| Name: Jessica | Date: Aug 4th, 2007 2:25 AM |
| I am also 19. I am 21 weeks pregnant with baby #2. I also have a 19 month old daughter. Congratulations on being pregnant. Pregnancy is one of the greatest gifts that we as women recieve in life. Having a baby is a miracle. It is the biggest and most important acomplishment in my life. I wouldn't trade my daughter or this new baby for the world. I am doing it all by myself. I just got divorced from their father this week. I know how scary it is and it's not always easy but it is well worth it. Keep your head up! You'll be fine! ↑ |
| Name: aldrin | Date: Aug 4th, 2007 5:10 AM |
| malibog ka kc yan napalamo ↑ |
| Name: madonna | Date: Aug 5th, 2007 4:00 AM |
| hey bianca...my situation is kinda like yours im 19 and im 6 months pregnant the father of my child is manipulative and doesnt have a faithful bone in his body he has been around maybe a total of 3 months of my pregnancy on and off he tells the girls that find out about me that he doesnt believe im pregnant because he never felt the baby move but he has also never been to a doctors appt. my child is the best thing that has ever happened to me and she isnt even born yet and the more ur baby grows the more you love them i never thought i could love anything so much which brings me to my next point if your parents love you like parents do they might freak out at first but they are gonna love your child just as much as u yes its hard to go through pregnancy without the father of ur child but as long as u keep someone around family member a best friend anyone like that your strong enough and you can do it IF thats WHAT YOU WANT cuz thats the true choice its what YOU want there is a book i have read im gonna recomend to you its called chicken soup for the single parents soul it give's SO MUCH HOPE and if you ever need someone to talk to i have a myspace it under [email protected] write me an e-mail or comment anytime u need to chat. and good luck ↑ |
| Name: Jason | Date: Aug 13th, 2007 3:01 AM |
| Hi, I had my daugher when i was 16. you have a couple of years on me. My baby's mother was 15. When we told her parents they took her waway from me and the baby. now my daughter is 17 years old. She is a good girl and she alos gets her butt busted too. Listen you are 19 you can keep this baby. I did and ii went back to high school, and college. It wasn't easy, cause i was always worried about my baby. My daughter Calista is a daddy's girl. she is best thing that ever happened to me. I love her . ↑ |
| Name: doug | Date: Aug 13th, 2007 7:43 PM |
| u should def get rid of it cause they r very expencive n ur to young ↑ |
| Name: Nicole | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 4:23 PM |
| Bianca Im kind of in the same situation. Im 19, and just found out about my pregnancy my boyfriend doesnt want me to get rid of it, but Im in college and I havnt told my parents. Im pretty much lost myself, but I think that as parents yours will except you no mattter what just as Im sure mines will although I know that they will be dissappointed. ↑ |
| Name: VANESSA, | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 3:30 PM |
| hi im 17 and im nine months pregnant. I was also considering what to do seeing how i just turned 17 and i dont actually know who the father of my baby is. they both warned me against keeping her..but something told me i needed to. when would you draw the line to know whether your murdering someone or not? Im a 17 year old.. single in highschool..with no support, and i know that i can do it.. i just need to find that drive.. keep your baby and give you baby a life. she didnt ask to be put in a hard situation, but she didnt ask her mommy to hurt her either. ↑ |
| Name: ALYSSA-MAE | Date: Sep 3rd, 2007 12:14 AM |
IM 18 AND IM PREGNANT BUT I THINK THAT IF HE IS DOING THIS TO YOU THAN DONT STAY WITH HIM ITS NOT WORTH IT
AND YOU REALLY NEED TO TALK TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THIS SO THAT THEY CAN HELP YOU THROUGH ALL THIS ↑ |
| Name: jason | Date: Sep 12th, 2007 12:14 AM |
| I know someone you can talk to. She is my daughter her name is Calista, call her her number is 865-406-8627 ↑ |
| Name: Christy | Date: Sep 13th, 2007 4:14 PM |
Dear Dear Bianca,
I'm so sorry you have to go through what you're going through. I got pregnant when I was 21 and was NOT ready even though I was married I still wasn't ready for the responsibility. I was scared the whole time I was pregnant and sick 24/7. I threw up at least 3-4 times a day and that was after I was given some meds by my doctor, before that it was even worse. I was on bed rest the last 3 months of my pregnancy. It was the HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER HAD TO DO! But let me tell you from experience when your baby finally arrives and you see that wonderful little face you will be so happy you stuck it out. I don't want to push relegion on anyone but the congregation I go to was so supportive and they would really listen. They helped me realize that my baby was a gift from God not matter how untimely the pregnancy was. God views unborn babys as souls. In bible times if someone killed a unborn baby in any way it was a serious sin.
