| Name: lauren | Date: Dec 4th, 2007 12:12 AM |
| im 3 months pregnant and im due june 1st. I just moved out and left my boyfriend because hes an alcoholic and hes mentally abusive and treats me really bad he has one kid now and he gets behind the wheel and drives with his son w him. i dont want my child to be in danger like that and i need to find a way to keep my child away from him because it scares me and i have no idea what to do??? I need help! ↑ |
| Name: Jamie | Date: Dec 26th, 2007 8:39 PM |
| Name: Josephine | Date: Jan 17th, 2008 12:51 PM |
hi jenn! My names josie and im a 20yr old girl and i have just found out im pregnant!! im over the moon...but as for the father...he is not! i want to keep the baby and do it alone!! the father has got another girl pregnant to and doesnt want me to keep this one as basically he will get caught for the love rat he is!! im very upset thinking about the future ie me, him and the baby! but i know i will be doing this alone! and it is upsettin..knowing he wont be around for the birht..the 1st smile...walk...laugh...word! but i know its his loss and not ours!!! you need to think of it that way! your getting to see you beautifull daughter grow up!!
keep tyou chin up babes!!
xxxx ↑ |
| Name: meghan | Date: Jan 21st, 2008 4:15 PM |
Iam going to die cus I am haveing my baby and I am alon at
home ↑ |
| Name: steph_ | Date: Jan 21st, 2008 5:53 PM |
he will come around.
right now he might be in a little shock.
heck, i don't know.
i told the the father of my baby that i hoped he fell off the face of the earth and i don't want him to have anything at all to do with my baby girl.
but there are some good reasons behind that. ↑ |
| Name: nena | Date: Jan 22nd, 2008 7:46 PM |
| Name: kelsey | Date: Jan 26th, 2008 8:52 PM |
| i feel the same, my situation a little different my partner wanted a baby and once i found out i was pregnant- he told me to get rid of it. He left when i was 12 weeks pregnant and went back to a previous girlfriend.Since then he has caused me so much upset and now says he wants to be at the birth- as much as i dont want to go it alone im not sure i can deal with him at the birth after how he has treated me through the pregnancy. So in answer to your question i feel sad but then i realise im going to be their having the baby and will give it as much love as i can without any upset or a father that hasnt shown any support ↑ |
| Name: lonely | Date: Jan 27th, 2008 7:31 PM |
| Thank you to all the women. I thought I was going threw all by myself. I'm 5 weeks pragant, this going be my second baby. My boyfriend does want any thing to do with me any more. I feel very lonely and rejected. Asking God why he's acting like this. And this is going to be his first baby. All I tell my self the Lord would make a way out of no way. Just trust him, he would be my provider and also be my helper. ↑ |
| Name: Tia | Date: Feb 20th, 2008 2:04 AM |
| I am a single mother of two and they have seperate fathers. My daughter is 12 and my son is 7. I definitely thought that I wanted another child if I ever got married but now I am pregnant by a third man. He wants the baby but he is kind of a deadbeat and I finally broke it off with him only to find out that I am pregnant. I am worried that people will reject me plus I have no family support and have only one friend who is also a single mother of 5 so I don't want to ask to much of her. this is really hard and depressing for me and I am so lost and confused. I am trying to figure out how I will do this again. I guess the bottom line is that it all rests on me. I am so disappointed in myself for letting this happen. And I work in an environment where people are not so forgiving or understanding and they are very opinionated. On top of all of that I am one of two african american women in a department of 60people. So I am almost ashamed because I know that people will be talking about me behind my back which is also something that I just do not want to go through. But still I do not know if I can go through an abortion it just doesn't quite feel right. My only words of advise would be to do what feels best for you and make the most of it. Try and look forward to the longterm and just know that the baby will love you no matter what. Plenty of women have babies alone everyday all over the world. And plenty of women and children are left by the men even after the child is born so that still is no better. If you ask me it is his loss, you have to focus on yourself and the child. Baby may be better off without him, my daughters is now 12 and her father was horrible to this day on her own she has no interest in him, but that is his loss because she is a beautiful girl whom I love with all of my heart. ↑ |
| Name: elvagreen | Date: Feb 20th, 2008 2:19 AM |
| Many single moms may meet this condition. The only advice I can get to you is to be strong. Forget about that man. You may meet other people and find a new one on singleparentloving.com. ↑ |
