| Name: SArah | Date: May 15th, 2008 9:59 PM |
| I am in the same boat you are ↑ |
| Name: CLM | Date: May 23rd, 2008 2:12 AM |
| Name: debramac | Date: Jul 27th, 2008 6:30 PM |
| haven't any of you girls heard of birth control, especially the ones with multiple babies? ↑ |
| Name: lisasing | Date: Jul 28th, 2008 1:07 AM |
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| Name: a girl | Date: Aug 16th, 2008 8:21 PM |
| for the poster who said something about these GIRLS using birth control? well there is such a thing as condoms, and most men don't use them, and they should. I was with guy that refused to use them and i got pregnant by him, and he is pissed and left. WEll guess what he had condoms in his drawer all this time! So he was sleeping with other girls with condoms but refusing to use them with me. So I guess he wanted another baby. He is a complete loser. ↑ |
| Name: pregnant by a loser | Date: Aug 16th, 2008 8:28 PM |
| Some girls cannot use hormonal birth control, and can only rely on condoms. And no birth control is 100%. So who gives these guys the permission to dumps loads in women and just walk away when she becomes pregant. Get real. Most of these guys know damn well what they are doing. And then act like idiots when these things happen. If your gonna play your gonna pay. Sex comes with a price tag. Both girl and guy are resposible for using birth control.. not just the girl. Its time for everone to take responsiblity for their fertility.. these guys need a wake up call. Take him to the cleaners. Get everything thing that you can. Take him to court and get child support. Don't delay.!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: youngzhang1982 | Date: Aug 27th, 2008 12:50 AM |
thanks for the message, i think you catch my attention is not just by your looking, i prefer the women has her natural beauty in their heart. i am an adult and i do not believe in true love, but i trust life-long marriage. so my wish is my future wife is never married before, if they have children, that is fine, we can raise them up together with my own children. oh, my hobby is walking, reading and enjoy the good food. actually, my plan is after my marriage, i will give my wife 50% my salary, if we have children. i will give her another 10%, i need keep 40% my salary is enough, maybe 20% to support my mum and dad later, i think i just belong to the middle class, one house and one boat, two or three car, own my own land and some restaurant business, i want to open my own sushi bar later in San Francisco area. anyway, life is short, i will try my best, work hard and glory the God, help more people. i think i believe in god since i am a postgraduate student in england nottingham, i need do two part time restaurant job to survive, pay my rent and pay my tuition fee, life goes the hardest way, every night when i finish my night shift job, i pass by one 700 years old church, jesus picture is just there on the window, i pray him to give me some peace in my heart, Jesus is always ready to listen and he is a great father. i think i will follow his rule whole my life, i never married and so far i have no children, but i do not want divorce, i can sign contract with my lawyer, if i divorce due to my family affair, i am willing to pay 80% my salary to my children as penalty fee, i believe i am the only few can do this in Seattle area, haha.....nice talk to you, if you want to meet, i think i have time next week, by the way, if you really want to go step further on our future relationship, i think i do not need bother to date other women, i believe i am a honest man and i am a good family man too.
best regards
young
ps: my resume
4748 19th AVE seattle, WA 98105, Tel: 206-816-5015 Email: [email protected] / Gender: Male
Education:
Ph.D in University of Washington, focus on organisation design and financial management. (January 2006- present)
Master degree in research (Mphil) in manufacturing engineering, manufacturing organization research group, Loughborough University, Leicestershire, England, UK. (Sep 2003- Dec 2005)
Dissertation topic: Building a boundaryless leagile manufacturing organization through HITOP method. Advisor: Professor Neil Burns (editor of IJPR) ( Email: [email protected] )
Master degree in Science (Msc) in Electrical engineering, University of Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England, UK (Sep 2002-Sep 2003) Thesis topic: Extra high voltage (EHV) power transmission control in China three Gorges project using Newton Raphson method and Mathlab computer iteration method. Advisor: Dr Dave.Thomas (Email:[email protected] )
Bsc in Mechanical Engineering, Dalian University of Technology, Dalian city, China (Sep 1990-July 1994) Thesis topic: Testing a new diamond cutting tool material performance in Japanese Sanyo Company through comparing with other traditional cutting tools. Advisor: Dr Hong Tao Zhang. (Head of cutting tools research group)
Experience:
Academic Research: I: I worked as a research Assistant at Wichita state university on the subject of Industry engineering. The main focus of the research is on lean and green manufacturing system design for Boeing Company in Wichita, Kansas. Since Boeing Company set the goal to be "100% lean and green company" in 2011, I as a researcher focused on waste management and energy conservation in order to achieve the goal. After years of experiment on a small motor workshop provided by private companies, we have achieved to reduce the waste and contamination by 35 percents. The quality of the motor increased by 25 percents by detail cleaning and better combustion technology.II: When I was completing my master in electrical engineering at University of Nottingham, I worked at fire-power station in England Nottingham city. I worked on power transfer through super-computer. The use of C++ and Java was needed and the station was responsible for providing power for more than three million people in the surrounding cities called East-Middle land area including Birmingham city, Nottingham city and south Manchester city.
