| Name: Shearla | Date: Sep 24th, 2006 7:09 PM |
| I,m looking to adopt a baby girl or boy and my husband I will make our will to love the baby the same as we do with our other 2 children and we will send pictures to you on every special occasion such as birthdays and holidays and school we're not wealhty family but the child will not go lacking. ↑ |
| Name: oklcowgirl26 | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 2:05 AM |
| Maria, u dont have to have an abrtion. I would like to share something with u that might help u out. I am a 30 yr. old woman and I have been married for the last 7 yrs. my husband and I had tried to get pregnant several times. when I was 25 I was told that I would never be able to carry a fetus. when I was 29 I had to have a full hystorectomy. My biggest dream was to have a baby. The reason I am telling u this i b/c therre is women out there like me that has always wanted a baby that will never have one that would be willing to take in a baby by adoption. It would be hard I have been through a couple of adoptions with a few of my friends and it was hard on them. But, then again u have people like my husband and I. If we are ever able to adopt a child when that chold gets old enough then we will tell that child they was adopted and tell them that if they want to find there real mother then we will help them. So, whatever u decide to do just remember there are families out there that would do anything to help out a girl like u. Best of wishes and may god bless u on whatever u decide.My heart goes out to u. Lana ↑ |
| Name: Hayley | Date: Jun 25th, 2007 7:32 AM |
| lol sorry i have no idea but i am in the same boat as u. ↑ |
| Name: lauren | Date: Jul 16th, 2007 11:19 PM |
| im 17 and im pregnant i dont no wot 2 do ↑ |
| Name: sweetbeginnings | Date: Jul 19th, 2007 4:55 AM |
| Lauren , you can email me at [email protected]. I can talk to you about your options or give you some good resources to look at. ↑ |
| Name: rebecca | Date: Aug 8th, 2007 2:27 PM |
| Name: successful | Date: Aug 12th, 2007 2:57 AM |
| I am 19 now and at 15 i found out I was pregnant with my now 2 1/2 year old son. I am 2 weeks from my college graduation! I just want you to know that whatever you want to do it can work out do what is in your heart and stay strong! if you want to talk or hear more about my life and where the decisions I made got me my E-mail is [email protected]. my life has not been easy by i made it! ↑ |
| Name: Leah | Date: Aug 13th, 2007 3:15 AM |
| hey, I had my daughter wheni was 15, my parents took me away from my dauhgter and my boyfriend . My daughter is now 17, her daddy raised her. i was not allowed to see my daughter. but I found Jason and talk to him and he said I could come back and we are getting married . Listen I have my sister's computer, write me at [email protected]. I will tell yoiu my story maybe it will help you. ↑ |
| Name: lil_minx | Date: Aug 21st, 2007 9:29 AM |
| one thing is right well its ur fault but u av to deal with it lyk all the others preg teens do. so get a grip nd look forward to being a mother. im sure ur m8's will bk u up so ask them 4 help when u kneed it. ur nearly in year 11 right so u shud no how to looka fter a baby. i mean im 14 i no how to so u shud. soz if this sounded harsh no hard feelings xxxxx lil_minx_xXx ↑ |
| Name: Tiffany | Date: Aug 27th, 2007 8:13 PM |
| I wasn't planning on getting pregnant,but I am 6months pregnant now and I don't believe in abortion..Your mom is right about you making the baby and that you need take care of it.I don't know your mom ,but must moms when the see that baby can't help but to be there and if she is serious about what she said then theres lots of government places out there that will help you.when you go see your doctor ask them for a healthy start form and fill it out and your doctors office should sent it in to them. healthy start will contact you and then find out what you need help with .They will set you up with WIC(food) medicate(pays for all for medical needs) and they will also set you up with a crib,car seat, clothes for when your pregnant ,baby item and so much more . ↑ |
| Name: Tiffany | Date: Aug 27th, 2007 8:16 PM |
marie,
I just like you wasn't planning on getting pregnant,but I am 6months pregnant now .I don't believe in abortion,Your mom is right about you making the baby and that you need take care of it.I don't know your mom ,but must moms when they see that baby they can't help but to be there and if she is serious about what she said then theres lots of government places out there that will help you.when you go see your doctor ask them for a healthy start form and fill it out and your doctors office should sent it in to them. healthy start will contact you and then find out what you need help with .They will set you up with WIC(food) medicate(pays for all for medical needs) and they will also set you up with a crib,car seat, clothes for when your pregnant ,baby item and so much more . ↑ |
| Name: xlarax | Date: Aug 27th, 2007 9:53 PM |
I found out i was pregnant 2 weeks after my 16th birthday. Like you i was in total shock and didn't know what to do. My mum said that i should have an abortion, however she soon calmed down. She knew that if she pushed me into an abortion i would never forgive her. After the initial shock she started to help me. Your mum is probably the same, just scared. I considered my options and decided to keep my baby. It was the best decision i have ever made and i have never looked back.
