| Name: brianne | Date: Mar 3rd, 2008 12:19 AM |
| it's ok i'm 14 and i'm pregent i grew up in a small town and every one found out my parents got divorced well my ex boy friend try to comfert me well one thing lead to another and we had sex well i told him and he was real suportive i know live whith him and his parents ↑ |
| Name: lorna | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 10:30 AM |
wow .you are young ,I think you have many preplexs,
If you need help ,I think i can do you a favor, in "soloparentdate.com" .the people in there are very kind ,they will do you a favor as possible as they can . ↑ |
| Name: og217 | Date: Mar 14th, 2008 6:39 PM |
Abortion, abortion, abortion.
You will ruin your life and drag others down with you. Its not a big deal, you don't need to get all whiny, teary eyed about it. It's not going to haunt you forever. Don't believe all that silly Oprah nonsense. Just get it done and carry on in high school like everyone else. And use protection in the future. Really, no one needs you to have this child. Not God, not the planet, not your boyfriend, not your parents, not the tax payers and not you. Certainly not your future husbands, either. Don't create some sentimental fantasy and have the child to live out some convoluted fairy tale. You made a mistake. You now have a lump of cells the size of a grape in you. Get rid of it and live happily ever after or resign yourself to a life of poverty and baby-momma-ism. ↑ |
| Name: og217 | Date: Mar 14th, 2008 6:46 PM |
| All the people who push adoption - a) the pregnancy will ruin these chilren's (because thats what 15-year-olds are) bodies b) They may get attached to the baby c) everyone will know, at which point the stigma will never leave, keep the baby or not and d) Newsflash here for all the PC folks out there - no one adopts minority children. Yes, a few celebrities adopt an African child and its all over the news occasionally. But 99% of infertile couples looking to adopt are upper middle class white, and they want a child that will be white and not scream "adopted" everywhere they go. So telling minority girls that their babies will be adopted into wonderful, middle class, loving homes is not true. They will end up in the foster care system, unwanted and alone. That's just the way of the world. I don't make the rules. I'm just smart enough to know what they are and not pretend we all live in some fairy tale. ↑ |
| Name: Sally | Date: Mar 18th, 2008 2:01 PM |
| Name: jennifer | Date: Mar 30th, 2008 8:48 PM |
| im 15 years old and i think im pregnant i dont know what to do im so confuse i sometimes think that its better to do an abortion but then i change my mind i just dont know what to do ↑ |
| Name: kayla | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 12:03 AM |
| i am 19 and have 2 kids my son is about to turn 2 and my daughter is only 3 weeks old...and it is super tough and my childs father isn't around anymore...and there has been so many times where my parents said they weren't going to help me...honestly though u know how u feel when ur mom gives up on u well u having an abortion would just be u giving up on that innocent baby...give motherhood a chance there are tons of mother shelters and programs that can help u if ur mom won't...but sweetie i can't tell u what to do its ur body and thats something ur mom has to realize too...but this is a big decision and my only advice i can give u is think long and hard about it before u do something u may regret one day. ↑ |
| Name: samantha | Date: Apr 1st, 2008 9:24 AM |
| yea well i really dont have a family my mom and dad r on drugs my half sis i lived with her 4 6mths and that didnt work out all we do is fight fist fight the only person i have rite now is my boyfriend and im pregnant rite now and he dosnt want me having the baby and it hurts me im 18 hes 21 but what he dosnt know is i cry almost every nite because i cant believe that he would want 2 kill something we both made 2gether hes a great guy he dose anything in the world 4 me ↑ |
| Name: Share Your Story w/ Us | Date: Apr 8th, 2008 10:56 PM |
Hi~
I'm casting a documentary that focuses on teen girls who are pregnant. The documentary is a groundbreaking project that will give the chosen girls a voice and an opportunity, to share what their lives are like as they enter the next chapter of their lives.
That being said, as time is of the essence, if you are a pregnant teen (or know someone who is), we hope to speak with you as soon as possible. Also, please know that if chosen, the girls will be compensated for their time.
