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Name: AustinsMamma2007
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First of all, I'm new here. My name is Tiffany and I have a beautiful 3 month old boy named Austin. I'm 16 years old, will be 17 in May. I left my ex when I found out I was pregnant and haven't really talked to him since. I gave him one more chance and he screwed that up too. He is a horrible person and I'm glad he doesn't have anything to do with our lives. Although I love my son and he's enough sometimes I just wish I had someone besides my parents to share my experience with. It's hard, very hard, especially since I'm unemployed and currently looking for a job. I hate having my parents support me but there is no other way out until I start receiving checks of my own. I refuse to go for child support because I don't want my ex in our lives in any kind of way. I'm so sick of being single. Since I was 13 the longest I've ever been single is maybe a month... Not it's been almost a year. It will be on Feburary 15th.
I just thought that I would share my story and hopefully gain some support from other single parents.
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Name: skye233 | Date: Apr 12th, 2008 6:51 PM
hey hon i no how ur feelng im 17 with 3 month old girl an my man is prick an his in prison an i only got my mum 2 talk to. an i would like to talk to u if u want this my eamil skyem233@homail.co.uk 

Name: Jen | Date: Apr 25th, 2008 9:19 PM
Tiffany,
I know exactly what you're going through! i was 16 when i found out i was pregnant, i was already 5 and a half months along and didn't even know it!! my ex, justin, is a jerk. we broke up what must have been about a week after i got pregnant. so he didn't even know i was pregnant until i was abou 6 months. he doesn't talk to me at all, and his mother is a wackjob. i am going for child support though, i'm 17 now, i'll be 18 soon.. but like you, i'm still at home and i'm not employed, so i have my parents' support. and i know how unbelievably hard it is to find a boyfriend with a baby. my little girl, Lilly, is almost 7 months old and when she was about 2 months old i hit a point where i felt the same way, and i waited and found an amazing boyfriend who loves the both of us, we're like our own little family.. don't worry, everything will work out sooner than you think.. and i always thought about it this way .. if a guy is willing to look past the fact that you have a baby, then he's in it for you! .. even though it's harder to find a boyfriend with a baby, it a lot better because you'll find a guy who you know you can trust =) 

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Name: laura-louise | Date: May 15th, 2008 8:07 PM
hey im 18, and i have a beautiful 3 month old boy called sebastian- ryan, my boyfriend left me about a month ago saying he didnt want to deal with a screaming kid, and he walked out and i told him not to bother us or want anything to do with my son until my son turns 18 and can decide for himself, i love being a single mum but its really stressful too, i have a job its only part-time but im still supporting myself and my baby, and my parents help out with babysitting and paying babysitters if im working, my friends help out alot too even spend the night sometimes! if you wana talk sometime heres my email n msn : loz_is_ere_2005@hotmail.co.uk 

Name: MOM_N_MISSOURI | Date: Jun 3rd, 2008 8:55 PM
Hey I know were your coming from but i may have it a little easier. Im 16 and have and 8 month old baby. My boyfriend is 22. There was alot of problems we had to go through with the age difference but we did eventually get through it. Our baby boy was born 2 months early and only weighed 3lbs we stayed in the hospital for a long time with no where to go so my boyfriend took up 3 jobs so we could get a place of our own. We finally did but once we got our own place he changed now he screams and pushes me around. Yeah it hurts in alot of ways but if it wasn't for him id be on the streets. I hope i can find someone to finally talk to..... 

Name: kittycat | Date: Aug 1st, 2008 2:27 AM
hi my name is hope im a teen mom of two boys 


Name: youngzhang1982 | Date: Aug 26th, 2008 8:51 PM
thanks for the message, i think you catch my attention is not just by your looking, i prefer the women has her natural beauty in their heart. i am an adult and i do not believe in true love, but i trust life-long marriage. so my wish is my future wife is never married before, if they have children, that is fine, we can raise them up together with my own children. oh, my hobby is walking, reading and enjoy the good food. actually, my plan is after my marriage, i will give my wife 50% my salary, if we have children. i will give her another 10%, i need keep 40% my salary is enough, maybe 20% to support my mum and dad later, i think i just belong to the middle class, one house and one boat, two or three car, own my own land and some restaurant business, i want to open my own sushi bar later in San Francisco area. anyway, life is short, i will try my best, work hard and glory the God, help more people. i think i believe in god since i am a postgraduate student in england nottingham, i need do two part time restaurant job to survive, pay my rent and pay my tuition fee, life goes the hardest way, every night when i finish my night shift job, i pass by one 700 years old church, jesus picture is just there on the window, i pray him to give me some peace in my heart, Jesus is always ready to listen and he is a great father. i think i will follow his rule whole my life, i never married and so far i have no children, but i do not want divorce, i can sign contract with my lawyer, if i divorce due to my family affair, i am willing to pay 80% my salary to my children as penalty fee, i believe i am the only few can do this in Seattle area, haha.....nice talk to you, if you want to meet, i think i have time next week, by the way, if you really want to go step further on our future relationship, i think i do not need bother to date other women, i believe i am a honest man and i am a good family man too.
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Name: Tamika | Date: Aug 28th, 2008 7:26 PM
hi tiffany how are ya darl? Im 18 with a beautiful 8month old bby boy. Liam-lennon roger leeroy Crarr... long i know!! i was 17 when i had him n turned 18 when he was bout 4 months old. His father is 25 so 7yrs difference. we r kinda workin through at the mo couse everythin happened so quickly we only really got to know eachother as parents and he can sometimes forget what he's got with me n our son so i'm giving him one more chance!!!!! just telling you a little bit about myself ok, so i'm living with my aunty and uncle n her to little girls in redland bay i don't know anyone here. wud luv 2 chat! 