Working experience:
1: Electrical engineer: Seattle Trident seafood company, help solving the seafood manufacturing line mechanical and electrical problem.01/2008-Present.
2: Manufacturing supervisor: Japan Mabuchi motor company in Hong Kong china, in charge of one plastic injection molding workshop following ISO 9002/ 14001 standard. (Sep 1994-Nov 2001) This company has worldwide reputation on mini DC motor products and its customers include Sony, Toshiba, Sanyo, Sharp and HP, Ford companies, through Japanese Just-in-time management, my workshop quality has been improved from 67 percent to 95 percent, on October 1999, my workshop quality reaches to 100 percent , because of this distinguish quality improvement, I won Tokyo silver medal for Quality improvement.Language: Fluent in English and Chinese. A little bit Japanese and Spanish and France language.
you can find my photo at www.hi5.com, user name is [email protected], password is 12345. thanks ↑ |
| Name: Lizzie | Date: Sep 2nd, 2008 9:54 PM |
| im having my baby on thursday, and i am feeling these horrible pains in my thighs and i keep throwing up and HELP ↑ |
| Name: nice08 | Date: Sep 3rd, 2008 6:50 AM |
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| Name: julia | Date: Oct 4th, 2008 4:27 PM |
| i really feel for you. but i am sure maybe if you have a family or friends to help you you will be ok. if you dont have people you must learn to trust only yourself and believe with your whole heart you can raise this baby alone. i wish i was able to have a child even without a man. ↑ |
| Name: caytlyn | Date: Oct 26th, 2008 3:17 PM |
| Name: lea | Date: Nov 18th, 2008 12:20 PM |
| i just found out i am pregnant me and my partner were together 5 years we planned this baby and now he want nothing too to with it .i feel so depressd with no one to turn to he want even talk to me i will keep my baby but i know thing will be hard on my own.why do men do this it takes two to make a babie. ↑ |
| Name: cbrake7274 | Date: Nov 19th, 2008 5:57 AM |
i am pregnants right now i am due in 12 days... i am 23 years old and the dad left me after a year of being an angel the minute i told him i was pregnant... i have m.s. and fibromyalgia he took care of me like i was his world but then left me when i got the good news... i feel so lost and so scared now that it is this close and he is not anywhere to be found...
***** why do i still care about him? ↑ |
| Name: janet | Date: Nov 21st, 2008 1:17 AM |
| Name: nani | Date: Dec 10th, 2008 6:08 PM |
| i feel the same way like my babi daddy is not comin back either i mean he found someone esle and im on it alone and idk how ima take care of it....i feel like cryyin all the time but i stonger then that and so are u we can get tho this togather...... ↑ |
| Name: kelly | Date: Dec 11th, 2008 1:22 AM |
| im eighteen and i broken up ith my boyfiend and last week found out i ws goin be a mum. he has moved on and dont no what to do he says to me just move on. help ↑ |
| Name: KELLY | Date: Dec 11th, 2008 11:22 PM |
im strugglein to comes to terms with being pregnant...
i dont want to be a single mum :(
feeling soo low..how can they do this to you.and he is in a nu relationship and doesnt want to kno me how can i move on??
liveing at mum and dad's again..you dont understand what he is like..dont kno how to tell people at work...
and what people are going to think about me..
iam still in love with him..how am i going to get over him?? Help!! ↑ |
| Name: JoshDennis | Date: Dec 13th, 2008 10:55 AM |
am a single parent to my daughter n its too hard for guy to grow up a child on his own .
am confused wiv most kids stuff all the time ....its hard but am doin it wiv all the best effort i can.