The doctors were the only people who treated me with disrespect. They told me that by the time by child was two my boyfriend would have left me. They told me that they had seen girls like me before and that none of them ever stuck it out at college or made anything of themselves. I came out of the surgery bawling my eyes out.
I am now 18 and have a healthy little boy who is two next week. I am still with his father. I went to college and did my A-levels. Care to learn is a fantastic programme that helps parents under 19 go back to college, they will pay your childcare fees up to about £150 a week. I have also got a place at university to study midwifery in september. So the doctors were wrong.
When i found out i was pregnant i listed to pros and cons of keeping the baby. Write this out on paper, it will help you! Then see if those problems can be overcome. Every situation is different, but you can normally find the answer if you look deep. Looking back the main reason i considered abortion was becasue i was terrified of what everyone would think of me. I needn't have worried as every one was so understanding and supportive. There is a great deal of support out there! Don't let anyone tell you that you will not be able to achive your dreams if you keep your baby, you can!!!!
If you need more advice or just a chat email me at [email protected]
Best of luck x ↑ |
| Name: Daniielle | Date: Dec 20th, 2007 9:28 PM |
OKAy - .. where should i start ??????????..
OMG,, are u stupid ?? . First of all,
what are u thinking getting pregnant ?? ur ONLY 15 .. what is wrong with u ?? .. u know what ? . its ur own fault .. danmmm.. just give tha baby 2 somone else .. ↑ |
| Name: Mandy | Date: Jan 8th, 2008 6:25 AM |
| DONT NOT GET an abortion i made that mistake sweety and i regret it with my life...but thank god i am pregnant agian. you will never forgive yourself. At the least give it up for adoption.good luck ↑ |
| Name: Cher | Date: Jan 8th, 2008 3:27 PM |
| im only 15 and i think im prenant... it scary,,wut do i do/ ↑ |
| Name: Cher | Date: Jan 8th, 2008 3:30 PM |
| i told my mom that i had unprotected sex and that i might get pregnant.! no my boyfriend is acting like an ass and like its no big deal. im lost. am i being over dramatice?HELP!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: hiop | Date: Jan 15th, 2008 8:01 AM |
| Name: Lauren | Date: Jan 15th, 2008 9:25 AM |
| Hi Maria. I went through a similar thing to you, i decided i was going to have an abortion, i made the appointment but the day i had to go i couldn't do it. It was a choice i made and i don't regrett it at all, i love my son more than anything in the world and its hard work and i've been very much on my own. No one can actually tell you what to do, it's completely up to you but make sure you are 100% sure. My parents also refused to help me but the day my son was born they fell in-love with their grandson. Please i know it's a hard decision and only you can make it but if you just want someone to chat to about it, e-mail me on [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: linda-mate | Date: Jan 23rd, 2008 1:42 AM |
| i dont think you should have and abortion as from when your 6weeks pregnate your baby has a heart beat and i think it i wrong to kill a baby. it cost at least $300-$400 to have an abortion as well. you only have so many chances to have a baby so dont waste . your mum is just angry as you r so young, she will get over it and help you . and there is plenty of help out there 4 u . its hard but your can do it. would you of liked your mum aborting you. ↑ |