Best Regards,
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: chelsie | Date: Apr 10th, 2008 2:05 PM |
ok i think im prego
but idk im only 15 and i only had sex
2 times and hes 19
idk what 2 do ↑ |
| Name: john | Date: Apr 10th, 2008 5:16 PM |
| well email me I can help you so email me [email protected] ok ↑ |
| Name: Mercedes | Date: Apr 14th, 2008 6:03 AM |
| I AM 15 ALSO,AND I JUST FOUND OUT THAT IM PREGNANT....I NEED HELP...I DON'T TALK TO MY DAD I STOP TALKING TO HIM AFTER MY MOM DIED TWO YEARS AGO...I NEED YOU HELP!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: elinor | Date: Apr 14th, 2008 10:27 AM |
| well hun dnt worry my mum said that to me whene i fund out i was pregnant at 15 but throw the hole 9mouths my mum help and cared 4 me and the bby if u need help leve ur num and we can meet up caz i no what it fells like dnt worry ur not alone xx ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Apr 17th, 2008 7:57 PM |
| Just please think things through before you do anything!! I can't imagine what your feeling...I was 24 when I had my first baby. I can tell you that if you do have this baby there is always help, I hope your mom thinks it over and is there for you. Being a mom means being there through thick and thin!! Your supposed to love your child no matter what she or he does!! I wish you the best of luck and Best Wishes. ↑ |
| Name: kelly | Date: May 5th, 2008 8:36 PM |
| i dont no how to tell my parents ↑ |
| Name: annasoprana | Date: May 5th, 2008 8:55 PM |
| I am 14 and only a few months ago I went through this same situation, I am keeping my baby, a little girl. But i d0o have a good support system behind me, how far along are you? ↑ |
| Name: TRA MOMMy | Date: May 11th, 2008 10:17 PM |
| Well Maria i believe you should talk to your mom, about other arrangements. Abortion is not the only option. There always adoption! You should really talk to your parents and the boys parents to. you shouldnt make this decision on your own. ↑ |
| Name: momoverboard | Date: May 13th, 2008 10:50 PM |
| maria, hi ! there really isnt an answer to this one atleast not one that myself or anyone can give you it has to be what is not only in your heart but what you can deal with, I was 16 when I had my first daughter, 21 when I had my 3rd , and I have also had 2 abortions, i miscarriage and 1 open abortion with a very close family member maybe not so close now but he is in my heart, so anyway, i have unfortunately experienced every route that you have to consider, so I thought I could honestly be here if you care to ask me about how i survived,or felt afterwards. I also would like to add, I normally dont just give out my personal history, but its not like i could go back and do things differently however if there is someone in need of help even just someone to talk to or listen then that would be kind of like my chance to go back to when i was your age. I also have 3 teens now and oldest is kind of like me in one sense and only that one..... which is that she will have 3 kids before she even hits 21, she just informed me that she is pregnant again day after mother's day, and my 16 yr old has been w/ the same boy for almost 3 yrs now 2 of which i was aware of, hes pretty nice kid, but last month you guessed it she too is pregnant, however she is so much like me and she came to me w/it all figured out,she is pro-choice and her and herboyfriend wish to terminate this pregnancy, I must admit I was shocked, yet relieved because her whole life is what is now, and you cant ever go back only forward, its not easy any way you choose, but children do put a major crimp in anyones style, and it doesnt matter if the guy is involved or not, dont get me wrong thats always a plus but, when it comes to 3 am feedings, diaper changes, chicken pox and who call in to work when kids are sick or sitter doesnt show, trust me not too many man will even think that their name should even be in the hat when its time to draw. so you have to really think and this is the time you must be selfish because,you need to realize it only effects everyone else if they allow it too. But this is already effects you and stays with you for life, and that is a fact and a decision that no one probably mentioned to you before you entered into a serious relationship. ↑ |
| Name: Melanie Kirk | Date: Jun 11th, 2008 6:18 AM |
Maria,
I used to worry when I was your age about getting pregnant. Now I am older and successful and am considering adoption due to infertility at age 38. I think as woman we are told we have all the time in the world to wait and we really don't. If you want children then God will provide, if you do not think you can handle it at this time then adoption is an option. Being successful is important, but when you are young sometimes the lines can feel pretty blurry. If you ever wanted to talk let me know. God loves you no matter what.
