i really don't know what i should do ↑ |
Im a 15 year old girl and i have been suffiring depression for about a year now im on anti deppresents but now im gettin bullied really bad any 1 got any advice for me please x x x ↑ |
Have you tried talking to her it difficult but if you don do it soon it might be to late tyr talking to someone about it get some help.Ask her what is going on.Tell her that you love her and that will never change.I was depressed for a long time i was hard having to listen and it was hard to believe that others loved me.i had to go through alot of treatment.call a doctor it helped me. ↑ |
you need to get her to the docter to put her on depreshion pills. go on the internet and look up thesigns for suicide. I am 17 and i suffer from depreshion. I was put on pill and am doing much better. I you have any questions email me at
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Hope she gets better
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I was the same way as your daughter, im 17 years old now im still depressed, but what keeps me busy is going to skool till 8 at night and i work alot of hours, i went through counseling and all that stuff, it just depresses you more, because i realized they act like they care about you but they really dont, its just all about the money they making, ur daughter just needs love from her parents as much as she can get. ↑ |
the best thing to do is sit her down and ask her straight what is going on if not my mom took me to a group and i had 1 and 1 with sum 1 it helped me to get it all out and it helped my mood swings and temper so luk bab dont worrie and if u are give me your email addy and i will give u more infomation on it hope i have helped u xxxxgood luck xxx ↑ |
Try to talk to her about it. If she won't talk, well...I wouldn't reccomend you take her to a doctor or counseler because that usually makes them worse. Has she started to cut? Anyways, one of my friends was suicidal and cut, and I talked to my pastor and he helped her a lot, It has been 8 months. Maybe she just needs a shoulder to cry on... support her through this tough time ↑ |
i know what your daughter feels like. Thats how i feel to. You have to sit back and think why she may be doing this. Rifts in the family or stuff at school. You have to talk to her and try to understand her. ↑ |
i'm 13 i used to get so down all the time i became suicidal my mom took me to a pshyciatrist and now i am on prozac. try talking to her dont piss her of at all girls get really bitchy really fast. i know i used to freak out on my mom for even telling me something. try not to pry into her business ask her what is bothering her and tell her that this is a safe place and that u won't judge her and dont. ↑ |
take her to a councilor or a g.p. i suffer fromr depresson and i find it really helps. ↑ |
Im 16...I have been real depressed lately, also... I havent wanted to go to school, and the past 2 months, I have missed more school than I went....I think you should find out what is bothering her, and then try to do something about it..Its hard being a teenager, you were there once. Maybe since she wont go to school, ask her if she would be interrested in homeschooling, im in the process of doing that right now. Look into American School Of Corr.....Good Luck, Tell your daughter that I kno what shes going through, and that the best thing about being down is that the only place you have to go is up...Hope this works ↑ |
Take her to a doctor first, then take her to a counselor....even if she refuses to go, it'll help her. I am not a mother I am 15 years old...and I know exactly how she feels.
I'm trying to get help myself. ↑ |
Yes this is time for a professionl. try talking with her, my only guess is self loathing, but why. self image, bullying, sexual abuse, at home maybe, an olderbrother or some one? maybe she's pregnant? talk to her about talking to some one. ↑ |
First of all take away the music...........I used to live off of music and it fed into my brain like no tomorrow. I believed all of the words to be true. What kind of music does she like? Rock, Rap??? Pick up some heavy metal christian music.......it sounds the same but sends a positive message and the kids doesn't even know it. Search on the internet for some sites on religious rock/rap or whatever she likes........just tell her you got her a gift and hand her a cd that rocks out if that is what she is into. Maybe she will get the message that God is there for her. I was that depressed girl when I was young and didn't get much better until age 36 after years of drinking and drugging. So.........grasp it now. You need to get some help too..........if she is that far down you need counseling but the first thing is getting her out of her room and finding out what is bothering her. If she won't talk to you find a young woman counselor.......Vineyard Churches are awesome if you have one in your area. They play live loud music for worship and most of them have a great kids group to attend where she can connect with teens. They dress in jeans and some of them have the funky hair styles there. This may not work at first but get the music away as she is feeding off of it as I did. It will keep her down. ↑ |
I am 16 years old and I am the same way. I hardly eat. I always listen to depressin music. I have slit my wrist numerous times. I have tried to commit suicide three times. I have been in a hospital to help me with my problems and still i am not happy. I hate school because I have no friends. I cry and wonder how life for everyone else would be if I'm wasnt here. She does need help. \SERIOUS HELP!!! ↑ |
im only 13 and have only just started to get depressed the worst thing is i dont know when these waves of depresssin are going to hit. i was walking home from school today and nearly walked infront of a car because i was feeling so depressed. ihardly eat anymore and hardly sleep. these waves of depression are becoming more frequent what should i do? ↑ |
Magen my mom is on nher 2 ↑ |
You should try and get closer to her...dotn rush to it just let time do what it has to do try and go to the mall together just the two of you so you can talk to her or try to tell her that u'll take her to a cunselor ↑ |
Most teenagers don't know the first thing about being depressed, maybe if they knew that life isn't about having a boyfriend and staying with him from the time you are 13-14. I lost my dad when i was 9 and ever since that day i have been depressed. I feel as though i have no one my age to talk to about it. Most of my friends are depressed about boyfriend girlfriend stuff. I have never really tryed to harm myself yet. And some of my friends have. They don't realise how good they have it. If anyone is feeling the same LET ME KNOW! I feel so alone and NEED someone to talk to! ↑ |
depression sucks, thats all that there's to say...watch out for any sharp objects in the bathroom, room, wherever...thats what my parents did...took all sharp objects from my reach. it made me feel stupid and young, but was the only way helped me get better...also, just being around positive people helps...just getting more involved in my youth group really helped (along with meds and psychiatrist..) there's hope though, she just needs help ↑ |
well i cut myself all the time and the only think in this whole world from killing myself is my mum so gets drunk all the time and all i want is to talk to her and mabey i can try to stop, so when see needs u, u will know, good luck ↑ |
I might be able to tell you how she is feeling from my point of view...she needs you to listen to her. Tell her you understand. Be compassionate and let her KNOW your gonna help her get through the depression...what are her reasons for not going to school? for she wont be traunt she may need to go to hospital school and see her doctor to prescribe her medication for her apparent depression..In the mean time encourage her to get well. depression is like any other disease. she will most likely get a psychiatrist to help her balance her feelings. more than likely she is suicidal talk talk talk to her even if she doesn't want to...give her uncoditional love to brighten her spirits... ↑ |
If you need help to make friends just think of something you have not did to make them. ↑ |
hello, how r u. does she have a boyfriend? if not, that could be the problem. does she angry easy? i know this stuff how? i am a young teen and totally understand. let her make most of her decisions, but not all. i encourage u to MAKE her go to school! bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
hiya im in the exact same boat as your daughter i get bullied alot also... ↑ |
Take her to the hospital or contact a local mental health professional immediately. If you dont do it right away,you will find its too late to do anything at all. ↑ |
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