| Name: meagan | Date: Jan 8th, 2011 7:16 AM |
| Name: Stephanie | Date: Jan 11th, 2011 3:21 AM |
| It sucks that just because you decided to keep the baby he isn't going to take responsibiliity. That to me doesn't define a real man. Just because he wasn't ready doesn't mean he has to make you do this alone and suffer. He obiviously isn't mature or even the type of guy you deserve given the fact that you are sacrificing your life to have his baby. Sometimes i think men don't have any morals, honestly. I am 4 months pregnant and had to kick my husband out because he didn't want to look for a job. I am 23 and already have 1 child who is 4. Let me tell you this don't let a man put you down because you decided on keeping his baby. You are going to get through it because it is our nature to give birth and to take care of our children. When the time is right a good man might come into your life. This baby is a change for you and a blessing. He/she will bring you joy even when no one, your fam, your baby daddy, friends, you name it, is there you child will be there. Take care of youself because you and your child are more valuable then he can acknowledge. ↑ |
| Name: pfarelo | Date: Feb 3rd, 2011 3:51 PM |
| I am very sorry girls i am on the same situations as you i am so stresed i havent told anyone i seriously need advise .u can email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Steph | Date: Feb 21st, 2011 1:29 AM |
| It hurts to see the father dating while we are sitting around with huge ankles and aching backs. My 25 yr old broke up with me recently and I am six months pregnant, and his reasoning was because he thought he wanted kids, but he realized he just wanted freedom. Glad you got to show the new girl what he ran away from! It's unfair that the men can keep any children or pregnant girls they leave behind a big secret, and so very sad that they'd want to. ↑ |
| Name: Alone & pregnant | Date: Mar 26th, 2011 3:54 PM |
| Hello all. I am 11 weeks pregnant and turning 24 years old. I will be graduating this june with my masters degree. While reading some of these posts, they made me sick to my stomach..I am so sick of people making excuses for guys who leave their gf's pregnant because they "didnt respect" their choice to have an abortion. If a male is sleeping with a woman he should know that there is a risk she can get pregnant. I was with my bf for 8 1/2 years and the minute I told him I'm pregnant, him and his family tried to pressure me to have an abortion. So now I'm alone and I'm going to have the baby. I called an abortion clinic and tried to make an appointment and do it for him because "he wasn't ready" but I broke down on the phone because I wasn't able to have one. Now he's doing everything in his power to piss me off and he's talking to girls left and right. Guys (not all) are just not responsible. Some really don't think. My boyfriend used the "pull out" method... Umm obviously it's going to fail one day. The day I got pregnant.. We were drunk ad he didn't pull out and he knew he didn't. All of the sudden when I got pregnant.. He said I did it on purpose.. Lol.. Some men are just mindless heartless idiots.. Enough of making excuses for idiots that get a girl pregnant and leave just because the girl didn't respect their choice and have an abortion (it is different for relationships that aren't long or one night stands) but after 8 1/2 years together... Countless memories.. If ur truly a man u don't just up and leave because ur not ready.. Real men stick around. Little boys play around. Girls... KEEp yOUR HEAD up!! Be strong for u and your babies. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 31st, 2011 4:13 AM |
| Jill , it is his responsibility for gods sake, it's his sperm!! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 31st, 2011 4:21 AM |
| Kick Jill off this site, she is a disgrace!!!! ↑ |
| Name: jenny | Date: Apr 16th, 2011 1:58 PM |
| its ok the mens r like tht ↑ |
| Name: kayy | Date: May 6th, 2011 8:13 PM |
| - I'm 20 years old , this is my 3rd pregnancy the first a miscarriage , by my first love who is deceased now , the second time I got pregnant by my boyfriend of 1 1/2 during tht pregnancy I found out he had a bby by another girl who he wasn't claiming , he then told me if I kept the bby he wud be put out from where he was living so I looked out for him & got an abortion , we stayed together now 1 1/2 later I'm pregnant again 11 weeks & he wants nothin to do w me & he is now w his first bby mama , its hard I'm so stressed out I need help please somebody :'( ↑ |
| Name: nic | Date: Jul 25th, 2011 3:08 AM |
| Name: David | Date: Aug 20th, 2011 3:06 AM |
| Name: Darcy | Date: Aug 31st, 2011 9:05 AM |
Hey do you mind if you have sex with 2 boys
That are 8 ↑ |
| Name: wiccanprincess37 | Date: Nov 3rd, 2011 2:40 AM |
To Jill:
Obviously either u r a man or u have no clue how deadbeat men can b. I am 6 motnhs pregnant to a guy that already has 6 kids with 5 baby momma and he doesnt do a thing for them. And before u ridicule me....yes we did use a condom and it broke...so exactly whose fault is it? I am the one that insisted on the condom....then I later found out the bastard had hep c, and other stds....thank god i didnt get any of them...not even an std let alone hep c. I have alot of anger towards him....the only positive is I get a baby girl out of this mess...and i was married for 15yrs and on fertility drugs and never got pregnant...but met some shmuck and it happened when i wa just trying to protect myself from STDS....i never thought in a million years I would get pregnant to him. He drug overdosed in Sept. 2011 and now is in a state facility....for bein messed up mentally. So I abolutely know what it is like to be lied to and then ALONE AND PREGNANT. And I am old...I am 37. So if u have no relation to a a forum move on...and get a damn grip on reality. ↑ |
| Name: beba | Date: May 18th, 2012 8:54 PM |
| I feel lonely I feel like he's cheating Android keeping things from me I'm 6months And a couple weeks I don't know what to do and I don't want to stress I want to leave him but he doesn't seem to leave he's not the same anymore someone please help me ↑ |
| Name: Nikk1 | Date: May 23rd, 2012 9:23 AM |
BEBA,
the best thing to do is confront him with his cheating?
how exactly do you know he is cheating, are there any signs? like hes insepearble from his phone, goes out the room to speak to ppl or has password locks on his phone which your not allowed to access.
I had the same clues with my ex boyfriend of 6 years, but it turned out he was cheating and got his baby mother pregnant.
I ended the relationship and got myself pregnant by someone else because i needed to get rid off him. he just wouldnt go or let me go.
i too was stressed and depressed. I tried to stay and forgive. But countless times i would cry myself to sleep while he was sleeping next to me.
You can only do whats best for you. If he is cheating what will your next move be? will you leave him? because you are pregnant and trust me i know it is hard. because you need support during pregnancy.
My advice would be to build up your evidence if hes cheating because soon he will slip up. You also dont want to put up with being his door mat either. and consuder maybe you could be overthinking things because you are pregnant.
but you know when someones not being faithful.
Feel free to reply back to me xx ↑ |
| Name: macallan | Date: May 31st, 2012 4:59 AM |
| hello my name is macallan baxter and im looking to date a pregnant i love kids if interested email me [email protected] thanks ↑ |
| Name: steve | Date: Jul 13th, 2012 9:20 PM |
| Name: kitkatkate | Date: Aug 29th, 2012 2:38 PM |
| Hi Alyssa I know exactly how you feel.I was in a committed relationship with my ex for 2 years and 6 months and actually we are planning to get married but when I told him that I'm pregnant he told me that he's not ready yet to have another child(he already has a 13 year old son with his ex) so he asked me to have an abortion but he also told me that it's up to me because it's my body so the final decision is mine.so to cut the story short I continue my pregnancy because for me it's a blessing and I'm already 34 years old and I know deep within my heart that I wanted to have a child now.So he respected my decision but as the time goes by he faded away.btw we are in a longdistance relationship.I also do communicate wit him via email or ym but he seldom replies saying he hasno internet and he has no phone so I started to suspect that he wanted an easy way outwith the situation.One day I asked him if the baby will carry his name.he told me that he doesn't want to because we are not married and after that he seldom communicate.I always still leave him messages in fb and ym.and then one time he became irritated with m messages so he blocked me in fb and then he sent me a message that he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship right now because he's so stressed at work etc. etc. etc. so I was shocked I send so many messages asking why a sudden decision but he didn't reply.I was 7 months pregnant when he broke up with me.Now I have a very adorable and lovable son who is 2 months old.He still send me messages saying that he is wiling to support the baby but he doesn't want to be with me anymore.It is really painful thinking he left me just in time I needed him most.I never though in my wildest dream that he will do this to me because he mentioned before that if he will going to have a child again he will give his 100% because the mother of his first son doesn't want him to see their child.So he wants to make it up by giving his 100% to his next child.But why he did this to me.well I never asked this question to him because I know he won't reply.Btw he's already 35 years old so I don't get it why he is not ready to have a child now and we were planning to get married but when I told him that I was pregnant everything changes.sad but true:(till now I'm in a roller coaster of emotion sometimes I'm ok but sometimes I'm not. But thank you for my ever supportive family. ↑ |
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