As for your boyfriend. It sounds like you are a really nice caring sweetheart. YOU DESERVE BETTER! DO NOT PUT UP WITH IT! You find someone who will really appreciates YOU AND YOUR WONDRFUL BABY!
Please if you want to e-mail me do so at [email protected]
Christy ↑ |
| Name: Layla | Date: May 1st, 2008 9:48 AM |
Hey bianca,
Im not sure how long ago you posted this maybe you can give me advice and let me know how everything is working out? I am 20 and i am also unexpectedly pregnant. my bf doesnt want to keep it he thinks it will ruin our lives and we will have to give up our ambitions. i am scared to tell my parents and scared to make a decision, i dont know what to do. i wish someone had the answers. but just so you know, your not alone.
take care.
x ↑ |
| Name: tatianacrockett | Date: May 1st, 2008 2:45 PM |
| get away from him i was in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship and the father made me lose my baby because of it if you want to keep the baby do it i am nineteen and having my 1st baby(second pregnancy) and you have to decide whats best for you AND your baby.there are always books and your doctors top tell you what to espect good luck! and congrats! ↑ |
| Name: indsey | Date: May 2nd, 2008 7:56 PM |
| if you think you want the baby then keep it i was 16 the first time i got pregnant an i kept her she is everything to me now i hate to have to tell you it will be one of the most difficult things in the world to do exspecially if you do it alone but if your boyfriend is so bad to you then why would it be any different for your child i left the guy that got me preganat for very similair reasons if your have some good friends an a strong family then you will be ok i went through it all alone an it sucked but i did it for lack of having another chioce an now i wouldnt have it any other way my daughter is my world an she saved my life just because your scared doesnt mean you cant do this you will be surprised how much stregnth you have when you dont have a choice ↑ |
| Name: VSKislove | Date: May 3rd, 2008 10:06 PM |
Good Afternoon Bianca,
Keep your head up. All in life happens for the right reasons. If ever need to talk hit me up. I was 19 when I had my 1st baby.
VSKislove ↑ |
| Name: annasoprana | Date: May 5th, 2008 4:19 PM |
| I am in the same situation except the father left me and I'm only 14. I am so scared about what my life is going to be like, but I know that I can get through it, somehow, someday. ↑ |
| Name: Ebonie | Date: May 9th, 2008 8:29 PM |
| Your not making a mistake. Im 19 and at first i didnt want to keep my baby until I felt movement. Just like you i thought that my parents were going to be mad but they are very supportive. They will be mad at the beginning but you grown, and they will get over it, because they will know that you need them. Keep your baby, Im due to have Kaylynn Symone 8-5-08, and could be more happy. Good luck, and you will be just fine. ↑ |
| Name: mckenzie | Date: May 10th, 2008 8:47 PM |
| hi am interested in adoption do any want to adopt i dont have any kidsi have problem TTC if you do my email is [email protected] thank you ↑ |
| Name: Sass | Date: Jun 8th, 2008 3:38 AM |
Bianca, I did volunteer work at Birthright for approsimately 6 years. They give pregnancy tests, encourage you to keep your baby, it is a life, you are experiencing feeling this life. Listen to yourself, not anyone else as you have to live with you and your decision.
Bianca, that is a life within you. Do not let anyone talk you into getting "rid" of it. Birthright will help you with housing, clothing, counseling, a baby layette, formula, get you set up with a welfare type plan if there is nothing else. Please, please, look into a simalar same program? Bianca, if you were my daughter, after the initial shock, I would put my arms around you, hug you, and help you get on your feet.
There is an alternate. You could have the baby and put it up for adoption. That is difficult for you, but aborting a baby in your womb, would be more difficult. But at least you would be able to sleep at night.
There are so many who want a baby. My sister in law tried so many times to have a baby. Finally, she and her husband flew to China for a Chinese infant. They did that two times. $18,000.00 each trip.
I am going to pray for you silently right now, that God would show you what to do. ↑ |
| Name: Christine | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 4:16 AM |
| I am also 19 and pregnant. I just found out that i am 6 weeks pregnant. If your bf is mentally abusive...leave him...the stress he causes you will in turn be stress on the baby. I think you should have it. It will change your life forever...but sometimes change is for the better...maybe you will be happier in the end. It is hard to raise a baby by yourself, so i would look into having family members help you, and tell someone in your family that you really trust. ↑ |
| Name: denali62 | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 2:19 PM |
| id just like to tell you though it may be hard at times on your own t here is nothing like have a child to make you notic the great things around you and though difficult at times brings great joy good luck and dont stop believing in yourself ↑ |
| Name: karie | Date: Jun 25th, 2008 3:09 PM |
i am a mother of two children who were both planned by me and i am very happy that God blessed me with a boy who is 4 and a girl thats 2 years old.
