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| Name: readytoadopt | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 12:50 AM |
| Dez...Hey sweetie I am the one who who ask could you my email and post and I would love for you to. Everyone needs to know the real truth about adoption and the love of a baby goes far beyond getting the baby and leaving....Luv you Girl ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 1:55 AM |
| This is an email that I got today or yesterday and I ask if I could share it because I'm curious to see if this is what most afamilies would like to have in terms of relationship with the bfamilies. Pleez Read I would love if you hear any one please pass my email along but here is what we are looking for a Open Loving Adoption and that means not just some one that, I see at labor and then a send apicture to every month or so, I want a loving Bmom that can be in our family, just like a sister some one to share holidays with, phonecalls, emails and lots of visits not just a baby thing I want some one I can be my self around, we can be us and so can she. I want to love her and adopt her as I do her little miracle I know some people think I am stupid but i love that Idea and thats why I do not want a Agency because they want to hand you baby and BYE and we do not want that. I want to be able to call us our Bmom and say ok, its Christmas , what are you doing, If we pay can we come up or can you come down, Does this make since. I want to share our dreams and hopes and what kind of special person she will be not just now but the rest of our lifes. Well I hope this did not drive you crazy and maybe my wish is a little tto out there but I want that and I think that will be a great day when that happens, Thanks for listening Hugs So if the oppurtunity was there to have this type of relationship with the bmom that eventually all of you will meet would you like a relationship like this?? I"m hoping maybe to get some conversation going here as well as making some friends. Most of the posts here are empty what I mean by that is what happens is a bmom comes along, look out then everyone posts there emails and there call mes but there is nothing more intimate to show that this is a group of caring ladies with the hope of caring for a baby.. That a bunch of woman can get together and help each othere through this frustrating time of searching and you may make some friends and at the same time a bmom may stumble accross a post like that and say wow that woman really is true and I'd like to know her more. Does that make any sense!? Basically you can post anytime for anything not just when a bmom comes along. I'm anxious to hear or should I say see if anyone replies to this..... HUGZ Hugz hugs ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 1:58 AM |
| PS I forgot something as usual, I'm not saying by this that I think this is the way a relationship has to be with the bmom and amom.. I think there are a bunch of different relastionships you can have and none are wrong if it works for you and she! pss please forgive the spelling errors!! ↑ |
| Name: seal | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 3:11 AM |
| I think it is so very important to keep a relationship with the birthparents of an adoptive child. I think that there is so much that only they can express. We of course are hoping to adopt as you all know, and we hope that we are given the opportunity to personally know the birth family. Blessings to you all, Seal ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 3:45 AM |
| Seal, Just sharing emails and things with you I am positive that you will have nothing less!! I hope it will work out for the Oct bday gift!! Cutie Truman maybe a bro sooner than later!!!!! HUGZ GIRL ↑ |
| Name: readytoadopt | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 5:42 AM |
| Ava, Thank you! you are the best and (Seal) I do hope the same and I have never met you but you give me vibes that you will be a great mom, Hope that for you soon. Hugs to both of you ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 5:45 AM |
| Ready and Seal you two should exchange email addies you two have allot in common and would probably make great support for each other. If you want let me know if you dont want to post your email here I can forward one to the other!! YOu guys take a look at this: http://i.euniverse.com/funpages /cms_content/2529/4candles.swf copy and paste the url in your addy bar ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 5:43 AM |
| Lisa did you get my email??? ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 7:25 PM |
| Lisa, I still havent gotten a response and you told me in your first note that you were in trouble now I'm very worried please contact me if for nothing else but to say you are ok!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 4:01 AM |
| This is a question for all!!!!!!!!! HAS ANYONE GOT A MSG FROM A GIRL NAMED LISA IN THE LAST WEEK OR SO??? SAYING SHE WAS IN TROUBLE???? ↑ |
| Name: bbaby2006 | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 4:24 AM |
| AAVA no - i haven't heard from any Lisa. I will keep my eyes open. ↑ |
| Name: babygirl456 | Date: Aug 12th, 2006 8:55 AM |
| WOW I just started to come here and by the looks of things I wont be back .Is ME trying to adopt cause I wont never give that crazy lady my child and if she is a Bmom ,I know why she gave her child up ↑ |
| Name: seal | Date: Aug 12th, 2006 2:03 PM |
| babygirl456, you need to ignore 'me'. there are kind people here. i wish you the best! seal ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: Aug 12th, 2006 11:41 PM |
| baby, Thanks for the laugh!!!! much needed.. Seal to funny huh!!!LOL ↑ |
| Name: bluitexan20000 | Date: Aug 29th, 2006 4:49 AM |
| nice topic but how are people scammin to adopt i dont understand?? ↑ |
