| Name: meg | Date: Aug 27th, 2009 8:51 PM |
| help i need help i am having my baby right now. ahhhhh ↑ |
| Name: keisha | Date: Sep 2nd, 2009 2:06 PM |
| i know what u mean.my boyfriend tempered with the condom when i was ovulating and i got pregnant.didnt want the baby but he was so happy.two weeks ago he changed ,he stopped calling or texting.i've cried myself to sleep several times,but as from today i will try to be positive all the time.we need to trust God coz he wont ignore or leave u.he is always available 24/7.he is the greatest father of them all ↑ |
| Name: NJ | Date: Sep 10th, 2009 12:51 PM |
It seems we all have our own stories to tell. I am so surprised how common this is. I think its appalling for a man to leave a woman when she is pregnant.
I am 41. My daughters are 20 and 22!!!! So its parenting at both ends of the spectrum for me! My partner is the same age as me. He has decided he already has a son and doesnt want anotehr child. He is an amazing father to his child. So i dont understand his behaviour.
But there is a god... help will come when you need it. I have a lot of friends. A lot of people around. Both of my daughters have left home now, so i live here on my own. I am 19 weeks pregnant. The baby is due Feb 2nd... I work full time have a mortgage, i cannot afford childcare.
But i see this as a blessing in life... he said either have an abortion at 19 weeks or he doesnt want to know. he doesnt want to be a father. He disgusts me. His behaviour has disgusted me. I want him to be a father for the sake of the child. As our child deserves a father. And he is 41 so old enough to know what he was doing. I can only hope he can sort his head out, and come out of his cage, if he doesnt --- well then that will truly be his loss and my gain. And our childs loss i guess.
I have m y scan tomorrow, so i hope to find out if i am having a son or a daughter...I am so excited about that, he cant take that away from me :) ↑ |
| Name: melissa | Date: Sep 27th, 2009 2:47 AM |
| yes i feel terrible my babys father wont be at the delivery of my baby.Like you i am 3 months pregnant the father of my child broke up with me 3 weeks ago kicked me out of our home and left me with basically nothing.I am heartbroken as it seemed we were in love and he wanted this baby and it was planned.I have heard not a word from him since i send him texts and emails and i hear nothing! i have asked him for help and he has refused. you have to come to terms with it i relise this man dosnt deserve me we can do better everything will be fine have a best friend or family member with you and know your not alone! you and your baby can do better. ↑ |
| Name: crystalmarie | Date: Feb 7th, 2010 3:17 AM |
Hello I am 1 week away from being five months pregnant. I too got pregnant on birth control, I cannot believe it still, must be god's will. I was once upon a time happily married until my wonderful husband turned into the biggest junkie I had ever heard of... I thought for sure that I wouldn't ove again, at least this soon, but another man has come into my life and I do love him. I still cannot believe it, so anyway it's his baby and we are living together with my precious daughter Juls, whom Chris (the b/f) loves and cares for. He's a good person with many decent values and his family is much nicer than my in-laws and they love juls and I, but Chris and I are both dealing with depression and I am treating mine, where he is not. I don't mean to sound critical and I realize that no relationship is perfect but it's extremely hard some days. He acts as if I don't exist, or if I talk to him I'm bothering him, or he makes me out to be a complainer, tells me I take stuff too personal. I am very sensitive right now b/c I've filed for divorce and recently lost my beloved, best-friend, my brother and I miss him soo much. I know he's in heaven, but I want him here. I'm hurting everyday b/c I just want consistency and support everyday and I'm not getting that with him, and the most painful part about is that we have a really good connection and friendship when things are good! Like unbelieveably adorable, but not all of the time. So is it unfair of me to want this everyday? Why do I believe in my heart that I could have this everyday, Oh yeah that's right because I once did...
I just feel so alone anymore and my whole family has turned against each other over my brother's death, I'm running out of answers and tired of hurting, I could crawl up and die but I know that Julie needs me and I couldn't do that to her. Thanks for listening and god bless everyone. I hope we can all get through these tough times [3 ↑ |
| Name: Taylor | Date: Feb 17th, 2010 12:35 AM |
| i am a single pregnant teen. 15 that is. My boyfriend(baby daddy) was just recently shot in the heart and dies. its so hard to talk about this but i feel your pain hun ↑ |
| Name: santana | Date: Feb 17th, 2010 8:05 PM |
yea, i got pregnant from someone that was in and out of a relation
ship with another female and he promised me he left her for good but we had a fight in i put him out now he's back with her and she's calln and emailing me sayn he's not coming around ever i'll be having my baby alone he never said that but she's telln me everything i'm leaving on his voicemail and text messages so he must be leting her hear my messages i guess he feels that way ↑ |
| Name: Gail Titchener | Date: Mar 2nd, 2010 8:28 PM |
Hello
My name is Gail Titchener and I am a freelance writer
contributing to women's magazines.
I am currently looking for case studies for The Mirror, and would like to speak to women who have adopted a baby alone; used a sperm donor; 'tricked' an ex into having a baby; or had a one night stand purely to become a mum.
