| Name: beth.a | Date: Jun 24th, 2009 6:34 PM |
hey the same is happening to me,
im very scared as well
me and my boyfriends are going to get a test to see if i am or not,
if you talk to your boyfriends then you might be able to sort somthing out!
The best thing to do i think is to go day by day, if the pregnancy test comes out possitive it is time to either start thinking about telling your parents or to go to brooks and have a free abortion!
i can't give that much advise as i am turning 14 this friday and think i am up to 3 weeks pregnant!
But dont be scared to go out and get a pregnancy test because that is the only way to know if oyu are pregnant or not!
if you are too scared of buying one ask your boyfriend if he is over 16 to buy 1 for you. ↑ |
| Name: Daisy | Date: Jun 24th, 2009 11:08 PM |
| Im 12 13 in october Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex on sunday he isnt producing sperm yet so do i need a comdom and can i get pregnant with oout using protection ? not that i want to ↑ |
| Name: ray ray | Date: Jul 2nd, 2009 7:42 AM |
| im 14 nd i think im pregnant idk wat to do!!!!im hella scared nd i dnt no how to tel my man abt it sum one plz help me plz!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: yvette | Date: Jul 3rd, 2009 9:37 AM |
| ok im thinking about having sex....but im scared that the condom with break....if i do get pregnet what should i do? im 12 years old.. ↑ |
| Name: randomer | Date: Jul 4th, 2009 10:07 PM |
| im 10 and im pregnant i had sex with my bf my baby is due next week i was scared to tell ma mum but in the end i told her she wasnt mad at all ↑ |
| Name: Susie | Date: Jul 7th, 2009 11:55 PM |
| Im 14 also and ive been through this, need any advice? ↑ |
| Name: Meghan | Date: Jul 8th, 2009 8:07 PM |
| Ok, i think i might be pregnant too. My bf is 13, same as me... I haven't started periods yet but might be ovulating. We didn't use condom, could i get pregnant? ↑ |
| Name: KC1420 | Date: Jul 8th, 2009 8:26 PM |
if you think you are pregnant please consider adoption as your choice.
if you want to talk start your own post and ask for my help
KC1420 ↑ |
| Name: Goodness Gracious | Date: Jul 10th, 2009 9:19 PM |
| First off, my belief is that if you cannot afford a child (or if you're a child yourself) you probably shouldn't be having unprotected sex--If you think you're pregnant go to the store and by a pregnancy test--if you can't afford that, then once again-Don't have unprotected sex. You chose to have sex and you should have to take on the responsibility that comes with it (getting pregnant, contracting an STD, etc)--Most states have places where you can get assistance if you believe you're pregnant though (supplying tests and information). Also, I recommend not getting an abortion because if you can have sex you're obviously capable of taking care of a child...right?! (total sarcasm)--Not to mention how responsible you are, yet again, but tell your parents--it's not like they'll murder you. To answer the brilliant teen who asked if "pre cum" contained sperm, Yes, yes it does---perhaps that would have been helpful before you had unprotected sex?! ↑ |
| Name: BOOKEyy | Date: Jul 11th, 2009 9:13 AM |
| any bodyy datz needz a friend .iimmm here .email mee [email protected] i will listen to any problemz..im 13 too and i can be a greeaat friend! so email mee yo problemz! ↑ |
| Name: Jessica15 | Date: Jul 12th, 2009 3:53 PM |
| hey im 15 & mite b pregnant 2 bt tha thing iz u kant wry 2 much & yes i kno its a really big deal kuz havin a babi isn't eazy bt yall kant stress it ok!! =) bt tha best thing all of us who think dat we r kan do iz jus wait & wait until atleast 2 wks or mayb even 4wks (dats hw lng ppl suggested i wait 2 make sure) so jus wait & den take a test & find out ok!! well if any1 wants 2 chat im here!!! =) ↑ |
| Name: jessica | Date: Jul 14th, 2009 9:48 PM |
| im turning 14 in 2 days and i have all the signs of pregnancy and i think im pregnant but i have not took the test and if i am i dont know how to tell my mom that im pregnant HELP ?!?! ↑ |
| Name: geraldine | Date: Jul 15th, 2009 11:30 PM |
| im 16 and split up with my partner a month ago but we have had sex 2wice since 1 being 2 nights ago we never use protection he just pulls out. but the last 2 periods i had were short and for about 2 days normally they are for 5 days. i have been having back ache and bloating. im scared to talk to him as he doesnt listen to me any more i need help ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Jul 16th, 2009 5:14 PM |
| im 12 and im pregnant i had sex with my boyfriend he is 18 and he said he still loved me and gunna be a good dad but i dont know how to tell my parents there gunna flip! ↑ |
| Name: Abbie | Date: Jul 16th, 2009 7:36 PM |
Rite,,
as weird as this may be i think im pregnant,
im 12 turning 13
well,, ive had sex and think i may be pregnant i have put on 3 pounds and im getting a rounder belly,
whatt shall ii do,
im too scared to go down town and get a pregnancy test just incase they ask me questions and tell my parents what shall ii do ? ↑ |
| Name: christina | Date: Jul 17th, 2009 3:36 AM |
| i think i am too. my life would be over, i play softball. and idk how my parents would take it... i had sex on the june 30th. i think im late but my period is irregular so i can be sure about it. idk what to do... i try to stop stressing cuz i know that makes it later... but its soooo hard! ↑ |
| Name: lala | Date: Jul 18th, 2009 1:36 AM |
| Name: megan | Date: Jul 26th, 2009 10:55 PM |
| umm i have a question im 17 and im pregnant can i go to the doctors and get checked without my parents ↑ |
| Name: jessica | Date: Aug 22nd, 2009 7:50 PM |
| im 12 i missed my peiod i had sex im scard ↑ |
| Name: Bubblegumpop | Date: Aug 25th, 2009 3:01 AM |
