| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 1:39 AM |
| It does stink of reproduction prostitution! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 1:42 AM |
| you are not "renting a womb". I'm doing this because I want to help another couple have a child. A woman's body goes through alot when their pregnant. Adoption is risky, but with surrogacy, you know that if a baby is conceived and is born, you will bring a baby home. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 1:44 AM |
| Surrogacy is very risky! That is one of the reasons there is so much controversy surrounding it. What about when the surrogate decides she wants to keep the baby? Wants more money? Doesn't take care of her health while pregnant? Disappears while pregnant to avoid handing over the child? ↑ |
| Name: nyjocool | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 1:48 AM |
| Momof1, you don't have to keep defending yourself against this troll. We support you. We know surrogacy and a legal way create a family and for some a very desirable option. We don't care what Luckey thinks. You're cool with us!!! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 1:49 AM |
| I do agree that there has been instances of the surromom trying to keep the baby, and the other issues you posted to arrise. But if you handle everything legally (through an agency or attorney), things like that do not come up. THere should be a legal contract drawn up to protect both parties involoved. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 1:50 AM |
| I know, i'm sorry. She just erks me, and I don;t understand why she is doing this. I will stop...click and ignore!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:46 AM |
Name: momof1 Title: Surrogate looking for the right family......
Hello... I have been thinking about becoming a surrogate for some time now. Through much though and research, I have decided this is something I would like to do. It would be a joy and HONOR for my to help someone experience the same love and joy I have for my son. My questions is... I haven't had much luck in finding the right family. Anyone have any suggestions?? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:46 AM |
| I think momof1 came to babycrowd to find a job! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:48 AM |
| How dare you say that... I already have a job. I'm a single mom, and I have no problem providing for my family. Why are you doing this? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:50 AM |
| Because I think it is unethical for you to post for surrogacy in an unmonitored adoption forum. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:52 AM |
This sounds like you were fishing........
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Name: momof1 Title: Surrogate looking for the right family......
Hello... I have been thinking about becoming a surrogate for some time now. Through much though and research, I have decided this is something I would like to do. It would be a joy and HONOR for my to help someone experience the same love and joy I have for my son. My questions is... I haven't had much luck in finding the right family. Anyone have any suggestions?? ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:53 AM |
| Why is it unethical. It all has comes down to common sense. I know there are alot of unstable people out there. I would never work with someone that was mentally ill. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:54 AM |
| I don't think anything I say will change your mind. I was looking into different avenues of finding a family to work with. And there is nothing unethical about that. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 3:58 AM |
| I completely disagree with you. It is very unethical. You came to an adoption site looking for a surrogacy job. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:00 AM |
| it's not a "job".... I was coming in here asking questions and there is nothing unethical about that. You can think what you want... but it;s kinda intresting that you are the only one that shares that thought. ↑ |
| Name: Pattyjb | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:00 AM |
| Lucky, who died and put you in charge??????? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:01 AM |
| Outside this forum, I am sure their are a lot of people who would side with me. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:02 AM |
| You are creating a child for the purpose of exchanging it for money. There is a difference between what you do and adoption. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:04 AM |
| I can't belive that are even saying these things. YOu can't put a price on a baby. and everyone that I have spoken with has never said anything about the compensation. It's a little amont for the sake of a baby. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:05 AM |
Sound familiar?
"I'm asking for a between $15-$18 thousand." ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:07 AM |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:09 AM |
| You contradict yourself. You say you are not in it for the money. And then in another post you say I am asking about $15 to $18 thousand. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:11 AM |
| someone was asking me about general fees. That is not contradicting myself. I was just answering someone elses questions. I have nothing to hide, and I have always been honest about everything. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:13 AM |
| There is alot involved in surrogacy. YOu have to take 6 weeks of shots, you have to go through test, your food and household bills go up because of being pregnant. for 10 months your life is not yours, you are pregnant. And the couple doesn't what you to have a stressful pregnancy. A happy mom is a happy baby. ↑ |
| Name: mommyboo | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:21 AM |
| Ok I have had it Im sorry everyone but I Have to say this....I dont like to talk like this But luckey you are a B**ch You need to leave now!!!You have crossed the line for the last time.Now your just plain hurting people for your own enjoyment and thats sycotic.Get some help ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:24 AM |
| I know i need to let this go, and not let this person get to me. But I'm having a hard time doing that. Thanks again everyone for their support. :) ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:45 AM |
Hey Momof1......she will move on soon! She had me so wound up the other day, saying that I'm insane that I need counseling... She even went as far as saying it was our fault for getting scammed! Yes, she ruffled my feathers, and raised my blood pressure...but I realised this is the reason she is here. She is a troll and this is what trolls do! She obviously has nothing better to do. IMO, she should add... NOT_... in front of her user name!
She is like a pimple on the butt,,,,,, if you pick it, it will get worse...Just let the ZIT be, it will go away!
************HUGS***********
Jody..... ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:48 AM |
| Thanks jody... I just realized I let her get the better of me. Most everyone on this site knows about me, I have never had anything to hide. And I don't need to be concerned about someone coming on here, she will leave (hopefully soon)...How is you little man doing?? ↑ |
| Name: Ashley_21 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:50 AM |
| If you all wanna chat come to my chat room www.lhcw.net/adoption and I am on her side it is not just about money but look what she is doing giving someone a healthy child ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:53 AM |
Collin is doing great! Thanks for asking! Dad just gave him a bath and he is heading to bed! How is your little guy? Hope he is doing great as well! Is he better now? Hope so! :)
Yes, she got the "worst" of me the other day as well! It's OK tho, atleast our lives arent as bad as hers obviously is! I FEEL LUCKEY!!!!
Jody****** ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 4:57 AM |
| Well said Jody. My little guy is doing GREAT. no problems since the surgery, and he has even stopped snorring. HEHE.... ↑ |
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