melanie kirk
214-457-3500 ↑ |
| Name: juliana | Date: Jun 11th, 2008 3:52 PM |
| well let me start off by saying i was 14 when i got pregnant and my mom said the same thing but here is the thing. after you have the baby things will change... you need to remind your mom that no matter what this is her blood and if she can reject some thing that is a gift from god then she is not a very good person. hun, when you deliver and she looks at the baby and the baby stares her back into her eyes she should have some kind of heart and instinct to love it because not only does it have a part of u but it has a part of her as well. Let your mom know that now is the time that you need her the most. U know that u screwed up but whats done is done and admit that u need her help . tell her that u love her and u know she loves u and that any mother who wont help their daughter when they need her the most isnt a good mom. thats what i told my mom and she realized that i was right and she came around. ↑ |
| Name: juliana | Date: Jun 11th, 2008 3:54 PM |
| also u can email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Bri | Date: Jun 12th, 2008 9:21 PM |
| What ever you do dont have an abortion.... If you cant support the baby and give it what it needs like clothes food, ect give it up for adoption to ppl who cant have kids! ↑ |
| Name: sebastians mommy | Date: Jun 16th, 2008 8:23 PM |
| hey maria... taking care of babies is hard but all you really need is patience... if you have the baby great that will be a joy for the rest of your life. it is a big responcibility but it is sooo worth it. If you decide to get an abortion it will be something you always think about and you will always wonder about what you turned away.. it is your choice these are just things for thought... ↑ |
| Name: darcymichelle | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 8:42 PM |
If you have an abortion you're going to be thinking
everyday about your baby, I would personally
keep the baby, considering it would be a part of me.
Things will change when you have the baby,
she's going to realize it's her grandchild. ↑ |
| Name: zoof | Date: Jun 22nd, 2008 7:10 AM |
| i'm sorry to have to tell you this, the last thing you need now is to be more scared than you already are but you are a victim waiting to happen, be very careful, trust no one out here totally, do not give out info that someone could find you with, stuff like that. even if they convince you they are ok, there are some very skilled liars out here with nothing but time, please, protect yourself ↑ |
| Name: cheylin erickson | Date: Jun 28th, 2008 5:22 AM |
| well me and my girl friend are wanting a baby so there is an option for you my e-mail is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: mckenzie | Date: Jul 18th, 2008 1:49 AM |
| hi we love to adopt my email is [email protected] or call at 2027582370 thank you ↑ |
| Name: Alexa | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 12:44 PM |
| I'm 16 and pregnant, your age has nothing to do with how good of a mum you will be. You can get lots of support from your family and the midwifes especially. Good luck, don't take out your mistakes on the baby, you will probably regret it. ↑ |
| I WAS 15 WHEN I HAD MY BABY SHE IS 27 YEARS OLD KNOW .IT IS NOT EASY WHAT YOUR MOM SAID IS NOT NICE IT IS UP TO YOU. YOU ARE THE ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE WITH IT NOT HER.WRITE BACK TELL ME WHAT YOU ARE FEELING iam sheer that ive beenther ↑ |
| Name: Mom2BEE | Date: Jul 28th, 2008 4:47 AM |
| You need to talk to a crisis prenancy center for options and information on how to take care of yourself and this child. Best wishes ↑ |
| Name: RACHEL | Date: Aug 7th, 2008 7:55 AM |
| IAM 15 2 N IAM 3 MONTHS PREGNANT BUT MII MOM WASNT MAD WEN SHE FOUND OUT JUST DISAPOINTED.DOES THA BABY FATHERS NO?? ↑ |
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