| I'm a girl and I'm 12 about to 13 in september. I think this is nasty. Like a bunch of 12, 13, and 14 year-olds having sex is so stupid. Sex is for adults. Don't have sex until you can handle EVERYTHING! I think sex is very nasty. SORRY THIS IS WHAT I THINK. Freedom of speech T_T. I'll have sex when I'm married which would be 20 years from now. Sorry for all the girls that are pregnant. Don't let you're boyfriends take control of you. ↑ |
| Name: Grace. | Date: Sep 2nd, 2009 8:05 PM |
Hello (:
Lissett im nearly 13 aswell, i would do anything for a baby :). first of you must ask someone older sister? older friend? too get a test and then you will know if you are or if you are not. Second if you anit then thats it, but if you are, you must tell the father of the baby and then tell your parents, good luck whatever happens :) ↑ |
| Name: cassie | Date: Sep 12th, 2009 10:31 PM |
| i may be pregnant and im only 13 what do i do? ↑ |
| Name: idunno | Date: Sep 13th, 2009 2:37 PM |
| im 13. me and my boyfriend were having sex yhesterdaii and when we finished we noticed that the ondon was broken! we were both crying when we saw this. i am so scared! we r both 13 and what am i gna do with a babyee? i dont beleive in abortion. my mom had me at 13! wich makes me b following her foot steps. my mom wuld freak out! she is extremely over protective! i cant tell her ANYTHING!!!!!! my boyfriend has abusive parentss soo we cant just go to the! im scared and lost. omg please pray that im not pregnant !! ↑ |
| Name: starbaby78 | Date: Sep 16th, 2009 3:39 PM |
| ok i think im pregnant but i think i got my period but the cramps come and go and im having back pain, nausea, and sore/tender boobs and i took a blood test and it came out neg. but im still skeptical ↑ |
| Name: JT | Date: Sep 20th, 2009 12:50 PM |
| I need help we had minor sex like I went in then came out unprotected but I was about to come it felt like I might have came a tiny bit inside her or so I have looked up (pre-ejacualtion) if she is pregant our whe lives are runined I need help really badly I might not have come at all because when I was out of her it felt like the whole sperm had came we are very worried!!! ↑ |
| Name: Tay | Date: Sep 21st, 2009 6:39 AM |
Hello I have had two girls stay at my house they were both 18 at the time and things worked out ok for them.
When you are scared and think you maybe pregnant if you do not want the baby you must think about your options, if you do not want to tell your parents, who will be there to help you?
Parents may get real mad but the love will be stronger then the anger and it will work out.
If you have looked over all your options and nothing seems to work for you, do not do something crazy and get yourself into more trouble. Try to email your questions to [email protected] they are a nonprofit and everything is confidential, they mostly try to help out dad's who need to learn better parenting skills, but they are helpful with resources and ways to get help through agencies, or just to give you ideas.
Again I kept two girls at my home but they were both adult ages I would not keep a minor at my home. Email this place and they can send you links to help, they can not and will not tell on you. ↑ |
| Name: kiki | Date: Sep 26th, 2009 10:54 PM |
| im 12 and got my period but i had sex and i think im pregnant becase my period is not the same my cramps are thro the roof and i have been gettin bigger and bigger i dont eat that much but i dont want to tell my mom ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Oct 1st, 2009 11:39 PM |
| I think i am pregnet i had sex with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago and we have only just started having sex ,, i think i am pregnet i havent got my periods this month i am 13 years of age if my mum and dad found out about this they will shot me ,, i have been getting really bad back and stomach pains ,, im hopeing im not pregnet because im not ready to have a child at this age and me and my boyfriend were talking about it yesterday he said he will do anything he can to help me ,, we both started crying and i told one of my close friends she thinks im lieing even tho she thinks shes pregnet to should i beleive her ? ↑ |
| Name: LOGAN | Date: Oct 7th, 2009 2:52 AM |
| im 12 and ive been having this really bad stomach pain and my bobs got bigger and ive missed a period and i got bigger and i fell sick and i think im pregant what should i do how should i tell my mom ↑ |
| Name: noah im 14 | Date: Oct 9th, 2009 2:17 AM |
if you are pregnant...
Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.
www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk
Teen sex ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health
www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a whore, ****, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have sex... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy sex ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. Sex unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ******* have sex unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, FANNY IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your fanny?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a whore and a **** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a bastard. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal…
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdale
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http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra…
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
So end bit again is hug, you must be going through hell. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links ↑ |
| Name: keyla | Date: Oct 10th, 2009 4:19 AM |
| am i rally pregnant if he bust inside me? ↑ |
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