Name: tamika | Date: Aug 28th, 2008 7:32 PM
oh and i would love to share experiences with you. i don't work at the mo because it would only cover the cost of day care every day so i'd rather have him with me. although he is goin in daycare 1 day a week so he can bond with other babies. where do you live? 

Name: biglover45 | Date: Aug 29th, 2008 7:20 PM
hi am emily am 45 i have 2 teenage kids aged 24 and 21, my girlfriend shes 24 she had a baby girl on the 15 of july, i don't think shes knows wot she wants her baby. can anyone help. biglover45@msn.com 

Name: carolyn williams | Date: Oct 17th, 2008 10:11 PM
just looking to meet someone in austin for small quality time 

Name: QUEEN19 | Date: Oct 18th, 2008 9:23 PM
HI MY NAME IS REINA..I HAVE 3 KIDS N IM 19 YEARS OLD..I HAVE A 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER N 1 YEAR OLD TWIN BOIIS...MY HUSBAND IS IN JAIL..HE BEEN DER 4 FIVE ...ITS HARD..IF ANYBODY WNTS 2 TLK WRITE ME BAK ON HERE...ILL WRITE BAK.... 

Name: lil_mizz_tae_tae | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 9:00 PM
i'm taylor , i'm 13 and 25 weeks pregnant with twins a boy and a girl. i wish i could say i could connect with wen u say ur ex is a jerk, but i can't, i am still with my baby daddy. he treats me better than i could evr ask for. u'll find a guy soon, there are good guys out there, you just have to find one. 

Name: Nikita | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 10:57 PM
Hey im 19 and 25weeks pregnant im single and i fully understand what you mean about it sucking to be alone. I kicked my ex out hes a wank that only thinks about himself lol haha but yeah I keep talking to him just so i dont feel so lonely not that he gives a crap about the baby or me really :( ohwell... Gotta keep on trying :D 

Name: kkarli | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 5:54 PM
hey im karli, im 16 also with a beautiful 10 month old little girl. i can kind of relate to you.. although im still kind of with the father we have endless problems.. Since ive had to grow up and he really.. hasnt had to because i live on my own have been since my daughter was born and hes still living with his parents... theres that huge conflict.. sometimes people use the excuse as well "hes 16 too so you cant expect much from him" well.. thats not far i dont think its good to be.. a weekend or day off kind of father.. we have endless problems.. and ive come to the conclusion that i really could careless if this relationship goes further.. i never wanted a broken home for my daughter.. but i cant stay just because i dont want her to be switching houses.. i mean we were 15 when i found i was pregnant.. and frankly the only thing hes changed about is his love for his daughter.. he loves her tons but is still the same .. and i just dont know how to deal with that anymore.. and it doesnt help that i feel like that connection as to us being the first people to ever have sex with eachother. sooo i dontk now what to do.. and i cant get any child support from him till hes 19.. i mean he works now and gives me money when he makes it.. but hasnt for the last 4 months.. and really doesnt see that as being a problem.. hes not made to take respsoibilty.. and that pisses me off.. ive had to change my entire life for my daughter and hes had to do nothing... 

Name: Marcello | Date: Oct 25th, 2008 6:37 PM
Hi, My name is Marcello, Male. white, single, tall, slim, my age you will find out when you contact me. I would love to meet a sinlge mum who need helps from a nice guy I think I have everything to be a good dad, just can't find the right person. I would like to meet a girl who would be comited with a family and be honestly seeking to setle down in life. I live in Noth West London and work around Westmister. I know there will be someone out there who need a nice funny, intectual, and considerated. if you think that are you, plz, email me on Jukurllans@hotmail.com and we start from there don't be shy if you don't live in London we will sort it out and we meet anyway. I don't have children but my dream is have a couple of them if it is possible, if that will happy in my life time I will be the happiest man in this world ... why don't you joy me and we will be hapy together. Won't you? 

Name: Corrinne | Date: Oct 26th, 2008 4:39 PM
Hello everyone i am wondering if anyone could help me out. I am training to be a social worker and would like your views on young moms,i have a assignment to write about this topic. I became a young mom at 17. 

Name: lauren | Date: Nov 26th, 2008 11:16 PM
im 18 with a 14 month old daughter. my ex cheated on me so many times. now he tries to act like he wants to be a part of my daughters life yet he never steps up and comes around. you get used to being single and you'll realize your son is all you need right now. 

