| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:45 PM |
| I was letting it die but you posted over in the other forum and then ultimatemom asked a question. If I didn't want to let it go I would use your tactic and post this whole debate over in the due date forum! That would be playing by your rules! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:45 PM |
| Isn't it funny that Luckey doesn't think paying an agency $15,000 and up is resonable. But this isn't. If you want to be techincal.....some could say both ways are "baby selling".....and i just want to let you know that I don't agree with that. I'm playing devil's advocate right now. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:47 PM |
| I would not do that, that is not right. The only reason I went over to the SAHM crowd is b/c I do post on there are well. And I had seen your name under some post, and I was curious if over there you caused the same trouble. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:48 PM |
| Why pay for surrogacy if you can afford to adopt? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:50 PM |
| Well maybe I am curious to see what the due date crowd thinks about surrogacy since they are experiencing the bonding of motherhood! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:51 PM |
| Most people spend years trying to adopt a baby. There are the lucky ones that don't have to wait that long. But I have talked with a couple of families that have been scammed with adoption, or have been picked by a birthmom, and she changes her mind. Surrogacy is their last option to have a baby (that I will agree with). ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:54 PM |
| I know that when I do this it will be bitter sweet. How can you not love a child that you have been carrying for 9 months. But I'm going into this knowing that this is not my baby. I will be the "first mommy" for the 9 months. It will be my job to protect the baby and help it grow. ANd after the baby is born, they go to their "forver parents". I;ve thought long and hard before I decided to do this. One thing I am requiring is I want to speak with a counslor during the pregnancy and after the baby is born. I think that is very important. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:56 PM |
| And as far as stating ones opinion in a nice manner. I tried that in the beginning with stating that I thought that this forum should not be used as a place to arrange adoptions. Then everyone who disagreed went on the attack! So as far as I am concerned, I have played fair. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:56 PM |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:57 PM |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 8:58 PM |
| if that was your reason for coming on here, why did you turn to whole surrogacy thing. and you brought my name into it... you could have talked about in a general way, you didn't have to make it personal ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 9:00 PM |
You brought your name into it when you posted this:
Name: momof1
Title: Luckey_in_life...no one wants you here...please leave ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 9:01 PM |
| allot of other people stated the same thing...why did you feel the need to just focus on me. I'm just curious. ↑ |
| Name: ultimatemom | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 9:52 PM |
| Well I for one am SO sorry I asked ↑ |
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