'Your story must not have appeared previously in any
other magazines and you must be willing to be
photographed. If your story is published you will, of
course, be paid.
'If you think you might have a story for me please
get in touch at:
[email protected]
Thank you for taking the time to read my email.
Gail ↑ |
| Name: Dobbie32 | Date: Mar 4th, 2010 3:42 PM |
hello,Jenn,
did you every think of putting your baby up for adoption? because their are so many couples that want to have a baby but cant and their would love to adopt a new born baby we are reading this to you because we know how it feel not to have more children of our own thats right we cant have any more children because the wife had a tubal-ligation done so if you do think of putting you baby up for adoption call us at 843-774-5824 or email us at [email protected]
thanks and may god bless you.
sincerly
mr.&mrs. jerry carmichael & family ↑ |
| Name: aname | Date: Mar 28th, 2010 9:12 AM |
| Name: Harri | Date: May 10th, 2010 11:01 PM |
| Im in a situation of having my baby alone,i dont have anywhere to live and noone to be with me at the birth. I am so very scared i cry everynight,but i am having my baby in the next two weeks and even though i dont know what i am going to do i am praying it all works out because id never want to give him up. I want my baby so much im just so sad he isnt going to have the life i wanted for him. I desperatly dont want to be alone for the birth but i dont have an option. I just hope when hes here i will be able to cope,for him. Good luck ↑ |
| Name: unknown | Date: May 22nd, 2010 9:20 PM |
| hi, i no the feeling..i recently had a baby boy..and the father was from brazil..and had only ever seen his son twice in the hospital since he was born..he was asked millions of times to come visit him, but he used my family as an excuse as why he never did..the worst thing is he still swears he loves his baby..and yet the other day went baqck home to brazil without even telling me or saying goodbye to me or his baby!! after he swore hed never leave me..hed never leave me alone in this..i dont understand the hearts and minds of some people..but i feel so lost and scared..i feel like i cant breath..and no one can help.l.its hard enough i just had the baby just over a month ago..but to have this..its to much..i feel like im dying inside..and the pain wont stop..no matter how strong i try to be..i wanted him at the delivery to..but he never replyed to me..i was alone..he hasint paid anything towards his baby either..and now he is back in brazil..he never will..he is young but so am i..and i just feel like someone i loved died. :( ↑ |
| Name: matt1 | Date: May 23rd, 2010 12:06 PM |
| unknown, can I email you? ↑ |
| Name: lonely | Date: Jun 6th, 2010 1:30 AM |
| I meet this guy and we started messing around, I only knew him for month found out that i was pregnant, told him and he told me to get ride of it, I do not believe in abortions so i am having it, but i found out that he lied about everything, which i feel kind of bad, because he is not going to be around, I told him that he can sign papers to relinquish his parental right, but he has not, so I am just gonna have to do it alone. ↑ |
| Name: koopakiddd | Date: Jul 7th, 2010 3:12 AM |
| I'm in the same situation. Only the father left for another girl. ↑ |
| Name: teegan | Date: Jul 10th, 2010 8:05 PM |
| Yes i feel like that and the father was the one whom talked me into getting pregnant then when i did get pregnant changed he shows no interest anymore i know this is now something i am alone with ↑ |
| Name: michelle | Date: Aug 8th, 2010 1:43 PM |
| i just now pregnant and my boyfriend say to me him dont want be anymore with me him just coul with me and him say kill the babe but i cant becouse in me live a life and i want when him stay with me but if him dont want is not my foult ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Aug 30th, 2010 3:41 AM |
| Name: kiran | Date: Sep 25th, 2010 8:40 AM |
hi my is kiran i have two kids on e is of 3 years and second one is of 1 year and 6month here i want to tell that both my deleivery is by opration now my prblem is that i gian lot of fat on my stomach i just want to know how to reduce this fat
ragards
kiran ↑ |
| Name: Deanna | Date: Oct 3rd, 2010 3:32 AM |
Im having a scheduled c on Monday ALONE. I cry non stop thinking that I am all alone. This is my second child alone.