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| Name: Joy | Date: Jan 24th, 2009 12:50 PM |
| Heck No! I am in the same situation but I realize that my baby is a gift from God. You need to rejoice whether the father shows up or not. Remember, it's his loss. ↑ |
| Name: rachel | Date: Feb 27th, 2009 4:40 PM |
| i am in the same issue i never wanted any more kids i have one hes 12 from being marred my husband beat me i left him after 1 year and never saw him again hes never wanted to see his son. i tryed to live with some one untill last september and just found out i am 4 months,now 22 weeks ive been seeing some one on and off for 10 years after being marred and we started see each other after september i dont know if the babys one or the others i never wanted to do this again let alone i losted my mom 2 years ago 2 i feel so alone but belive me i cry all the time but i know i will feel better onece the baby is hear . ↑ |
| Name: Soni | Date: Feb 28th, 2009 4:42 AM |
| I hear your pain. I am 8 weeks away from giving birth and my partner and I have just split. I should be so excited about having a baby but I am totally depressed and worried sick about how I am going to survive both physically, mentally and financially. ↑ |
| Name: julia | Date: Mar 4th, 2009 1:12 AM |
| I am really scared because im only *sniffles* 16. did i 4get 2 mention im pregnant? well im due in a month! ive decided on a homebirth alone cuz ive read stuff about hospitals... anyway good luck 2 any other teenage pregnancy victimz. ↑ |
| Name: saviemissesalan | Date: Mar 4th, 2009 7:44 PM |
| im 13 the father of my baby is 24 he loves me but doesent want his son he diddent think it was his so icalled the sheriff and he came and got dna and it proved it was his baby. when i was in the hospital room alone with the baby i called him an asked him if he wanted to know his sons name he said no now our son i 2 months and still hasent seen his father. i have dreams hes in his life and then i wake up and go back to sleep and i dream he comes in to his life when hes 6 or 7 and tells him hes his father and our son starts screaming i dont have a father it hurts me soo bad eventhough i know its a dream. ↑ |
| Name: AddisonsMommy | Date: Apr 1st, 2009 5:36 PM |
| I know how you feel. I went from having support during my pregnancy to being told that he wants nothing to do with any of it about 3 weeks ago. He told me not to call because he didnt care and he didnt want to know anything. He even went as far as saying that the baby isnt his. It hurt really badly because he crushed my dreams of us doing it together. Its hard to understand. You want to believe that having a child is just as important to the guy as it is us, but I dont think they have the bond like we do carrying these babies. You are not alone. Im 36 weeks and so close to having her. At this point I have accepted what he has told me and I just see it as his loss. I still cry and it still hurts, but you have to realize that just because he's not there doesnt mean it's going to be a bad experience. I hear when you see and hold your baby for the first time, you forget about everything else. Keep your head up! ↑ |
| Name: tashi | Date: Apr 7th, 2009 1:21 PM |
Hi Jenn, I'm in simular situation.
I am pregnent 13 wks, with someone who i used to work with. I used the nessecery precations, but still got pregnant. I only found out two weeks ago. He has since asked me to have an abortion with i'm not willing to do, regardless to how unplanned this was. I feel so low, and as though nothings going to be right again. I'm scared to deth, but i know onw thing, i'm going to do right by my baby, who didn't ask to be put created. The feeling depressed constantly i can totally relate to. Its crushing. ↑ |
| Name: ameemac | Date: Apr 7th, 2009 7:15 PM |
| I felt this way when I was pregnant with my son who is now 6. My sons father was out of the country as well, he was deployed in the army, but he prob wouldnt have come anyway. He would have prob said he would, but would have pretended he got deployed. It sucks to know and think that your delivery is not going to be complete b/c the father is not there to share it with you, but there is on amazing thing I can tell you. Once you hold your baby in your arms, all of that will fade away. Your meaning will be right there in your arms. Your best friend. I was of course a little sad when I was in my room all by myself when my mother was at work, and wished I could of had a nice happy family (father me and my baby) in the room together. But everytime I looked down at my newborn, it gave me strength. I said F* it. What could be more perfect than you having a child? Nothing..It's beautiful. I hope this helped a little. ↑ |
| Name: kayla | Date: May 16th, 2009 3:25 PM |
| yes, i'm 6 months pregnant and my babies father begged me to have his baby but then after i got pregnant he became emotionally and physically abusive and i had to have him put in jail and he wont be able to be around his child until he gets serious help. this kills me, its gotta be the sadest thing ive ever had to deal with ↑ |
| Name: Tasha | Date: May 24th, 2009 4:33 AM |
| Hi, I am in the same boat as you and I am also devasted. We are not alone though, hundreds of women go through this every day.....we are strong!!! My man which is now my ex is out partying every night, sleeping with numerous women and spending all his money on them....when his baby is due in 17 days. I know the weasel will want to come around after the baby is here, HELL NO!!! Hang in there girl, we can do it......... ↑ |
| Name: carolina | Date: Jun 1st, 2009 7:27 PM |
| i am 6 months pregnant. my situation is i see him. he knows things about me because of mutual friends but ignores me, left me pregnant and acts as if he does not care. i afraid to do it on my own. it is my first baby and pregnancy in turn he has 5 other children. his rejection kills me. i know i shouldnt put my baby thru this emotions but i can't help it since my one and only mistake was to love him unconditionally... ↑ |
| Name: Honey | Date: Jun 19th, 2009 7:50 PM |
| I am with all the single mothers.... i was with a man who was a pimp and we were having sex without a condom for almost a year and everytime he cum in me he says "YOUR GOING TO HAVE MY SON" i always told him im not..... but what do you know i got pregnant and am now 3 months and i told him and all he has to say is "PAY ME" I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AND I DO CRY BECAUSE I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY A MAN SAYS HE'S A MAN BUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO PLAY THE PART WE BOTH MADE HE'S GONE...... im so stressed.......... ↑ |
| Name: meg | Date: Aug 27th, 2009 8:51 PM |
| help i need help i am having my baby right now. ahhhhh ↑ |
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