| Name: Zita | Date: Mar 10th, 2008 7:14 PM |
| i understand you very well,and sorry for that.Well,lots of men are like this:( Very sad,but true.If u need talk to someone,its can be me:) ↑ |
| Name: loana | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 9:45 AM |
| If you need help ,I think i can do you a favor, in "soloparentdate.com" .the people in there are very kind ,they will do you a favor as possible as they can ↑ |
| Name: stephanie | Date: Mar 22nd, 2008 6:16 PM |
| Name: stephanie | Date: Mar 22nd, 2008 6:19 PM |
| ok at least u got preggo when u older i got preggo when i was 11 and i ran away form home when i found out and i never told my parents now i have a 3 year old child and i need help takin care of her and i havent seen my parents in 4 years beat that ↑ |
| Name: anga | Date: Mar 25th, 2008 9:40 AM |
| No, not at all. If he wants nothing to do with his child then f*** him. ↑ |
| Name: Lonely_mum | Date: Mar 29th, 2008 7:29 AM |
| I am on the same boat. Daddy dont want to know anything about my pregnancy, evolution, blocked all my emails, changed his phone number...well you name it! I am due on may 26, which is his birthday also and seems that nothing of my efforts are working.... ↑ |
| Name: Kayla | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 12:12 AM |
| i have 2 kids to the same guy...my son is 21 months and my daughter is alomst 3 weeks old...my ex wasn't there for either delivery and yah not gonna lie it sucked so much because i love him and he was the only one i wanted there...but some guys are still just boys and aren't mature enough to take care of something they also had part in...honestly do u want him in the delivery room only to start an arguement or to stress u out which will only hurt the baby and even u and yah maybe he'll be in the delivery room but whos to say he'll stay in the childs life after that...guys just suck and i guess us girls just have to live with that and hope for the best...good luck ↑ |
| Name: Lyssa | Date: Mar 31st, 2008 5:44 AM |
| I am 25 wks pregnant with my 3rd son and am completely alone. I have no family support and right now the father maybe contacts me once every 2 mos and never mentions being there for his son. Unfortunately my ex took my 1st son from me b/c he was married and the court decided he was better at taking care of him and my 2nd son's father up and ran like he was on fire. So here I am with my 3rd on the way and left with no support system whatsoever not even friends. Because my ex kicked me and my 4yr old out we live in a hotel and my job isnt enough to get a place and make sure we have a roof til I can get a place. Then there is the fact that I cant buy a single thing for this baby. I'm at my wits end I want to just cry because there is nothing worse than being completely isolated. I don't know how I'm getting to the hospital, who will watch my 4yr old while I'm in the hospital and how we will get home from the hospital. Not to mention how we will live with 6wks off with no pay. I have to have a 3rd C section so then I have to do all of this take care of 2 kids and try to heal from major surgery. I just want to throw in the towel. The baby's father was supposed to be this good guy and when I started seeing the doubts and stuff appear in him I voiced my concerns and got kicked out. Now he's acting like the deadbeat his family swore up and down he wasn't. I don't know what to do. ↑ |
| Name: yrral | Date: Apr 1st, 2008 6:11 PM |
| well at leat evreyone on here man who they got preggo by isnt married with two kids already and the funny part is i still want him i knew he had a wife when i first met him i just thought he would leave after being with me . now iam 8 weeks preggo and alone i havent told him either i want to but iam scared so iam wondering if i should get a abortion and move on because i already have a three year old son by another man iam so confused i want the baby beacuse it by him though ..iam 21 and hes 34 i think he was just playing with my feelings now that i think about it .. ↑ |
| Name: phillip evans | Date: Apr 2nd, 2008 11:24 AM |
well love i am very sorry to hear about what that man is doing to you and your baby. i no its not nice i am a single dad i think and i wish i can see her and the baby but now they have moved away i have none to be with and i realy want to be with some one that haves a baby already that i can be a step dad to proberly
xx ↑ |
| Name: lacy | Date: Apr 3rd, 2008 3:01 PM |
| i was wondering if sonme one could send me some information on single teen mothers. im 15 and am writing a paper on this topic and am also pregnaunt myself. send it to me at [email protected]. thanks. ↑ |
| Name: Share Your Story w/ Us | Date: Apr 8th, 2008 10:37 PM |
Hi~
I'm casting a documentary that focuses on teen girls who are pregnant. The documentary is a groundbreaking project that will give the chosen girls a voice and an opportunity, to share what their lives are like as they enter the next chapter of their lives.