Name: teenmomoft2 | Date: Nov 27th, 2008 12:36 AM
Hi well i know exactly what you're going through i'm 19, unemployeed and only have my mother. But my mother doesn't support me. I have other income. But I have 14 month old twins and I go to school. Its hard out here in this world with us being single teenage unemployeed mothers, but I am here if you ever need someone to talk to. My email is cutexlady29@aol.com or just instant message me whenever you feel the need to talk. 

Name: jean paul | Date: Dec 4th, 2008 5:06 PM
hi im jean paul i have add you skye 233 to talk 

Name: kiara | Date: Dec 16th, 2008 8:30 AM
well im 17 and im pregnant right now ya kno tiffany tou dont need a guy to make you happy you really dont when the right one comes along you will know you deserve someone who will love you and cherish you for the rest of your life you dont need a guy thats gonna disrespect you every chance he gets. but i left my boyfriend because he already had a baby mom and he was to busy with her to even care that i was pregnant but like i said we need no guy to make us hapy sweetie or to help us take care of our kids god gave women these challenges for a reason cause he knew we could handle it but i hope you doin fine. 

Name: youngmum20 | Date: Dec 17th, 2008 6:30 AM
Im 20 and i have a 2yr old son and im 26weeks pregnant with a girl.
Im single but i love it,i dont have a guy to stress me out or treat me bad and i dont have to worry about what he's doing behind my back. Im the jelouse type cause ive been hurt alot so a male has to earn my trust over time.
I have friends who are males and thats all i need are friends nothing more.
You will find the right guy just dont rush it.
You will be ok just cheer up and take it day by day.
Your baby comes first before a guy dont forget that.
Take Care 

Name: cassieanddamiensmommy | Date: Dec 21st, 2008 2:42 PM
hi,my name is hallie i am 16 and i have 2 beautiful babies cassie and damien and they are both 3 weeks old they are my life and i know exactly how you feel my "baby daddy" left me the day i told him i was pregnant it broke my heart but i have survived and so will you if you need 2 talk i am here 

Name: liz | Date: Dec 30th, 2008 6:31 PM
Hey girl i know ur going through some really hard times and feel like your not gonna make it through but trust me you will im 19 years old and i have a beautiful 3yr old and im 6 months pregnant when i was 15 i had my son his dad was there at 1st but then things quickly changed he turned violent and abusive i gathered the courage to get away 4rm only to make the same mistake i started a relationship with a 35 yr old man we moved in 2gether and i soon ended up pregnant about 2 months after we found out he too turned abusive but this time i decided to leave right away and i moved away im from L.A and i moved to C.O and i started school to be a medical assistant ive struggled and still am but i love my son and my unborn child and for them im willing to do whatever i have to to give them the life they deserve and when theyre older i know theyll be proud of their mom so keep ur head up best wishes from liz my email is nadia_ornelas@q.com id like to talk 2 u 

Name: Joy | Date: Jan 8th, 2009 11:09 PM
Hello I was a single for three years and it was difficult but I managed. I got remarried to a great guy and have been for 3 years. But thats not woking out so well. I was so used to supporting my girls on my own that now that i have help I hate it. I feel like i am not whole. I married for all the wrong reasons..I wanted them to have a father there real dad was a drug user and an abuser . I know you might think it is hard right now but hang in there you can do it. If you want to talk my email is Jbolgar@gmail.com
I was a lot like you never really single always thought I needed a guy,Now i am 28 and realize what i have been missing in my life was my own happiness. I know you feel overwhelmed now but focus on what you want out of life. what you want for you and your baby. and remember that any job is a job even if it is fast food nothing says you have to stay in it forever. Hang in there.you should be proud of yourself for accepting responsiblity. 

Name: prem shankar | Date: Jan 13th, 2009 3:46 AM
hello i am indian male 37 yr old , i have 12 yr experiance i am married i want this job , i do better care of your child and you my e mail id .... honey2579@yahoo.com.. if you want my service plz reply me 

Name: babybemine | Date: Jan 14th, 2009 6:25 AM
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Name: destiny | Date: Jan 21st, 2009 11:14 AM
hi my mname is destiny. i'm 17 with an 11 month old. i haven't bee in areal relationship either and it's hard for me to take care of my son. i feel waht you're going through 

Name: Keys | Date: Jan 22nd, 2009 11:15 AM
I have a younger sister who had her first at 14 and now on her second at age 17. Whatever you do, make sure its for the good of you and your baby. NO ONE ELSE. Men may come and go. But you and that child still have to live. If you need the money, go through child support. you never have to hear from him (just get his money). And stay strong. You are not alone. Ask God to deliver a decent man and he will come. But be patient. The best of luck to you 

Name: dhereck | Date: Jan 24th, 2009 4:25 AM
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hello Name is Nicole
I want to adopted your child
my Doctor to that I can't have a child of my owen. 

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