I'm 42 and my family doesn't live close. Friends ...do they really exist? I think about if I was like many of forty something friends who are childless... I would rather have a depressing time now but still get to have a family in my old age. Wish I had a better picker. I chose two of the poorest, heartless losers in LA. I am not getting phone calls returned by the father..how do some people live with themselves. ↑ |
| Name: Melissa | Date: Oct 3rd, 2010 2:58 PM |
| Your dealing with a very tough situation. I went through it with my 5 year old son when he was born. His dad has never really been around for him and certainly wasn't there when he was born. I was young and scared but I surrounded myself with my family and friends who chose to be there for me and my son. Surround yourself with nothing but positive energy and supportive people. I am now expecting my second son in 4 weeks from the same man and once again he will not be there when I give birth, I am not scared this time, I am sad for my children becasue their father is a career criminal and becasue of his choices he can not see his children. But as long as my children have me like your little girl will have you, they have all the love in the world. Be strong and take care. Good luck to you. ↑ |
| Name: mutuu | Date: Oct 18th, 2010 11:33 PM |
| Name: Ashley | Date: Nov 5th, 2010 10:27 PM |
| Hi I just wanted to see if I can get any helpful advice on here I'm pregnant my babys dad is in jail for some problems me and him had, he has no idea I'm pregnant I don't know if I should tell him about it? And if he has any rights? Or should I even put him down for the birth certificate? Pls let me know what u guys think! Thanks* ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Nov 24th, 2010 3:33 PM |
| I know how you feel. I am a mother of three and just found out i am pregnant with number 4. I told my husband and he asked me if i was sure it was his because he thinks he was out of town around the time i got pregnant. I know for a fact that this baby is his because I have only ever been with him. He knows that but it hurt that he asked me that question. Now he is just acting pissed off, and like he hates me. When he told his brother that we were having another baby he said "I cant believe this happen we were using protection." It made me feel so hurt and sad. He is acting like I planned this. He has asked me for a divorce and said that he wants a DNA test for this baby. I think he has someone else. I just cry myself to sleep every night and cry in the middle of the day. I hate that he is doing this to me, our children and our unborn baby. I told him he could have his DNA test but when it comes back as his baby he will owe me an apology and enough child support that he will not be able to have a girlfriend, ↑ |
| Name: bre_j | Date: Dec 27th, 2010 9:46 PM |
| im in a similar situation. my daughter's father lives in ny and i live in fl. he's not coming to see the baby be born or be apart of the child that we already have's life. this makes me very depressed. Especially because he was the only person thre for the birth of our son. i kno how you feel. If i could i'd go be there for you during the birth of your child =]. ↑ |
| Name: primm | Date: Dec 28th, 2010 2:03 AM |
Hello… My name is Angela and I am a Christian. I am 28 yrs old, and my husband is 30 yrs old. We live on 5 acres of land..I live in Tennessee. I love it here. It is so green, beautiful, country setting, quiet, nice people, freedom, and more. I am married and I also have 4 beautiful children. I have 1 girl and 3 boys. I am in the U.S. My family is very close and we are very good parents. My husband works, and I stay home with the children. I like to devote all my time to my family. They mean the world to me. All my kids are straight A students, all but one cus hes in Pre-K. and all my kids are active in School sports, as in cheerleading, the jump rope team, the football team, softball, and more. We are also into our church. Wed and sundays for sunday school church.. i have all pics of all there sports as i said. I love scrapbooking n photograpy as a hobby,, and i love doing them all of my kids. I have many pics I can send you, n send n e type of information u need to see to know we are a great family to adopt. Adopting a child into a good home is what i really want to do. A child is a lifetime miracle, and if we can give a child a loven home and into our family, we would be sooo blessed. Please email for any more information you would like. I would love to talk. U are welcome to email me to my email address at
[email protected] My family would like to adopt any race.. And any age… I would like to say this plse only email me if u are very serious because we hurt 2 times already and we don’t wanna go through that again. Plse email me [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: SONIA | Date: Jan 3rd, 2011 5:53 PM |
| hi Jenn, I was in a similar situation where I was left by my childs father at four months pregnant, he came back when my child was eight months old because he was told to by authorities, I had a breakdown as I had no support system in place and too much pride, my advice is to get ready for the biggest change to your life and please make sure you have friends and a support network. It is important for the new baby too. ↑ |
| Name: mo.betta | Date: May 6th, 2011 6:54 AM |
| Yes I'm sad n I cry all the time but I try to b strong for my son bc ik he needs me n it will b his fathers lost not to c him. It hurts we been together for the last 4yrs n at 4 months he left n said he don't want a baby n he will only come back n marry me if I have an abortion I choose my son. I maybe sad now but ik when he is born I will b happy ↑ |
| Name: Christine | Date: Feb 2nd, 2012 1:32 AM |
| Having some hard days lately, a womens heart can lead her to bad places, here I am second baby, no father around, and probably won't see my child like the first one, trying to make peace with it, going to church, praying, trying to keep my m ind off the shoulda, coulda, wouldas, it just doesn't feel natural to go through this again, I have put the white flag up, and am bowing out gracefully! ↑ |
| Name: Michelle | Date: Mar 6th, 2012 5:35 AM |
| my ex begged and begged me to have a baby with him before he went into the military. I got pregnant then suddenly it was all my fault and I needed to get rid of the baby because I'm a bitch and just want him for his money and all this other stuff. anyway he left and I haven't heard so much as a peep from him since I was 10 weeks. and thank god I was upset at first don't get me wrong everyone for all the right reasons want a partner in sharing in this experience of bringing new life into the world but now that I think back about it I'm glad I didn't have to deal with him and the mental stress and abuse. the way i look at it is that I'm glad he's not going to be there so I won't have a stressful and negatively emotional delivery and I can focus on bonding with my new born baby. ↑ |
| Name: Ginger | Date: Mar 7th, 2012 5:01 AM |
| sorry to hear...mine decided he didn't want to be a dad after child was born ↑ |
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