That being said, as time is of the essence, if you are a pregnant teen (or know someone who is), we hope to speak with you as soon as possible. Also, please know that if chosen, the girls will be compensated for their time.
Best Regards,
Lande Yoosuf
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: pock | Date: Apr 10th, 2008 5:19 PM |
| hi tell me about you so we can chat email me so we can k [email protected]. K ↑ |
| Name: christydew | Date: Apr 11th, 2008 1:12 AM |
| I'm definitely going to be sad. Sad that my child will not know it's father and lack of support for me. However, I just keep telling myself that my child and I are better off without him and a world of opportunity awaits. ↑ |
| Name: mak's_mommy | Date: Apr 17th, 2008 10:02 PM |
| I am in the sabe boat as many of you girls. I am 34 weeks preggo and the father of my baby, an airforce soldier, decided not to have any contact with me and he simply ignored me and the fact I am pregnant. I sent him lots of u/s images, letters, I have contacted his mother and she said is better to have the ADn test which I am ok with that, but nothing about him...Sometimes I feel really depressed since I have to pay for everything and its hard, but my baby worth it......Thanks God I have lots of suportive friends who are always there for me....Chin up! We can! ↑ |
| Name: solo | Date: Apr 18th, 2008 8:07 AM |
| well.....you'd better make more friends in this period. I can not image what a terrible situation when you live alone ! As I know here is a great place for you . Singleparentloving.com******Maybe you may find a new father for you baby ! ↑ |
| Name: Cassie | Date: Apr 18th, 2008 7:33 PM |
| Hiya Hun, I know exactly how you feel. I've got 2 children with my ex. He hasn't ever seen my youngest who is now nearly 11 months old, he buggered off when i was 10 weeks pregnant. My eldest is 3 and can't even remember his dad. It is hard, I've tried all sorts to get him to face up but he won't. It has been really tough I cried for what seemed like months. But now I realise that I am so much better off without him and so are my children. I throw myself into looking after my children and giving them the best start in life, I'm starting a degree course in Oct and I spend alot of time with friends and family too. What I'm trying to say is don't beat yourself up over this loser your daughter is better off with 1 very good parent than with 2 who argue or don't get on. He clearly isn't going to be a good influence on your daughter. Maybe in time he will want to know, but for now focus on the 2 of you. But something I will say is don't allow your daughter to grow up around people who will slag her father off no matter what he's done because it will only blow up in your face hun. Good Luck xxx ↑ |
| Name: mel | Date: May 7th, 2008 8:02 AM |
Hi there,
my son is now 16 years old and a credit to me,
Ihad him on my own, without the father present same situation as you. When my son was born he had low sugar and had to go into special care, As i was wheeled back to my bed I had the biggest grin across my face that could not of been wiped off, look love I did not even have a friend with me when I gave birth I did it all By myself. So what I am trying to say is that noone can take that special momment from you. Also guess ehat the child fathe rdid want to know in the end. As I have said my son is now 16 and a credit to me he causes me no trouble or pain Though my son is in contact with his father he can not take any credit for the way he is grown up that is all mine. I wish you the best of luck be strong god bless ↑ |
| Name: shelese12 | Date: May 7th, 2008 11:29 PM |
| whatz up you guys well im 19 9y/o an I just found out that I am pregnat I am very confused right now cuz i just got accepted into a university an what not but I just wanted some1 to talk to some that can relate to me so if u wanna talk plz get @ me ↑ |
| Name: claire | Date: May 8th, 2008 7:34 AM |
hi, im also looking at the aspect of being a sinle mum, im only 9 weeks pregnant so i guess i still have a long time to go, but it seems so scary, the dad is still kinda around but im sure it wont be for much longer,, he still wnats to enjoy his life , well thats what he says..
so i guess i will also be alone when im having the baby, the only thing im holding on to is my friends and the fact i need to be strong for my baby, you know you can do it, with the dad or not,, yeah it will be harder somedays but it will be ok in the end, their are days when i feel so sad i just dont wanna carry on anymore, but then i remember the baby, and how much joy it will bring you, its going to be the dad's loss in the end, we will both be blessed with beautiful babies . ↑ |
| Name: SArah | Date: May 15th, 2008 9:59 PM |
| I am in the same boat you are ↑ |
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