| i do agree the lying is a problem...and i would be upset about it as well ↑ |
| not to stick up for him but I think it has to do w/ the fact that I totally overreact..I mean when I found out last time, I punched him int he face and gave him a black eye..I looked it up on the comp., not under history though, and he only went once, but yeah the lying is a prob ↑ |
Ok, so maybe punching him was a bit harsh....don't mess with Kristy. Obviously, since then, he knows how much you don't like what he is doing and how much he hurt you, yet he is still doing it. Now he will hide it from you but he should just stop seeing that it's hurting you.
When my husband does something that hurts me, or vise versa, we talk about it and make sure we don't hurt the ones we love. Sometimes it goes smoothly and at times it leads to a heated argument.
This is something you certainly want to work out. I know this is probably a silly question but does he know right now how you feel sexually and about your body? I know you have been through a lot. I think you look beautiful inside and out, yet you've always been so hard on yourself and from reading here, I see that you have concerns about how you look after the baby. I bet you look more beautiful than ever. You're a super strong mommy and look how far you have come, even with the pregnancy and your eating problem, you made sure she was nurtured and loved and taken care of and even more so now. Give yourself credit for that, I can't tell you how much I admire that. Now if you're just not in the mood for sex, than that's understandable because you have a new baby and other things going on. So just talk to him about it and maybe that will help. ↑ |
| LOL- Kristy you gave him a black eye? OMG remind me to never cross you.. lol! Gah I love you that was classic. ↑ |
| ............ wow............ if i gave my boyfriend a black eye.......... i'd be beaten to a pole. ↑ |
| I have a simular situation, I can tell you that if he doesn't respect your opinion then he doesn't really care! I personally think it is weird for a man to sit and fantasize about a pic??? And in my situation I talked to my dad about it and like he says any normal man would not obsess about a nudy pic, they would find it a little akward to sit a stare at it all day. I believe if he is staring at that he is obviously fantasizing about someone else. I stopped it real quick in my house, and told him I would not put up with it! Do the same and if he cares he will stop. (just remember its not like your dealing with a teenage little kid, who wants to know what boobs look like) ↑ |
