for the purpose of instruction. = ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:48 AM |
WOW Luckey-
You seem to be a wealth of information on all topics! You really seem to throw your opinions around!
You have the nerve to tell us that we have no life, meanwhile you are posting in lots of different forums.
Thanks, Sweetiepie. That was enlightening. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:48 AM |
| What's your point sweetiepie? ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:49 AM |
| Her point is you TROLL the internet! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:49 AM |
| Thank you sweetpie for posting all of this. ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:49 AM |
No!! Got that wrong again it's because she use to eat bologna and ketchup sandwiches, in high school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Geez that explains everything!
luckey_in_life Title: What makes you a Freak?
Some things are regional, some things are family oriented, some things are just down right wrong.
What do you eat that others may consider freakish?
I'll go first.
-Ketchup and bread.
-sugar and bread.
-Fritos and cream cheese.
-I crush sour cream and onion potato chips and sprinkle them on my tuna salad sandwich.
-I use to eat bologna and ketchup sandwiches, in high school, don't know why.
-I mix my coleslaw and mashed potatoes together (the sides we get at the fried chicken place). ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:50 AM |
| Luckey...have a question for you? What is your education background? From the way you talk, you want people to think you have a PHD. ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:51 AM |
Looks like Lucky really is having a midlife Crisis....she has an opinion on everything!
Name: luckey_in_life • Date: 10/20/2006 20:30:41
Yes, 13 is old enough to know one is gay. However, just make sure he is not just fooling around online and pretending to be gay. If he is gay, don't expect him to fess up to it right away. He is probably well aware of the judgement that will be placed on him. = ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:51 AM |
Carolyn,
Is there a rule against posting in more than one forum? ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:52 AM |
| that's gross....but that is just my opinion....LOL ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:53 AM |
momof1,
Would you rather I talk to your level? ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:54 AM |
Why should we be so "LUCKY" ?
GO focus your efforts somewhere else! ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:55 AM |
So whats it gonna take to muzzle you Lucky????
Name: luckey_in_life Title: Should Pitt Bulls be banned?
Some cities have banned pit bull ownership.
Other cities have required that owners register their pitt bull with the city and muzzle the dog while in public places. They will fine the owner and take the dog if owners do not comply. What do you think? Should there be restrictions on Pitt Bull ownership? ? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:56 AM |
Carolyn,
I leave this stupid forum and then one of you posts in the SAHM forum to get my attention. I think it takes two sides to argue and two to stop the arguing! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:58 AM |
sweetiepie,
Post everything I ever wrote on Babycrowd. I am really impressed that you would take the time to do that. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:59 AM |
sweetiepie,
You must not have anything better to do if you're looking at my posts when you don't like it anyway. How sad. ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:00 AM |
I never posted in SAHM forum- for one, I have only been a stay at home mom since June 19th of this year, when I resigned my very lucrative corporate sales position to adopt my son the following week.
You won't find me there ! If anyone is posting to you there, I am not aware of it! ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:01 AM |
Ok, my final thought...Lucky is Troll, probably male, that likes pit bulls, and considers himself judge and jury, he is always right and is having a mid life crisis doesn't know whether to homeschool or not, can't decide if he is a Christian........probably needs to be bedded..(thought I would be nice there)....and just a fruit like Janet Posey!
And well what more can I say....OH NEEDS TO GET A LIFE AND FOCUS ON SOMETHING HE KNOWS ABOUT! ↑ |
| Name: sweetiepie | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:06 AM |
Oh I lied....one MORE THING!
Kiss my Ass Troll and get the HELL out of here! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:06 AM |
| Carolyn... I did post over in the SAHM forum. I post there sometimes. I did this the night she stated attacking me. I had read some of her post on there, and i was curious if she caused the same trouble there that she was doing there. I probably shouldn't have gone over there and posted, she was just frustrating me that night! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:07 AM |
Carolyn,
momof1 and codyjody have been posting in the SAHM all day to get my attention so I would come over here. They are the ones that can't let go of this. They are the stalkers! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:08 AM |
| momof1 you also posted over there today to try to get everyone's opinion of me. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:08 AM |
| That is called stirring it up! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:08 AM |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:09 AM |
| How am I a stalker... I just posted that it was me that posted over there. Out of everything that has unfolded the last couple of days, that is the one thing I will admit that I shouldn't have done. ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:09 AM |
E,
Luckey is grasping at straws........... ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 3:10 AM |
| oh, and one more thing. It wasn't today that i posted that topic, it was 2 days ago. ↑ |
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