| Name: linda-mate | Date: Jan 23rd, 2008 1:45 AM |
| i have and abortion when i was 13 and have regretted it ever since. then cause i had had the abortion i had a miscarrage 2 yrs after so that devistated me more ↑ |
| Name: crawn | Date: Jan 24th, 2008 12:59 AM |
| I will to see how sexy youare ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 3:07 AM |
| If you are not prepared to raise a baby right now the best Idea is to give the child to a family that can offer the child all of the things that you wish would be able to if things were differant. There are too many loving couples out there that would love your baby to have an abortion. Good Luck ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 3:10 AM |
Cher
That didn't sound quite right. I mean do not have an abortion that there are to many couples out there that would love your baby as their own and it would be the best gift they could ever get. That would be the best choice if you are not able to keep the child at this time. ↑ |
| Name: elvagreen | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 3:40 AM |
| I think your baby is already 1 year's old if you give birth to him. SingleParentLoving.com ↑ |
| Name: mckenzie | Date: Jan 28th, 2008 7:17 AM |
| Name: mel | Date: Feb 7th, 2008 9:02 AM |
| so am i same age and everything the father doesnt want to help i dont want a abortion cuz its like murder i dunno what to do either ↑ |
| Name: Eb x | Date: Feb 11th, 2008 5:43 PM |
Im 15 and just found out im pregnant.
My bf's 15 and his parents are willing to stand by us,
but i have 4 older brothers that will kill him, and my dad will disown me and wont let me in the house, what should i do? ive only jus turned 15. ↑ |
| Name: Kimmy Bear | Date: Feb 19th, 2008 12:10 AM |
| im 15 and im a month in a half and im goin to have my baby if u love the person ur with the both of u should get together and talk a bout it but if ur a single mom than think about it if u want it really bad keep it im goin to get a job so i can buy my own stuff ? ↑ |
| Name: LUCiA | Date: Feb 21st, 2008 11:33 PM |
iM 15 i NEEd HElp..
My PARENtS ARENT GOOD
WITH ANY PARTS OF MY
DECiSION ... ↑ |
| Name: bOO | Date: Feb 21st, 2008 11:44 PM |
iM 15 AND IM PREGNANT IM NOT SURE WHAT TO DO ??BOTH OF MY PARETNS DONT KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IT AND JUST LAST NIGHT I WAS WITH MY BABYS DAD IM 3MONTHS OLDER THAN HE IS ..MY PARENTS CAUGHT ME WITH HIM THEY CALL THE COPS ON HIM AND KNOW THEY
HATE HIM I REALLY DINT KNOW HOW TO LET IT OUT AND TELL THEM IM PLANING TO LEAVE BECAUSE ANYWAYS THEY WILL KICK ME OUT OR KILL HIM...DO YOU THINK ILL BE ABLE TO MAKE IT WITH OUT MY PARENTS HELP??OR CAN I GO LIVE WITH HIS PARENTS THEY WOULDNT MIND BUT MY PARENTS HATE THEM TOO SO WHAT SHOULD I DO??IM NEVER PLANING ON ABORTION I WILL NEVER EVER DO THAT..!!IM JUST AGAINST THAT AND I WANT TO HAVE MY KID BUT DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS?? ↑ |
| Name: brianne | Date: Mar 3rd, 2008 12:19 AM |
| it's ok i'm 14 and i'm pregent i grew up in a small town and every one found out my parents got divorced well my ex boy friend try to comfert me well one thing lead to another and we had sex well i told him and he was real suportive i know live whith him and his parents ↑ |
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