yes i am married and my husband was very happy about our son,but he \didnot want another child oops .he is happy now but the baby stages were very hard for me..yes a wanted child will bring much happiness..
will you be happy if you let yourself be happy...no one can make you happy but you.
get rid of your boyfriend.. ↑ |
| Name: amber | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 5:19 AM |
keep the baby!!
having a baby is not a curse!!
its a blessing. =] if ur in a abusive relationship get out of it for the safety of u and ur baby.... by getting ride of the poor human thing in ur body will only bring saddness to ur life.
wat caN ur parents do. NOTHING...yes im sure theyll be mad at first but everyone is human and makes MISTAKES. ↑ |
| Name: jalessa | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 3:52 AM |
| im younger than you only 14 ill be 15 in august i had the whole world against me wen i said i was going to keep my son well at least it felt lyk it i mean i had a supportive father bt no one else no mom no dad no brothers nothing but seeing my sons face for the very first time made it all worth it it doesnt matter what anyone else wants 4 you do what will make you happy because its your life not theirs so just do what you feel is the best descision 4 you.... ↑ |
| Name: kim1992 | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 8:41 PM |
| well bianca i went through the same thing at 13. it was hard to deal with it but you learn to adjust. I say keep the baby, this baby will make you become a better person. This baby will show you when ur much older, what it is like. even though how hard it is now you when this child gets older you have to be there for this baby and tell it the importance of who you want it to be. My son jackson was a shocker too i thought it couldn't happen to me and it did. jackson's father didn't want anything to do with him for the first 11 months then he on his 1st bday he came around and wanted to be in jackons's life, even if he doesn't i believe you will have people in his/her life that will love him/her just the same. i say get away from that guy, hez just hurting you and he could make a mistake and hurt your baby . no keeping is it is the best way, i believe. when this baby is born you will learn you don't love anything as much as you love that baby because that baby is the most important thing in your life. no you will become more responsible, respectful and a better person really. it will bring happiness, joy everything even some sadness through the first month. don't fret to tell ur mom u have to she should be the person you are closest to, to be able to get through this. everyday when you will wake up, you will see this little face that makes you the happiest person in the world and as the child grows up, ur child will be the best that can be just like you and the way you learned. my son is 4 now, and he is the sweetest little boy and he has the biggest heart in the world. have faith believe in yourself and that you can get through this. because your gunna stumble and fall but u wil pick yourself back up, so do ur best and become the betteer person. im kim1992. ↑ |
| Name: Stevie | Date: Aug 3rd, 2008 10:56 PM |
Your in no way making a mistake. I'm 18 and I have a two month old. Like you I was afraid to tell my parents and at first they insisted upon an abortion but if they truely love you then they will accept your choice.
Pregnancy is hard and innitailly scary but in the end.. when your holding that baby. Its completely worth it.
I'm pro choice and its your decision. Just make the one right for you. ↑ |
| Name: emma | Date: Aug 10th, 2008 8:02 PM |
| hello flower im 24 and have one daughters whos 3 now and i had my daughter when i was 21 and im not preg with my second and me partner doesnt want me 2 keep it and he can be nasty 2 so know where ur coming from but all i can say ur not young 2 b a mom ithere people having them at 17 18 now and all i wanna say is if u think ur ready 2 be qa mom then u go girl and congratulations im sure u will be a fantastic mom,as for ur partner GET RID if hes nasty 2 you u do not need that and ur parents they will stick by you as u are there daughter after all im sure they be really happy 4 well congratulations and good luck emma ↑ |
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| Name: luana | Date: Aug 23rd, 2008 6:08 PM |
| Hello my name is Luana and I work for the Steve Wilkos Show and I want to help you I know this is a tough time right now but E Mail me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: white male | Date: Sep 2nd, 2008 3:14 PM |
| dont keep it, your closing down all your optionss for the futuree.. ↑ |
| Name: Kathryn | Date: Sep 2nd, 2008 5:39 PM |
hi, i'm in the same kinda situation as u i have just found out i'm pregnant 2 and i'm only 19, my boyfriend left wen i found out i was pregnant partly coz his whole family was leaving hte country, i haven't told my parents yet coz i know they are gonna go crazy.
i never wanted to be a teen mum but i am keeping the baby no matter what, it can only be ur decision no one elses so if you want to keep the baby then keep it, its your choice dont let anyone bully u into doing something u dont want to do coz u will regret it later in life. If you wanna chat to me u can msn me my email address is [email protected].
good luck
Kathryn x ↑ |
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