| Name: rain | Date: Jul 21st, 2006 6:36 PM |
| Rachel, I have a hard time believing this anymore. I am sorry. I think this is someone having fun with us. It the oddest chance and I do mean oddest chance, that you are real. Why do you ask what do I do? People only really ask that when they plan on taking good advice. You don’t. Why should anyone tell you what to do, when you don’t care what we say, you will stay, and have 5000 new stories about the (SPINSTER) aunt. Strange word for a twenty three year old. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 1:35 PM |
| Im sorry Rain you are right I should listern and try to act on the advice im becoming pathetic its just that I no it sounds mad but im in this mad house thank you im sorry i dont know how to explain it sorry ↑ |
| Name: To Rachel | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 2:46 PM |
| Thats dead right you are pathetic this woman dresses you in old womans undies and dress she takes you to a barbers and you just sit in the chair and let some guy cut of all your hair and now she has bought the clippers to do the job herself I dont think pathetic sums you up.When her sister comes to stay they are going to have a great time with you they could turn you into what ever they feel the least they will do is shave your head what will you do if they decide you need a good spanking mind you I think that would be a good idea you need a wake up call you PATHETIC CHILD you are not fit to be called a woman.If your husband is going to send for you just leave now and move into a hotel till you get the call.If you stay there you deserve all they dish out and I bet they have plans SO GET OUT NOW!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 3:48 PM |
Rachel,
Call an abuse hotline. Leave! Go live with a friend; get a job and start feeling better about yourself. The man you are with, allowed his mother to hurt you. You must leave people who hurt you. Bottom line: NO ONE CAN EVER HURT YOU UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM TO. Leave them all. Then when you start a new relationship, be upfront that you will not put up with anyone treating you badly. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 7:54 PM |
| Yep I'm with deathbunny ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 8:34 PM |
| You are right Rain but my husband has gone and my mother in laws sister is here and they are very friendly do you think that maybe it could be ok to stay its only for a short time? ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 10:28 PM |
| Hi Rain we all went out for a meal it was great we had some wine and her sister thought my hair looked great and she asked me if I liked it and I said it was ok we are getting on good I think it could be ok.she said I dressed to drab and thinks that she will get me some different stuff to wear things are looking better maybe I got her wrong do you think its worth the risk Rain I dont think im being fooled but Idont realy know. ↑ |
| Name: OT | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 1:07 AM |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 5:11 PM |
| Thank you Rain everything is ok her sister has bought me a new dress a bit childish but much better than what I have been wearing she thinks my hair is great she did not laugh im going to let her clip it she is great.my mother in law is just not involved I think I will stay till my husband calls but I have given your comments a lot of thought he did let her hurt me so I may leave ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 5:48 PM |
Rachel,
It is just so sad. I always just want the best for everyone. Everyone deserves to be happy. What I said earlier is true. Life is short, and one day you have to look back on it, this should be a great moment of reflection. We all have cross-roads where decisions are difficult to make. I try very hard when making a decision to decide what I may regret. I want to have few regrets in my life. I hate the feeling of looking back and regretting things I have done. Look at your life and ask your self, what will you regret. Never, EVER allow anyone to hurt you. Your life is precious and no ones but your own. You have hurt yourself. You must treat your self with the greatest of dignity, and others who love to cause pain will pass you buy, when they see you are not a victim. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 6:40 PM |
| I understand what you are saying Rain I have now realised what you are saying thanks to you I understand that he let his mother hurt me.Thats not going to happen again I hope her sister is ok Iwill be out of hear soon and I think you are right I should make a fresh start my hair will grow back and im going to start a new life thanks you are great you have let me see that there are some nice people out there im going to stay for a few weeks i dont think anything can go wrong just a hair clip thats nothing thanks again Rain you are a real gem.Do you think its ok to stay ? ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 6:53 PM |
| It is often hard for us to tell others what to do, because we would handle it so differently. I would never stay, I would have told her that she was in my house, and if she were not kind to me, she could let the door hit her on the way out. I would have looked at him, and said, no one treats me this way. BYE! I would never look back. And if he ever came back to say he was sorry, I would not care. Remember this. People sooner or later show you who they really are. Why does it take us so long to believe them? They have all shown you who they really are. Nothing can make up for that. Mya Angelou stated that once. What a good lesson for us all. Go find the happy in life. No one will make you happy. Only you can make you happy. Thank you Rachel for the kind words, I appretiate them, now turn that kindness on yourself. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 7:46 PM |
| Thanks again Rain why did I not find you before you are wasted on this chat forum Im leaving soon you are right I need to make a fresh start Im going to let her sister clip my hair tonight it cant do any harm I am making plans to move out to a friends house.Im going to split with my husband you are right he is no good thanks again ↑ |
| Name: To Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 7:59 PM |
| You pathetic woman Rain is trying to tell you to get out now and you think its ok to stay for gods sake this woman is not going to just give you a trim she will remove what hair you have left its all an act the both of them will make you look stupid yes your hair will grow back but do you realy want to be bald ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 8:15 PM |
| This is true, you stated how short your hair was, how could it be trimmed anymore, and no woman can understand this, because our hair means so much to us. Most of us would have opened a can of whoop butt on anyone trying to touch it. That is why everyone is angry. Allow no one to touch you, your hair, your clothes, your life. You need empowerment. I know not everyone is born with that, not everyone is raised to have it, but it is there always for the taking. Educate your self, on your self esteem problem. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 10:12 PM |
| I know you are right but I need to end this nightmare and this could be the way I understand now he did not love me as I did him his mother is everthing but she has nealy ruined my life but what can they do now shave whats left of my hair they have lost im not staying.What more could they do.I should have gone before so what happened is my own fault I deserved it sorry Rain but you let me see the truth thanks ↑ |
| Name: To Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 10:23 PM |
| You are beyond believe Rachel why do you submit to having your head shaved just leave now or is it that you feel so guilty that you want to be punished in this way.Why not ask them to give you a dam good thrashing as well dont you think you need one just open the door and walk away feel good for your self go now dont subit any more ↑ |
| Name: Sue | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 10:32 PM |
| For gods sake just strip tell them to shave your head then walk out the door butt naked what a way to go!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: To Rachel | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 7:01 PM |
| What happened last night !!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: to Rachel | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 8:23 PM |
| Have you left what happened????? ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 9:09 AM |
| When I read your post I just sat and cried yes you are right I did want to be punished Rain and all the others were right why o why did I not leave.I did let them shave my head then I left the next day I live at a friends house now and wont be going back.I feel so sorry that I wasted your time Im growing up now I was imature sorry ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 5:23 PM |
| Get a cane and start wearing DEPENDS!!!! lol No,seriously,you need to make a stand and tell your mother-in-law you are an adult and you can dress yourself and wear your hair any way you please and you are 23 NOT 83!! Tell your husband either she goes or you go and if he tells you she's staying,pack your bags and run as far and fast as you can away from that place!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 5:41 PM |
| Thanks Lizzi I have gone Im still wearing the big Knickers but ive dumped all the dresses and got some my style nothing I can do about the bald head it will grow back so thats ok thanks ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 2:05 PM |
Ply her with alcohol then place toy cars and trucks on the stairs for her to fall over!
Then pack your bags and leave.....for good!!!!!!! ↑ |
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